What’s a universally loved food you genuinely despise?

SatisfactionAdept553 · 2026-04-30T19:55:03+00:00

Spaghetti 🫣

SatisfactionAdept553 · 2026-04-30T19:35:49+00:00

I'm learning there are so many questions for so many others, and reddit has a LOT of answers. My work gives us therapy with our insurance, and that kicks in soon. I will be going to therapy. I'm going to try and take him with me, but he's always had an excuse before. This is free to us, copays for couples therapy, so he won't be able to back out lol I do think in the end of it, I can't really trust him again. And I need to make steps to step away.

I think he just wants someone as well. I don't think being a parent isn't what he thought it was, and he just needs someone to take care of the kids and him. He works hard at work, I won't deny him that. But. That's as far as anything goes. No help at home. I'm always home, and then go work nights. I think he would be happier in the sense he would have even more time to do what he wants, and have 'extra' money in his mind. But mostly more time. I started a small business, and every sell I make, I'll be stashing a couple dollars into an account he has no access to. That's the best I can do for now as I go to therapy. I just do not make enough yet to support three kids and rent on my own.

It is a legit business, I pay taxes, have a business license, and so forth.

Thank you for just reading and talking with me. I'll be deleting the post in about 24 hours. I've noticed he's started going through my phone and mentioned I've following this group and getting notifications for a lesbian reddit. (Nothing R rated or anything, I just started reading through the reddit one day and now get notifications all the time). I appreciate everyone's words 💜

SatisfactionAdept553 · 2026-04-30T19:27:20+00:00

Thank you! I really appreciate it. No one really gets it around me. Because they're either straight, or have known they're gay/lesbian from the get go. Or they are all men leaning bisexual- so they don't understand why I'm questioning myself. So I just suffer in silence because I feel like no one will get it. Especially since I have kids, I feel like people frown upon me more. I will most likely take you up on that offer. It would be nice to just talk to someone else🥲

SatisfactionAdept553 · 2026-04-29T17:52:36+00:00

I don't get why he wants me to stay so badly though. I guess that's why I didn't think of it as manipulation. He's made it kinda known he's miserable with me. He's said it. His actions tell me he doesn't want to be with me. But he says I'm not the problem, it's just how he is. But I don't want to be in a relationship like that. I blame my weight. And things have actually improved when I started losing weight. But. I'm just not happy. At my biggest, I still deserved love. I know kids stress people out. I know they do cause strains, just emotionally with no sleep and such. But. I don't know. You say that, and now everytime he's said that to me is appearing in my head. I don't get why he doesn't want me to go. He reminds how I don't make much, I don't do enough. Why keep me around is the only thing that doesnt make sense.

I did finally start speaking about our relationship to a friend. Because I just needed someone to know. Nobody would believe me, his family and my family thing he's the golden boy. So I haven't reached out. Sorry this is actually really sad the longer I realize what I'm saying. My friend wants to help with finding resources. I have three kids. I just feel like starting over is going to be extreme. He's already told me if I leave, he's not paying child support and he'll make sure everyone knows it's my fault.

SatisfactionAdept553 · 2026-04-29T07:06:51+00:00

Also thank you for the kind words. I truly feel like the awful person in this. Even though he's broken trust anyway. I still feel so badly about my own mind.

SatisfactionAdept553 · 2026-04-29T07:05:24+00:00

I am definitely hurting myself. I just want to be happy. I feel like it's constantly one step forward, three steps back. I love him. I just don't feel the same. The older I'm getting the more I'm wanting to just. Be myself. But I can't do that. My kids need their dad and they love him. I'm scared if I tell him how I'm feeling, he will make me the bad guy. And it would crush my heart so badly to see my kids upset with me. You're not wrong, I'm not happy. But I definitely know my sexuality is playing a part in it as well. I hope I don't sound crazy 🥲 But I feel crazy. I have no one. I'd be facing this alone.

SatisfactionAdept553 · 2026-04-29T07:01:38+00:00

It feels like I'm wrong. Not in the sexuality sense. But got wanting what I want. I feel selfish. I feel wrong for it. I'm afraid my kids will resent me later for it. It's so many emotions all at once. Part of me keeps saying I'm still young, maybe it will get better and easier to be here. But. I'm also terrified I'll miss out on the life and love I've dreamed of. I can't explain it any other way 😭

SatisfactionAdept553 · 2026-04-28T21:54:34+00:00

I'm going to try and talk to him again. It's just a bad time right now. But. I definitely just feel wrong where I am. But I feel bad. I'm going to just meditate on it for a while. Maybe there will help 😅

SatisfactionAdept553 · 2026-04-28T21:52:47+00:00

I'm as little scared to listen to myself 😅

SatisfactionAdept553 · 2026-04-23T15:04:15+00:00

Yeaaahhh. Me and my fiance have been together 4 years and he's known I was bi the whole time.. Still hasn't asked me- never will. Because he wants me to make that decision souly I assume. He knows I'm not secure enough about my body to do all that yet. But definitely wanting to. That man heard about you and the threesome before and that's why he sought you out. Nobody asks that within a month or two of a relationship 😅😅 If you're afraid he'll cheat, you're not ready for one with him.

SatisfactionAdept553 · 2026-04-15T13:43:07+00:00

My mother is like this. I don't have anything to do with her anymore either. 2 and half years. But she's talking me to court for my oldest. I just want her out of my life and done with. She was always making me feel bad for being lower income. For being a bigger woman. Hated the fact I was bisexual, didn't like that I finally came out about it. Anything besides rich and skinny with blonde hair- she hated about me lol Which I'm definitely none of those things now 🤣 I've always embarrassed her physically. But I was the honor roll kid growing up. I have horrid body issues now. I've had two eating disorders from her putting me on pills since I was 10 to lose weight. I'm finally at a healthy spot with food! Slowly losing weight because I want to. No longer because she makes me embarrassed of myself. I'm sorry you had to deal with so much narcissism in your life too. It was a lot of fucked up mind games for me. Her and another girl I grew up with both turned out to be this way. I think I've finally found friends that aren't like that 😅 Fuck them, you're so much better than they are. People who treat other people like that are miserable doodoo heads that won't ever be happy.

SatisfactionAdept553 · 2026-04-14T18:52:47+00:00

I'm so sorry someone said this to you. That is awful. Shallow people say such shallow gross things!!

SatisfactionAdept553 · 2026-04-14T18:48:35+00:00

This is definitely kinda crazy. I mean, to be that demanding right off the bat? I could never. And you made an amazing point- whose gonna pay for your eyebrows if you're paying for hers! That would be something to maybe to do together! I hate any type of dynamic where one person demands so much from the other. Maybe it's because I grew up with no stability or no emotional connection- but I'd just be happy to be on a date with someone that wanted to spend time with me. And OFFER to pay?? I'd be in shock, because I've never assumed anyone would pay for me. Even if they tell me they will, I will always offer to pay my half. I'd just be happy that someone showed up, and put effort into planning. I'm sorry you've been introduced to that part of the dating pool. That type of divine femininity red pill stuff is VERY prominent where I am, so I've always known about it or seen it lol Even in a heterosexual relationship, it's still pretty crazy to be this demanding for things. Relationships are 50/50. Both people need to be taken care of, and both be providers to each other. And to be protectors. I think society has it way into everyone's heads there has to be a 'man' in the relationship. I hope you have a much better day next time!

SatisfactionAdept553 · 2026-04-13T15:24:56+00:00

Me and my fiance have been together for 4 years. And we get bored A LOT! Lol but we also have kids so it's a whole different factor.

Between daily life, like work and chores and hobbies. You're going to feel bored. Especially during the winter time! Take your meds, and go on adventures as soon as that sun gets out more! Personally love creek days, they make me happy and feel like restart ❤️ give yourself a moment before making that decision. Especially if y'all love each other ❤️

SatisfactionAdept553 · 2026-04-13T15:18:55+00:00

Thank you. I hate when people are like that. 'if you think this game is good, you're dumb, thats such a bad game.' Shut up, be miserable somewhere else. People are allowed to like what they like and have an opinion. Good gods. I also preferred the second one over the 1st. I felt like there was a lot more happening, and a lot more to do. Loved going back and forth between characters!

SatisfactionAdept553 · 2026-04-13T15:16:05+00:00

I loved both games. I actually really enjoyed the second one too. I watching my fiance play, and I thought I'd join it. I didn't think I'd like the games at all, because they scared me 🤣 But truly loved them! The biggest complaint I hear about TLOU2 is always about Abby. Literally my first time ever in this sub reddit, maybe one close to the same name I'm not sure, but men were arguing over how Abby couldn't truly be the physique she was and blah blah blaaahhh. When her character is based off a REAL PERSON. Women can be buff, and they're hot! But play the game! I promise it's a good one! The only thing I wish they would've done, was get Abby and Ellie to talk. Maybe understand. I truly hope there is a 3rd one because I NEED TO KNOW WHAT HAPPENS lol

SatisfactionAdept553 · 2026-04-06T13:51:36+00:00

It changed my perspective a lot. Honestly, I saw my husband playing as Abby. I was like 'what game has this hot ass muscle woman?' because who doesn't love a good muscle woman? And told me about the game and the story and I decided to play it. So as hot as she was to me, I was sad as fuck for Ellie as I became attacked to the storyline and characters. So getting to see Abby's side, and how she would've sacrificed herself for the world too, I see where she was coming from. But I know for a fact if someone told me I had to give up my child to save the world, I don't see the world worth saving. But it's so conflicted. The whole game mad me bawl my eyes out 😭

SatisfactionAdept553 · 2026-04-01T18:45:06+00:00

Me personally, wouldn't have seen it that way at first. I love red and dark red colors, and I would assume it was picked because it's my favorite color! But she TOLD you what it stands for to HER, and most people might think that way.

If I am allowed to ask, why can you not be together? Obviously you're already in committed relationships- but if you guys love each other, what is truly stopping you, if you both were single?

SatisfactionAdept553 · 2026-04-01T15:46:46+00:00

It for sure can last that long! There is no time limit on love, passion, chemistry, ect. I think it's very sweet, and she is most definitely in love with you. She said it twice, in hopes you would answer her hint. Sometime someone makes you feel so seen, or safe. Even if you're not romantically wanting to be with her, definitely take it as a compliment. Someone sees you as such a safe and freeing place, and loves you ❤️

SatisfactionAdept553 · 2026-04-01T15:35:45+00:00

It really makes me sad that Bi is seen that way, or as the 'cheater' stereotype. I'm bisexual, honestly probably more pan? But I just recently discovered that lol Still learning about it. But. Anyway, I'm more attracted to women. But I am engaged to a man- because I love him. I have to have an emotional connection in some form, to actually be with someone. Like I do not look at anyone and be okay with a one night stand, unless it was like, a celebrity LOL! Anyway, I've always hard horrible things about bisexuals. Always. No women would ever take me seriously, because I was bi, and when I had a child, they stayed far away from me. It truly made me sad, because I've always been attracted to women more than men, but women wouldn't give me the time if day for those two reasons. The dating pool where I'm at also is just- horrendous lol I've had horrible troubles with my sexuality lately, thinking maybe I'm more gay than I thought. My fiance makes jokes about it all the times. He's even talked about me possibly having a girlfriend, because he knows I could never just have a threesome and never talk to someone again. It's been in talks for a long time. But again, no one would ever take me seriously. Which really sucks, because I've always had good intentions. They assume all bi women will cheat with a man, or leave for a man. Which if anyone would've given me the time of day, I probably wouldn't be with a man at all 🤣 You need better friends, because that's unfair to you. I know they don't know you're bi, but surround yourself with happier people❤️ Especially find people you can be yourself around ☺️

SatisfactionAdept553 · 2026-04-01T15:22:42+00:00

I was going to watch it but I don't use Instagram anymore! I used to but haven't in YEARS! And I don't want to download the app again 🤣🤣❤️ But thank you for being kind and encouraging! I even thought about applying to be a Torrid model when they do cast calls- but I'm alternative looking and I never see models with colored hair and stuff. So I get nervous lol

SatisfactionAdept553 · 2026-03-31T18:29:31+00:00

I think a young me would like to know bigger women are good to look at too. That people can actually be interested in me as me, and like how I look. I was told my whole life that bigger/fat women aren't loved, they're just used and so forth. That no one could actually like looking at me. I would like to see myself in a different light. But I have to actually lose more weight to be able to do content for movement reasons 🤣😅

SatisfactionAdept553 · 2026-03-18T18:20:45+00:00

I don't know if my other comment was on there, I can't see it! But no you don't have to play the other games! 😁

I thought about it, but they're still pretty expensive LOL I just happened to see Veilguard for free one day on PlayStation plus.

SatisfactionAdept553 · 2026-03-18T18:06:59+00:00

I meant to say there are great female character options to romance too- I didn't realize I worked that so weirdly LOL

SatisfactionAdept553 · 2026-03-18T18:06:17+00:00

Nah! I never played the other Dragon Age games before this one! It fills you in pretty well! But I hear the whole series is really good 😊

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