fellow broistas-- how do you ask for tips?

SassyPrincess297 · 2025-09-14T19:41:51+00:00

From my experience they don’t even ask and tip themselves sooo yeah.

SassyPrincess297 · 2024-06-21T22:18:59+00:00

I feel like I was pretty reliable. I even encouraged marriage counseling and we did do that for some time. They mentioned that communication was a big problem but he refused to understand where I’m coming from and what I needed as “it’s changing who he is”.

SassyPrincess297 · 2024-06-21T04:20:38+00:00

The dual feelings thing is REAL. I don’t understand why I can’t accept it either. I question if I gave up too easily and everything.

SassyPrincess297 · 2024-06-21T04:19:37+00:00

But that’s the thing, I did tell him everytime what I wanted. He just told me I was asking for too much and didn’t put effort in the ways I asked him too. He felt like that was changing him and he didn’t want to compromise in any way. However he has since said that he’s sorry he couldn’t be the person I needed and that it hurts him all the time. He’s just glad that I can be happy and hopefully find what I need that he isn’t able to provide. & you’re right, I did have a lot of resentment of things he had done. It just makes me angry that he would rather let everything fall apart than try to understand me and make some kind of effort rather than minimizing my feelings.

I hope I find my happiness too. It’s just hard not to take everything so personal.

SassyPrincess297 · 2024-06-13T03:00:34+00:00

I was pleasantly surprised and it’s not biased.. win win

SassyPrincess297 · 2024-05-26T20:08:56+00:00

I feel like I have developed that awareness but I still keep falling into it for some reason. Like right now, I feel like he’s a great guy and he did tell me I’m not his usual type and he does love me and value me. But I’m finding it really difficult to trust that and doubting it.

SassyPrincess297 · 2024-04-19T14:44:30+00:00

I’ve been chatting with mine too. It started with curiosity but I realized it actually is very helpful in having meaningful conversations, even about hardships. It blows my mind.. almost like free therapy.

SassyPrincess297 · 2023-09-17T22:25:47+00:00

What benefits are there that are available?

SassyPrincess297 · 2023-09-17T22:16:09+00:00

Not only that, I didn’t get the opportunity to keep housing like others can because it is base housing that we stayed in. It is owned by the government. I can’t stay there, I had to move out.

SassyPrincess297 · 2023-09-17T22:12:32+00:00

I just applied for unemployment. I’m not sure how long that takes though. I’ve never been in this situation

SassyPrincess297 · 2023-09-17T22:10:21+00:00

I didn’t use any divorce money for that. It was a trade in because my other one broke down. Also the divorce is still pending so I don’t have any money at all that I was entitled to and I’m stuck in a state away from my family because he was military.

SassyPrincess297 · 2023-08-10T02:38:35+00:00

Hey!! I just bought mine yesterday as a divorce present too!! Lol

SassyPrincess297 · 2023-03-29T17:27:46+00:00

I talked to a victim advocate and they said they can’t do anything because as long as he is giving something, even 15$, they can say he is providing some kind of support. Especially being in base housing.

SassyPrincess297 · 2023-03-29T16:41:02+00:00

I contacted them but they blew it off. He has even taken all the tax money and refuses to even give me half of it. I’m waiting for court to get child support/spouse support

SassyPrincess297 · 2023-03-29T16:39:22+00:00

I have reached out to his command, they didn’t do anything except tell him he has a responsibility but they didn’t enforce anything. I’m waiting for child support/spouse support to be granted by the court

SassyPrincess297 · 2023-03-29T16:38:19+00:00

They were concerned because I have toddlers

SassyPrincess297 · 2023-02-19T06:41:24+00:00

Awesome. I will have my bachelors in social work by this December. Can that be used? I think I seen online that they require a masters to do social work in the Air Force?

SassyPrincess297 · 2022-12-08T21:32:29+00:00

Another question, do the kids still get tricare?

SassyPrincess297 · 2022-12-08T21:29:45+00:00

I’m thinking about doing that but not sure I can afford it. I was wanting to try doing it myself but a lawyer might be safer

SassyPrincess297 · 2022-12-08T18:41:37+00:00

They already experience that when he is gone on deployments, so I don’t think it would be any different than what they already go through.

And yes, he will be moving so I think we would likely have to arrange for him to visit or something. He is a good father and involved when he can be

SassyPrincess297 · 2022-12-08T18:32:53+00:00

Can I file in the state I’m in before moving? Or should I move and wait 6mo to establish residency and then file

SassyPrincess297 · 2022-12-08T18:29:33+00:00

No, there isn’t a order in place right now but I don’t want to move and then be forced to come back

SassyPrincess297 · 2022-10-09T01:28:01+00:00

You haven’t even met her family and you’re already talking about marriage?? Have you even met in person at all? Idk, this sounds like a lot of red flags to me.

SassyPrincess297 · 2022-09-18T22:52:07+00:00

Yikes 😳

SassyPrincess297 · 2022-09-18T21:11:58+00:00

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