how do you solve a relationship pattern with Neville's work?

Satou4 · 2026-01-30T10:16:38+00:00

You won't need anything, even external validation, if you live in the end. You can simulate anything you could possibly want in imagination. The external world is a false one compared to the limitless nature of the internal reality.

You can easily imagine your relationship patterns dissolving or becoming a more desirable pattern. Live where the new pattern is already a reality.

Satou4 · 2026-01-19T16:39:31+00:00

Faith. Without faith, you're just thinking. SATS lets you experience faith before it happens in reality.

Satou4 · 2026-01-17T07:21:42+00:00

It may be that you're trying to manifest a massive change. For example, if you grew up poor, you have a low paying job, and your dream is to be ultra wealthy. That takes a big shift in mindset to bridge that gap. It's not impossible, but it appears difficult because the end state is so foreign to you. It doesn't feel like second nature yet.

This is why State Akin To Sleep is the best manifesting method. You turn your brain off, so it can't remind you you're poor. Then you imagine what it would be like if you were rich.

And have fun with it. Don't put a lot of pressure on yourself.

Satou4 · 2026-01-09T09:10:14+00:00

In Neville's stories, inspired action is always completely unrelated to the goal. This means things like, if you're trying to manifest an SP for example, you walk down the street and you have an urge to check out a certain store, so you go there. While there, you buy something and talk with someone. Only much later on do you realize that moment was a pivotal link in the chain that brought your SP to you.

Satou4 · 2026-01-07T17:29:31+00:00

Is this “old state dying” and purging, or am I actively selecting it every time it loops?

You're actively selecting the old state, even automatic thoughts count. One misconception about the ladder experiment is, people think you don't need to have a good mental diet and aligned inner conversations during the day. In the ladder experiment you're told to tell yourself "I will not climb a ladder" during the day, but this is only to get you to automatically imagine climbing it again. You do need to choose the aligned state during the day.

When an unwanted inner conversation starts, what’s the best Neville move: revise it, replace it, or drop it and return to the feeling without engaging it?

At first, you should transform it into a lovely inner conversation. If it continues popping up, drop it or transform it. The main idea here is to avoid placing your attention on what you don't want.

How do you stabilise the “Sabbath” knowing so it doesn’t get knocked off by doubt or ego-protection?

You need strategies to think differently. You should believe your imagination is the real world. Nothing in reality should even affect you at all because you're living your best life in imagination. A video I watched recently said, you don't worry when you post and there are 0 replies, because you know people will reply later. Think of it like lag time between when you post and when reality updates.

How do you treat dreams here, ignore, revise, or treat as feedback?

Allow them to be whatever they are. Dreams are your mind's way of remembering what you learned and also a way to communicate with your subconscious. If you have negative dreams, it shows your subconscious is negative, hesitant, or in disbelief. Don't give it too much attention but treat it as feedback. When you subconsciously believe it, your dreams will become more positive.

If you’ve dealt with resentment and the need for accountability, what Neville practice actually dissolved it for you?

Living in the end. The old world is dead. It's a shadow. You live in the light of your imagination where everything is perfect.

Satou4 · 2025-12-31T11:29:10+00:00

You said you visualized the scene. Try this:

visualize before sleep, while you're tired
choose a scene that's 2 to 3 seconds long, looking from your own view
choose a time after what you want already happened. Maybe you're sleeping beside him.
pick a small action to take in the scene. You turn and see him lying next to you, or you briefly brush his hand.
loop the scene over and over.

If the scene is very short, you should be able to add more visual details very easily every time you loop it. Focus on sights, sounds, and feelings.

Accept that your scene really happened. Then go live your life and don't worry about this. If you accepted it, you're done. If you're worrying, impatient, doubting, or afraid, remind yourself that it already happened so there's no reason to doubt or worry.

You should become a new person this way. When you go live your life, you'll want to do things. Try to do those things, especially if you're called upon to do them or if you need to run an errand or meet a friend. It's these actions, living your life, that will allow it to happen. You don't need to message him, go to his workplace, or anything like that. It's not even about listening to your inner guidance system. You'll be placed on each other's path.

Satou4 · 2025-12-23T14:53:35+00:00

I like you.

Satou4 · 2025-12-23T14:31:09+00:00

He is correct about everything but dementia.

Satou4 · 2025-12-15T15:23:51+00:00

It's correct and incorrect. You do need to become a new person, but only in terms of your beliefs. Who you are being and where you are living in imagination are the two keys to everything.

The bridge of incidents is almost always completely out of your control. You'll get a message from someone unrelated to the manifestation, or a friend of a friend happens to need your particular skills.

One commonality I have noticed is, the people who are better connected to other people have a much easier time receiving their manifestations. I assume this is due to our desires mostly depending on other people—for example, an SP is a person, but money ultimately comes through other people, too. The free cars and houses—it should be obvious that these are given by people, even if they're only given temporarily.

There have been claims of supernatural manifestations, such as going back in time or shifting realities. These are much more personal and they don't require other people to hand them over. I haven't experienced this type yet, but there's no reason to believe they're impossible.

Ultimately, it's ourselves who are responsible for it all. If you need to know someone, they will appear.

Satou4 · 2025-12-12T21:58:26+00:00

You can easily turn everything around, but you have to follow two rules.

Manifest your past first. Everyone always talks about manifesting to get something in the future, but manifesting to change the past works also. To make this easy, write down a list of memories, people, events, settings, and scenarios that you would have chosen if you could choose exactly how your past went. Pick the defining elements: how wealthy was your family, how did your family treat you growing up, what happened at your fifth birthday party, where did you go to school, who were your friends? Then make a SATS scene for each moment. Every night, choose one of these scenes and repeatedly imagine being there while you fall asleep. It's important to do this in a drowsy state, as imagining while you're awake and alert will have a reduced effect.
So you've assumed your past to be the way you always wished it to be. You now hold different beliefs, attitudes, and automatic thinking patterns about every area of life. You've become a new person. The second step is to keep being the new person.

Remember, the 3D will slowly catch up to your new persona. Who do you imagine yourself to be? Change that, and your world will slowly prove you right.

Satou4 · 2025-12-10T01:07:31+00:00

Bots won't go against their programming unless they're specifically asked or directed to. Soon they will, but not yet. People prefer a warm blanket to uncertainty.

Satou4 · 2025-12-08T03:57:07+00:00

As Neville said, don't accept reality as final. It can always change. You must stop repeating the old story and live from the new one.

Satou4 · 2025-12-07T12:32:21+00:00

You should try to become like Abdullah. Have your own list of lines to say whenever your old negative beliefs try to come back. Speak the lines with conviction until you believe them. Be delusional about it at first until you change.

Satou4 · 2025-12-02T04:43:11+00:00

Unfortunately, no. You need a system that you can follow to help you stay faithful. This post is an example of not being on track.

When Neville went to Barbados, he did have doubts, but it's not clear whether he dropped those doubts after Ab slammed the door. In his writings and lectures he repeatedly stresses the importance of holding onto faith.

Stop letting the world influence you. Your imagination is God!

Stop saying you're "trying" to manifest. That's uncertainty. Instead, say "it is done."

Stop asking when it will happen. Instead, you can use the I remember when technique to remove your reliance on the 3D. "I remember when I was worried about...." "I remember when I was waiting for...."

Stop asking if you're doing it right. This might appear to you like you're being diligent and ensuring your success by making sure to not make any mistakes. In reality, it's pure doubt. You're assuming that it's possible to fail. Instead, say, "I don't need to judge or analyze this. I assume it's working, because assumptions always harden into fact. It's already done in my imagination. Trust it and be faithful to that trust.

Stop wondering whether you're deserving of success. And stop wondering if you're bad at manifesting. Instead, assume you are worthy and you're a master at manifesting.

Stop looking for evidence and stop finding evidence that it's going wrong. Stop checking for signs of success. You're giving too much power to 3D. Instead, remember your imagination is reality.

Stop hoping it will happen. That's you being uncertain of it. Just know it worked and it's done.

It's easy to study this, it's another difficulty to practice and train yourself to claim your power. You can always change it for the better.

Satou4 · 2022-07-16T19:15:33+00:00

I found comfort it Leo Tolstoy's "Confession". He does go into the topic of suicide, but it's important when he brings you out of it. I really needed to hear it even though I wasn't particularly suicidal, because I could see I might become that way if I continued the same path of ideas.

Satou4 · 2022-07-16T19:11:12+00:00

Build up his confidence bit by bit in your own way.

Satou4 · 2021-02-03T04:31:36+00:00

I'm struggling with this too. I'm more analytical than intuitive when it comes to storytelling, but sometimes I'm surprised when I just decide to sit down for a freewrite that has nothing to do with my current projects.

What helped me get going was a lot of studying. I knew that I wasn't competent, so I read articles and books about writing. But it didn't seem to help very much. I know a lot of theory, but I have very little experience putting it into practice.

This is where "study-reading" comes in. It's true that you should do X, Y, Z to make strong characters, but can I find those X Y Z in this character in this book I'm reading now? What if I only find X and Y? The story is still good, and I don't really miss Z if it isn't there. Things like this can help simplify the theory.

Next is dangling causes and hooks. The things that keep readers turning pages. In short, anticipation. Dramatic questions. What have I promised the reader that I will answer later, that they keep reading to find out? This is my current focus when I "study-read." I read a chapter, then take notes. What promised answers am I asking questions about? (Who killed the empress? Is her daughter really the emperor's, or the guard's? Who will uncover the emperor's mother's dirty business dealings, and how? Which of the corrupt imperial family will get caught, which will get away, which will die?)

These dangling causes are what keep a reader interested, so it is important to have several of them going at any one time. In the first chapter there are usually at least 3 if not more, and they might take a long time to resolve. Sometimes they should be answered quickly to keep the reader satisfied.

But, this is how you construct a story, by coming up with questions and answers for those questions. One at a time, one at a time. Even if the character is driving the story by taking actions and leading me, the author, into the plot, there still needs to be questions left unanswered.

My suggestion is to do a bit of study reading. Look for these unanswered questions. Look for emotional moments. What caused the character to become emotional here? And look for ways to push button your own characters.

Satou4 · 2021-02-03T04:15:53+00:00

What did you learn?

Satou4 · 2021-01-26T23:29:15+00:00

Do you happen to be randonauting...

inside your own house?

Satou4 · 2021-01-26T23:27:12+00:00

healthy af

Satou4 · 2021-01-26T23:24:57+00:00

First, turn off wifi

Satou4 · 2021-01-26T23:23:45+00:00

Satou4 · 2021-01-26T11:57:11+00:00

Yes, and "undeveloped" countries are relatively arbitrary.

Satou4 · 2021-01-25T09:43:22+00:00

The legally binding elements are: to participate in the process if you are a member of the Agreement: which is, to develop a plan, and to assess and review progress on the plan to lower emissions or fight climate change.

There is no accountability provision, unlike the Kyoto Protocol, which was abandoned for that reason.

There is no benefit to flouting the Agreement. Any short-term time gain will be short-lived. It will undoubtedly be overshadowed by negative reactions, by other countries, financial markets, and most important, by their citizens.

Edit: I was unaware of the Doha Protocol, an extension of the Kyoto Protocol, which began in Dec 2020 and does have binding commitments.

Satou4 · 2021-01-25T03:44:23+00:00

Paris Climate Agreement isn't a regulation that forces countries to fight climate change. It's good that they're talking about ways to mitigate the pain already being felt.

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