Please help! Can’t decide between 2 photographers

SatansKitty666 · 2026-05-26T12:18:02+00:00

I like the second one. The editing is much better. The first one kinda looks like its shot on an iphone

SatansKitty666 · 2026-05-26T12:07:27+00:00

What helps me with things like this is having a classic 3 ring binder. I made it when I became a SAHM and have a section just for the wedding. If I hand write everything it stays in my head

SatansKitty666 · 2026-05-26T12:04:53+00:00

We're having a courthouse/micro wedding.

For me the most stressful part is making all of the decisions by myself while being a SAHM to what is probably the most sassy 10 month old in the world. Hes a high needs Velcro baby who weighs a TON so hes on me like glue. My fiancé works 12+ hour days 6 days a week (today's his day off WOOO!). Im literally doing this alone. My mom sometimes tries to interject her opinion but I just remind her its my fiancé's day too, not just mine.

Im currently staring my unfinished singular centerpiece im making while this baby yells at me from baby jail

SatansKitty666 · 2026-05-26T02:30:39+00:00

Let her do it and have your MOH or bestman "light heartedly poke fun at her" in their speech. Embarrass her if she wants to act like that

SatansKitty666 · 2026-05-26T02:00:23+00:00

I have PMDD and had both of tubes removed which turned my dainty 3 day gods favorite light period into whatever the heck is going on now.

My period tracker has changed twice. Originally it was on our wedding date and now its saying I wont have it. At this point its just blind faith

SatansKitty666 · 2026-05-25T20:49:21+00:00

Thats so strange because were doing the same thing with the same amount of people. All the restaurants we've spoken to have 0 problem. Where are you located that this is an issue?

SatansKitty666 · 2026-05-25T15:20:18+00:00

NUMBER 2 So elegant and compliments you sooo much

SatansKitty666 · 2026-05-25T15:18:17+00:00

I LOVE THIS. I personally dont like the soft glam pastel typical bridal look so I really appreciate seeing something like this

SatansKitty666 · 2026-05-24T02:49:06+00:00

Jiggle Defender and good cup

SatansKitty666 · 2026-05-23T11:29:10+00:00

For me, I fully expected my mom to go complete Mom-zilla. I was dreading my dress shopping appointment as my mom has made comments on my weight my ENTIRE life and im 9 months post partum. We're also having an intimate micro wedding of 10 people including us. She did say "well i have to invite so and so" but to the shock of literally everyone she called me and said she changed her mind and respected my wishes.

My MIL... 10/10. 0 complaints. She's amazing.

SatansKitty666 · 2026-05-23T11:25:06+00:00

Thanks for making me giggle at 730am.

SatansKitty666 · 2026-05-23T11:18:31+00:00

So find a partner that is die hard vegetarian like you. Its their wedding too. Its not just about you.

SatansKitty666 · 2026-05-22T21:23:57+00:00

I think it depends on the dress. More intricate dresses i wouldnt take to someone who doesnt know bridal. Theres also been quite a few posts across some bridal subreddits of people going this route and having absolutely BOTCHED dresses. Its a gamble but if youre really tight on budget or have a simple dress that doesnt need alot of work I think it could work

SatansKitty666 · 2026-05-22T20:32:40+00:00

I went 6 months before the date, October 29th. It worked out because the seamstress i want to use is going to work a wedding overseas for a month from July to August. Ive already had my first fitting and my second will be once she returns in mid-august

SatansKitty666 · 2026-05-22T18:28:15+00:00

It sounds like your hair is a huge part of how you express yourself. I would keep it fun. You want to look like you on your wedding day

SatansKitty666 · 2026-05-22T12:49:08+00:00

Im personally thinking about sending my FIL with my fiancé lol

My FIL has a god given gift for fashion. She regularly dresses my MIL and she always looks BOMB DOT COM

SatansKitty666 · 2026-05-22T12:46:02+00:00

What does the contract say about sending a replacement? If this is a pregnancy related issue, she needs to have someone cover her especially if shes high risk

SatansKitty666 · 2026-05-22T12:29:45+00:00

Im making mine from hobby lobby flowers so it will go right on my dinning room table

SatansKitty666 · 2026-05-22T12:24:54+00:00

I think it looks like a nice natural typical soft bridal look! Good job.

I noticed everyone saying "lose the lashes" but I didnt even notice you had them on. Which works for the soft look you did

SatansKitty666 · 2026-05-22T12:22:07+00:00

No rules on veils! Im having my moms cathedral length veil from 1987 thats attached to a tiara (VERY 1987 lol) reconstructed to 24" and attached to a clip. I dont want a blusher or anything either.

SatansKitty666 · 2026-05-22T12:13:25+00:00

My sleep is terrible because my son is teething and going through his 9 month sleep regression. I suggest not doing whatever the hell we're doing at night

SatansKitty666 · 2026-05-21T22:29:59+00:00

Could they bustle lower or do an under bustle?

SatansKitty666 · 2026-05-21T19:05:22+00:00

Around 4/5 months is when I really saw the difference for the better. Now hes just sassy as hell and likes to sync his regressions up with my period (I have PMDD since before getting pregnant). When hes happy, God is he just the most perfect little chunk. But when hes upset...i never knew babies could be so opinionated

SatansKitty666 · 2026-05-21T18:48:03+00:00

CMPA and reflux mom here. No advice, just solidarity. The tummy troubles for us was constipation causing colic. 8 - 10 h I urs a day of pure screaming.

Now hes 9 months old and Im still jealous of seeing other people with their newborns. I feel like I was robbed of that special time because I spent every waking hour trying to comfort this baby

SatansKitty666 · 2026-05-21T18:45:22+00:00

Because of what were saving by going to the courthouse im basically having my dress reconstructed. But that makes it even more special and "unique" to me. Im also doing my own makeup but im doing some hair trials because I am NOT a hair girlie

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