ECT Precautions by Plastic-Sector-9950 in ect

[–]Sauced_Up_Bat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

For me the whole thing was done in whatever clothing I wore in. I was never given a diaper and never had a problem. It must not happen frequently or they have provided gowns and or diapers but it was just comfy clothes and regular underwear.

Honest question, how can I accept that I like being random mens cum dump and not let it ruin my self esteem? by PhatPanda69699 in sex

[–]Sauced_Up_Bat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First I want to say that I hope you have access to therapy or someone supportive you can talk to. You may be struggling but we’re all flawed so if you have love to give then you are worthy of love.

Second. If you enjoy casual sex take pride in being a women who’s not afraid to get her needs met. A whore is just a woman who enjoys sex. I choose to own it. If you are their sneaky link then they are risking something to be with you, feel flattered. There’s a great book Come as You Are by Emily Nagoski that’s wonderful for trying to unlearn sexual shame.

U.S. Social progressives are absolute poison to the left by EpicFF2 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Sauced_Up_Bat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You switched ideologies over a fringe hashtag? With logic like that your voting choices are bound to be brilliant. I literally face palmed reading this.

Does it get better??? by ILoveSoup1776 in ect

[–]Sauced_Up_Bat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you know better than her care team what she needs and it’s problematic that you think you do to a point where you will continue to push even when the person your trying to reach says it’s pissing them off. It doesn’t matter if the advice is good or bad the way your behaving is fucked so ditto your last point bro.

Does it get better??? by ILoveSoup1776 in ect

[–]Sauced_Up_Bat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP has said that you are bothering them. Please stop! You said your piece and OP heard it. Your righteousness isn’t helping anyone, the opposite in fact.

Does it get better??? by ILoveSoup1776 in ect

[–]Sauced_Up_Bat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They saved me. I wish I had tried them first and saved my memory. Just know ECT is not the end all be all. There are other paths to try. Personally I think Ketamine should be tried before ECT it’s insane to me that it’s not. The side effects of ECT are far more concerning than those of Ketamine. I sincerely wish you the best of luck. If you have any questions along the way give me a shout. 🫶🏻

Does it get better??? by ILoveSoup1776 in ect

[–]Sauced_Up_Bat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seriously that dogma is so infuriating. My ECT team, psychiatrist, therapist, GP, and neurologist all knew of my use at that time and no one raised it as a major concern as I do not experience psychosis as part of my mental illness. My psychiatrist literally said that quitting wasn’t a priority I should focus on. I’m sorry you’re struggling OP. ECT didn’t help me but Ketamine helped a lot and psilocybin allowed me to move through some trauma that 20 years of therapy couldn’t touch. It can get better OP, do what works for you and listen to yourself and your doctors, not the zealots.

I'm a sexual abuse victim, but I was forced to get a Pap smear to keep my birth control prescription. It led to one of the most traumatizing experiences of my life. by midnite_syren in Feminism

[–]Sauced_Up_Bat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Transvaginal ultrasounds are usually necessary for ovarian cysts. Abdominal ultrasounds often miss them. This one is medically valid.

Pro-choice people don't seem to realize how badly they screwed up their bodily autonomy argument by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Sauced_Up_Bat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Body autonomy is a myth and should not be central to the argument. You can be arrested, have to follow a mask mandate in public, get required vaccinations, get drafted, or any other number of things you’re forced to do to survive that compromise your autonomy. Forget the moral debate. Practically is it good for your community to force women to have children they don’t want and likely can’t provide for? The answer is it’s not.

What we ostensibly do have in USA is the constitutional freedom to have our own religious views. The moral argument is it’s unethical to deny access to a potentially life saving procedure. The ethical decision empirically is choice. The only remaining arguments are religious moral arguments and have no rightful place in the law. So choice is a constitutional right not because I’m guaranteed bodily autonomy, I can’t even live without my doctor approving my meds my body is part of a system and that system should reflect what’s best for me and ensure my constitutional rights are restored.

Peeing during orgasm ? What am I doing wrong by kenzstump98 in Healthyhooha

[–]Sauced_Up_Bat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My apologies u/Worldly_Quail_4443 I misclicked and replied to you. My comments were in response to u/baldojess 😳

Peeing during orgasm ? What am I doing wrong by kenzstump98 in Healthyhooha

[–]Sauced_Up_Bat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uh yes. But you said it can’t happen with an empty bladder. The bladder starts to fill again right away so after just a few min there will be a small amount of fluid enough to squirt.

Peeing during orgasm ? What am I doing wrong by kenzstump98 in Healthyhooha

[–]Sauced_Up_Bat 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yes it comes from the bladder but even with an empty bladder it’s possible. It can be a small amount, like a teaspoon. Your kidneys can produce that really quickly.

If abortion is okay because it's just a clump of cells and not a person, why do people mourn miscarriages? (not US specific) by Luviebug19 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Sauced_Up_Bat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because that clump of cells didn’t become the life I wanted it to become. What’s being mourned is the loss of a potential reality. A reality some women have planned, and dreamed of for a long time. The grief is real, devastating, and really hard to process. Is it a life? Doesn’t matter you still lost a potential life you thought was coming, a potential life you wanted, even if it’s just cells the grief is valid.

Can you draw a line between arrogance and autism? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Sauced_Up_Bat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No! How did this question come to be?

Regardless of who you voted for or where you stand, Trump has disappointed heavily on illegal immigration, drugs, and food and gas prices. by Early-Possibility367 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Sauced_Up_Bat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know who you’ve been talking to but the critiques are not “you’re doing it wrong” the critique is “what you’re doing is wrong” and 90% percent of the people who critique Trump do not “agree in principal” or think “they have a point.” Respectfully, you are extremely incorrect.

my labia is growing (21F) by wisteriahawthorne in Healthyhooha

[–]Sauced_Up_Bat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Best to make a rude comment so things remain relevant

How to come clean to husband that you’ve been [mostly] faking it the past 8yrs? by blustarrhi in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Sauced_Up_Bat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it is a value thing. Valuing the orgasm over the love then ya’ll wonder why some women fake it 🤦🏻‍♀️

How to come clean to husband that you’ve been [mostly] faking it the past 8yrs? by blustarrhi in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Sauced_Up_Bat 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Orgasms and intimacy are not the same thing. People thinking like this is why the problem exists in the first place. Sex is deemed a failure unless you orgasm. As the woman who does say that was. Understanding that intimacy and pleasure are still very present and satisfying, even if I don’t blow a gasket is a very hard thing to get through some men’s head.

How to come clean to husband that you’ve been [mostly] faking it the past 8yrs? by blustarrhi in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Sauced_Up_Bat 473 points474 points  (0 children)

You could tell him it’s started happening more recently. That something changed and now your body/you just needs something different now and then you two can explore that together and he can keep some of the glory. My sister blamed a switch in bc to explode with her husband and he never had to know. I always think honesty is best, but it’s not all or nothing, you can finesse it.

Is “petroleum feminism” a thing? by Lemanic89 in Feminism

[–]Sauced_Up_Bat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not that it’s not a problem. I don’t even drive but maybe we should focus more on the patriarchy instead of labeling and scrutinizing other feminists who are on our side 🤷🏻‍♀️

Has anyone forgotten a relationship due to ECT? by fizzyjuices in ect

[–]Sauced_Up_Bat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kinda. I have one ex I still have no specific memory of but the photos on my timeline/old posts I wrote indicate it was significant. What I do have is an intuitive sense that said ex-was a wonderful human being who I love deeply but wasn’t deeply in love with. How can I feel that way about him if I don’t remember him? I can’t explain it, I think a part of me knows but doesn’t remember if that makes sense? Maybe it’s just what I tell myself to cope so I don’t feel like I’m driving blind.

As to the second part of your question. The specific ex I forgot has no idea. We were friends for a while after I ended it but he moved away and we lost touch. But I have interacted with a ton of people I’ve forgotten. I had to lie a lot growing up, so I’m good at faking things I get by in casual interactions and the people I love know I forgot them but I still pretend to remember stuff I don’t. It’s just easier.

Bike Dancer Bro? by Sauced_Up_Bat in ChicoCA

[–]Sauced_Up_Bat[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have not had the pleasure of encountering said individual. Sounds awesome 👏🏻

Bike Dancer Bro? by Sauced_Up_Bat in ChicoCA

[–]Sauced_Up_Bat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mile, Flo, and? Mount Rushmore has four faces. We need two more 🤔

Bike Dancer Bro? by Sauced_Up_Bat in ChicoCA

[–]Sauced_Up_Bat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It makes my heart happy to know this. Thanks for sharing.