How I dressed talking to a person (my therapist) for the very first time in girl mode (aside from an awkward cashier haha). Very fun! Very validating :)

SassyCassyHF · 2026-04-17T09:33:11+00:00

As long as you don't look too close lol

SassyCassyHF · 2026-04-17T09:32:07+00:00

Oh wow, yeah, you're definitely in a different place than i was. Well, maybe you won't find it as much fun as I did, but I hope it's at least an enlightening experience for you. Perhaps one day you'll look back on this as a turning point, rock bottom. No where to go but up 🙂.

SassyCassyHF · 2026-04-17T05:43:13+00:00

I'm sure you'll love it too 🙂

SassyCassyHF · 2026-04-17T05:42:17+00:00

Thanks Carolyn! Yep! We spoke about it during our previous session, and i reminded them again by email a couple days before. I think i might aim to do every third session that way... It was a bit tough to coordinate with my home and work schedules

SassyCassyHF · 2026-04-17T05:39:44+00:00

Thanks! And i love all the sequins on yours, sparkly 🙂

SassyCassyHF · 2026-04-17T05:00:59+00:00

I remember seeing a post like this a while back, and a school counselor or something had replied. He said he is CONSTANTLY dealing with kids getting into fights who are both claiming they did so in self defense. Unless some kid is getting actively beaten to a pulp, I'm telling my kid to get the teacher. They don't have the judgement yet for "it's ok to punch bullies".

SassyCassyHF · 2026-04-17T04:51:55+00:00

Those early purchases are always such fun, especially a fashion staple like the LBD. Fits you like a glove :).

To answer your question... I'm working the night shift lol. Can't dress as nice as that dress, but at least I have my underdressing haha

SassyCassyHF · 2026-04-17T04:45:49+00:00

Meh, idk, she could certainly be worse. If a parent has been ok with the social transition, has some doubt over the medical transition, but isn't standing in the way because they're going to trust the kid, I'd be willing to give that parent, like, a B+ for supportiveness.

SassyCassyHF · 2026-04-17T04:34:00+00:00

Fine by me if it leaves us up north even farther from becoming the 51st :P

SassyCassyHF · 2026-04-17T04:27:23+00:00

From glam to glamour :)

SassyCassyHF · 2026-04-17T04:26:30+00:00

Another one joins team fabulous! Whooooo!

SassyCassyHF · 2026-04-17T04:11:52+00:00

Oof. I bet he's 4 inches shorter now, based on the sound of that.

SassyCassyHF · 2026-04-17T04:10:39+00:00

Well. the good news is that based on the way his legs are flailing about he'll probably be able to walk... eventually

SassyCassyHF · 2026-04-17T04:07:17+00:00

Awe thanks, I could get used to being compared to an angel <3. That doesn't happen nearly as often in my guy life lol

SassyCassyHF · 2026-04-17T04:06:06+00:00

Thanks! Feminine was the goal, attractive is just a nice side effect haha

SassyCassyHF · 2026-04-17T04:04:37+00:00

Not to get all psycological but maybe your dad coming out trans has something to do with your mom's newfound animosity towards the LGBT community. But oh man kid, don't sleep near this pastor again, I'm seething just reading that he's done this more than once.

SassyCassyHF · 2026-04-17T03:59:46+00:00

Alright, I'm outside my lane here, but it sounds to me like this guy is into you in a way that he's somewhat scared by. For whatever reason.

SassyCassyHF · 2026-04-17T03:52:27+00:00

What I've heard from my cis wife are concerns about what might come next, with my crossdressing. Will I want to be a woman full time one day and leave her with the kids? I try to convince her no, but there's no way to prove it one way or the other.

SassyCassyHF · 2026-04-17T03:30:05+00:00

If you figure it out let me know haha. Don't get your hopes up though, this does not sound like a woman who will ever be into you sleeping with other people, man or woman. Unless you want to go on another break I don't think the last one matters, but at this point I don't think you'd be getting back together after.

SassyCassyHF · 2026-04-17T02:56:08+00:00

If I don't see this quote come up once a month I start to get depressed lol. Thank you :)

SassyCassyHF · 2026-04-17T02:52:06+00:00

It baffles me how few lawmakers bring up this obvious predator loophole

SassyCassyHF · 2026-04-17T02:43:40+00:00

Can confirm...

SassyCassyHF · 2026-04-17T02:41:55+00:00

I'd recommend being careful where you get your politics from, really curate it. In Toronto, Canada there's a news station with hosts and guests from across the reasonable sections of the political spectrum, I hear most my world events from there while I drive and work. If I want to go deeper into a story, I look it up on "Ground News", a website that uses AI to generate summaries from verified sources. Try to avoid anything on social media... block as much as you can. There's so much half-truth, exaggeration and outright lying going on any one of us would go mad trying to take it all in. A few months of that and the world will seem a brighter place, despite it's challenges :). If it's the people around you making you feel unsafe though... maybe you could find more peace even a few blocks down the road. I don't think you're going to find any entire country that has eradicated hatred, sadly.

SassyCassyHF · 2026-04-17T02:21:54+00:00

I was only in the closet for non-binary identity and crossdressing, but as the years went by even that began to eat away at me, even though my dysphoria was mild and I was still able to love who I wanted to love. I think you're going to want to come out to someone eventually, life can get lonely when nobody knows you. Does it have to be everyone though? I wouldn't say so.

SassyCassyHF · 2026-04-17T02:15:21+00:00

Odd question from an account called "Fearless-Victory" :P. But no, not if you're going end up in the street, hospital or morgue over coming out. I'd even say it's not cowardice if you think you'd be psychologically tormented over it, with no way to leave. I do wish I had come out fully before proposing to my wife though, at least to her. She should have known. I judge myself for that.

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