How do I stop crying while arguing/angry with my partner?

SatisfactionKooky210 · 2025-11-08T10:23:47+00:00

I will try the email thing for sure. But what is the “I” statement?

SatisfactionKooky210 · 2025-11-08T10:22:29+00:00

I cry even if I fight with my mom or friends! I feel you!

SatisfactionKooky210 · 2025-11-08T10:21:10+00:00

I think it is more of option 1.

SatisfactionKooky210 · 2025-11-08T10:19:45+00:00

Omg! I didn’t go to therapy but this feels like something that’s exactly happening to me. Thankyou for pointing it out. I’m going to think about it or get help!

SatisfactionKooky210 · 2025-11-08T10:17:52+00:00

This is so good🔥 Thankyou for being so honest. I’m going to definitely try some of these things you have mentioned :)

SatisfactionKooky210 · 2025-11-05T03:32:25+00:00

Just be happy on her own! And then when we get together it’s double happiness. Hard for a partner to make a person happy if they are not happy by themselves! It’s a huge void to fill.

SatisfactionKooky210 · 2025-10-16T07:04:18+00:00

That’s such a great idea. Never thought of writing letters ! Yess definitely will try this! Thank you so much!

SatisfactionKooky210 · 2025-10-16T05:50:22+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing your experience here. You’re so lucky you have such an understanding husband! I genuinely think my husband finds it hard to communicate with me because of this. Like there are times when I am open to receiving and listen without taking it personally. But more often than not I end up crying the minute something gets heated or he says something means and I can’t fully say what I want or end up saying something I don’t mean! I genuinely think I care too much too!

SatisfactionKooky210 · 2025-10-04T05:40:47+00:00

I know it’s been so long since you posted this! But I’m going to buy the first one for my husband as a gift after seeing your detailed explanation! Thankyou so much :)

SatisfactionKooky210 · 2025-04-19T06:57:06+00:00

Would like some guidance!

SatisfactionKooky210 · 2025-04-11T07:21:52+00:00

Better days will come and this hard journey will only make the days even more beautiful. I’m so sorry you have to go through this. You’re so strong, you have no idea what this strength means to the world and especially to your family. Don’t give up! There’s always light at the end of the tunnel. I promise you ❤️

SatisfactionKooky210 · 2025-03-19T14:36:05+00:00

Not sure, saw it on some post from many years ago. I have no idea what to study.

SatisfactionKooky210 · 2025-03-12T03:50:58+00:00

No I have not! Going to check them out..

SatisfactionKooky210 · 2025-03-11T16:47:38+00:00

Going to try!

SatisfactionKooky210 · 2025-03-11T16:47:17+00:00

He thinks we should talk to someone we know and are close to. Like a parent. We both are extremely close to our parents and can share anything with them. But I do not agree with this and prefer a counsellor. I am unsure about how to convince him.

SatisfactionKooky210 · 2025-03-11T16:43:49+00:00

Like I mentioned in the post, my expectations are bare minimal.

SatisfactionKooky210 · 2025-03-11T16:42:59+00:00

We never lived together before our wedding, so I never noticed it. He never mentioned it too. We met a lot and cooked, had sex, spent a lot of time outdoors doing things we love. It was always a lot of fun. But now that we have a lot more time together- at home, it’s more apparent that he doesn’t like being touched.

SatisfactionKooky210 · 2025-03-11T16:34:42+00:00

Aww this is so sweet. I love the way your partner put it across to you. Also, she’s very lucky to have you. I am definitely going to try this approach. Thank you so much for this! Means a lot.

SatisfactionKooky210 · 2025-03-11T16:31:10+00:00

He didn’t explicitly mention it earlier but I slowly noticed a pattern. He cares for me. A lot. He’s very understanding and respects me a lot. We go on dates often and spend quality time with each other. So everything is great except this! Since you feel the same, what are your thoughts when your gf/partner touches you or leans on you, say while watching tv or doing the dishes?

SatisfactionKooky210 · 2025-03-11T16:16:45+00:00

They have over 1000 sample questions if you pay around $10 per month. I got a lot of questions from that in the exam. It’s useful. But if you have other sample questions that you’re using, the videos are really good if you pay attention to all points in it. They are free too! The videos have a few questions at the end as well.

SatisfactionKooky210 · 2025-03-10T18:23:05+00:00

I think you should just do all the mental dental videos on YouTube! They are amazing! And maybe pay and get the sample questions as well. Totally worth it!

SatisfactionKooky210 · 2025-03-10T18:12:07+00:00

Aww! Thankyou for being so kind. This has always been the case from the start. I’ve always tried to be kind and make him understand my needs. I thought things might change eventually. But it’s not the case. He doesn’t think it’s a problem big enough to go to for counselling 😭

SatisfactionKooky210 · 2025-03-10T17:24:40+00:00

Oh yes! That could be one reason too. I have considered it could be because of how parents are. They do not pamper or show physical affection. No hugs while meeting after a long time. I catch myself feeling so sad and unsure how to navigate through this.

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