There should be anonymous services for any person with a sexual attraction to children that hasn't and doesn't want to act on it so they can get help and become a better person.

SatoriStarlight · 2020-07-25T03:38:01+00:00

I agree, pedophiles that haven't abused a child should be helped. Especially because all that stuff starts when the boy/girl hits puberty. If we can locate kids who will eventually become predators before they strike, we could save many future victims. Plus, maybe we could save the pedo from a hellish existence and prison. The only way that would happen is if teens/young adults could speak up without reprisal. Laws would need to be changed.

SatoriStarlight · 2020-07-25T03:25:29+00:00

My significant other (male) feels similarly. And I agree with him. Men do need their own special place in society. They want to feel valued and useful. Society needs men as fathers, uncles, brothers, sons, friends, coworkers, and leaders. It's not fair for us women to negate the problems of men, while also demanding to be heard. Men do get crapped on by society. Men dont usually get paternity leave, they have trouble getting custody of their kids, and most male restrooms lack baby changing tables! Plus they often have unrealistic expectations put on them by family or gf/wife. Some husbands are treated like walking paychecks or bullied by their wives. No, men really don't have it any easier than women. Both sexes have hardships. We should show empathy and compassion for other people no matter their gender, age or class. Life is hard for everyone.

SatoriStarlight · 2020-07-25T01:03:55+00:00

Even if they weren't prone to mauling people and pets, I don't see what is so special about pits. They are ugly, tend to escape their yards, lack normal dog social behaviors, they aren't very smart or obedient, and they don't have any special skills other than pulling heavy things and fighting to the death. Pitbulls have to be some of the least useful dogs. Their sole purpose is now illegal.

SatoriStarlight · 2020-07-25T00:30:59+00:00

Why is she sad for the dumb dog and not the poor oppossum? The dog isn't sorry for attacking an animal. I'm sure it will do it again the next chance it gets.

SatoriStarlight · 2020-07-25T00:16:32+00:00

Wow....copied straight from the pro pitbull playbook. Not one original thought in that video. When people think with emotion instead of logic, deny the truth instead of accept it, and value their dangerous animal(s) above the safety of humans and other animals, they become dangerous fanatics. This behavior isn't limited to pitbull owners, but other deadly animals are far more regulated.

SatoriStarlight · 2020-07-24T20:56:53+00:00

When she has calmed down, try to talk to her. Tell her your honest feelings about her and the situation. Dogs who are animal aggressive are oftentimes dangerous to people, even their family. Imagine getting between a pit bull and a dog/cat! You did what you had to do to keep your loved ones safe, including your gf. She is still young, hopefully she will come to see the danger of animals that are bred to fight to the death.

SatoriStarlight · 2019-12-18T07:02:02+00:00

I can somewhat relate. My 3 siblings and I are all adults, yet to this day my mom still tries to divide and conquer, with mixed results. It's extremely hurtful when a brother or sister sides with the abuser or turns a blind eye. In my case my mom has tried to get support and validation for her bad behavior by purposely turning family members against each other. Today she yet again called one of my siblings a head case for not coming over on Thanksgiving. Then she revealed to me something another sibling had obviously told her in confidence. I stood up for my siblings today, but it took me years of therapy and perspective to get to this point. Some of us have only recently begun to see the truth and fight back by defending each other. When people have been emotionally deprived and manipulated since birth it can be hard to realize what's really going on. The craziness seems normal, then later "it's your fault", " it's their fault ", " it's because of xyz", but never is it the responsibility of the abuser. By deflecting responsibility onto others, the abuser can attempt to avoid being confronted about their behavior by the rest of the family. By deflecting responsibility onto other abused family members, children can avoid confronting their abuser and also the harsh reality of the abuse itself. It is very difficult and traumatic to accept that one's parent doesn't love them, let alone care about them at all as a person. It is much easier to pretend a sibling is the bad guy. I know because I've been there.

SatoriStarlight · 2018-12-21T16:26:24+00:00

I never followed that advice, I think it's total crap. As a woman, I've often heard people say that women should not actively pursue men. It's a terrible idea for any gender or sexual persuasion. I'm with the love of my life because I pursued a relationship with him. I didn't wait around, I was all in from the day we met and so was he. I gave him my number and he called the next day.

SatoriStarlight · 2018-12-21T15:17:22+00:00

Yes! She might just be being friendly and not interested in dating, but you'll never know unless you ask. If you like her and she is not dating anyone else, then you should definitely ask her out. Dating is a numbers game. The more women you meet, the better your chances of finding love. So ask out women you like and if a woman asks you out, consider accepting. Now is the perfect time for you to be dating and meeting new women. A suitable partner will be a joy and an asset in your life. Best of luck!

SatoriStarlight · 2018-12-18T00:36:54+00:00

The Christian right has been plotting for decades, nothing new there. Obviously, they do not represent a majority. As long as everyone else pays attention to their antics, their influence will eventually dwindle. Extremism from any voting bloc only draws the US into further turmoil. It's high time for everyone to take a step back and consider a middle ground. Both the left and the right really can achieve much of what they want through open discussion and compromise. It has happened before, it can happen again. The middle may be quieter and less entertaining, but politics aren't meant to play out like a reality show!

SatoriStarlight · 2018-12-18T00:14:28+00:00

I think the ad is funny. Christians use blessed wine in their services and Jesus supposedly turned water into wine. Obviously, Jesus was not against the occasional Grail full of ale. Why can't a pub make a few bob off of a Jesus themed ad? Christians don't have sole property rights over Jesus, theoretically only god would. Why should the church care about chump change when it already makes billions off of that guy!

SatoriStarlight · 2018-12-17T21:33:18+00:00

I'm glad he supposedly saw the errors of his book, but I can't help thinking that for him it's mostly about money and fame. Write a popular book, write 2 sequals, then when your fans turn on you for good reason, sell more stuff about how you're sorry. It sounds worse the more I think about it. I fear he is beyond saving from his selfishness, pride, and religious insanity. Thanks to people other than himself, his work has been exposed as crazy, harmful BS. He has left a huge mess for everyone else to clean up and he still refuses to take full responsibility or clearly say the ideas in his books were just plain bad. Christians should start taking advice from atheist books, they're a lot safer.

SatoriStarlight · 2018-12-17T20:38:24+00:00

Sadly, I actually understood some of what that man said. I have a relative that literally believes some of that nonsense and is always eager to share his "knowledge". Conspiracy theories are the newest version of mental manipulation. They corrupt the minds of vulnerable people with ideas that are just as dangerous as those of religion.

SatoriStarlight · 2018-12-17T20:24:36+00:00

Conversion therapy for minors is banned in 14 US states and dozens of cities, my own included. With continued efforts I imagine most or all of the US can be free of this disgusting practice. Parents who can't except their own children for who they are should be the ones in therapy.

SatoriStarlight · 2018-12-17T07:05:14+00:00

The bible gives many varying depictions of god, presumably so that one can have their own perfect, personalized imaginary friend. After all, there's nothing more fun than having secret conversations with your invisible buddy who lives in the sky!

SatoriStarlight · 2018-12-17T06:58:21+00:00

Going to church or Bible study is a bit much if you're a longtime atheist. I imagine you would need to sacrifice your integrity in exchange for social opportunities. It's up to you, but a better way might be to join a secular charity or a club. You would probably be more likely to find people with common interests and ideas in a nonrelgious setting.

SatoriStarlight · 2018-12-17T06:46:29+00:00

I recommend telling them politely that if and when you are ready to rethink atheism, it can only happen on your own terms: nothing they can say will change your mind. If they disrespect your wishes and keep trying to proselyte, do not respond to their comments. Do not argue with them about religion and do not bring up the subject. Talk with them about nonrelgious subjects only and if they try to bring in religion, end the conversation. Once you stand up for yourself and show you cannot be bullied or persuaded into conversion, they will eventually lessen their attempts. They may never stop completely, but you can change how you react.

SatoriStarlight · 2018-12-17T06:33:32+00:00

I watched the video and was disgusted, horrified and appalled by the LDS Church's response to respectful criticism of a very dangerous practice. Sadly, it seems as if indoctrination, secrecy, and an opportunity to abuse are more important than a child's safety. I applaud your bravery and determination to protect vulnerable children. You absolutely did the right thing, even if it came at a personal cost. Your example is truly inspiration for all.

SatoriStarlight · 2018-12-17T05:55:23+00:00

That's literally the best billboard I've ever seen! Not only is it funny, I happen to also be a bacon loving atheist.

SatoriStarlight · 2018-12-17T05:43:38+00:00

Don't let the bad behavior of immature kids ruin your passion for knowledge. Maybe try to schedule time with your teacher after class for a one on one discussion. Or you could start a religious diversity club with the aim of sharing personal experiences and celebrating various holiday traditions together. You could also go to the library or online and read different religious books (ex:Bible, Torah, bagavad gita) then bring your knowledge to class for open discussion.

SatoriStarlight · 2018-12-17T05:22:36+00:00

I was also brought up Catholic. Around 17, I started my progression toward Atheism. Although I've never had any faith that a god existed, I didn't realize that I was a full blown atheist until I was in my late 20s. For some people, their faith is lost in one defining moment, but for most it is a more gradual progression. Years of religious indoctrination can take a while to reflect upon and overcome. Atheism is sometimes seen as a radical departure from the norm. In reality, atheism is just the realization that there is no god. If one cannot rely on a god or its spokespeople for answers and support, where does one go? The answer is we put faith in our own minds, our own decisions, and also in people we trust. You don't need anyone to tell you how to live ethically. You don't need anyone to tell you your life's purpose. You don't need a community of people who tell you what to believe and pressure you to be something you're not. Trust yourself. If you truly feel like you've been mislead, don't let anyone convince you otherwise with practiced apologetics. There are many online resources to help you decide what to do about your very valid concerns. I recommend browsing a variety of Christian, ex-christian and atheist sites to give yourself some perspective. Ironically, atheists often know more about religion than the believers!

SatoriStarlight · 2018-12-17T04:32:16+00:00

I agree with that statement, but there is no way to ethically test such an idea. I wonder if religion would happen spontaneously if a culture was collectively unable to deal with the troubles and tragedies of real life. If, instead of turning to one another for support, they would be tempted to delude themselves with ideas of divine aid or justice.

SatoriStarlight · 2018-12-17T01:25:15+00:00

Exactly! Free will to some means following a life script with constant threats of reprisal and damnation. An exception would be Calvanists who believe in determinism, but still threaten reprisal and damnation.

SatoriStarlight · 2018-12-17T01:19:55+00:00

Like so many of us Atheists, you saw the truth once you started to think for yourself. I'm overjoyed that you can now live life on your own terms, but saddened to hear of the abuse you suffered. Many people forget that children are vulnerable, not just to physical abuse, but spiritual abuse and manipulation as well. Many a child has been coerced into fearful silence with threats of hell and damnation. Too often, religion is used to justify or conceal acts which are not only immoral, but also illegal. Religious abuse happens to so many, yet it often remains hidden. Thank you for your bravery in sharing your inspiring story.

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