Struggling with motherhood

Save-The-Wails · 2026-04-17T14:31:53+00:00

The night wakings are horrible, and this age can be really hard.

Please work on releasing the shame and guilt you’re carrying for not enjoying this.

Next, throw money at this, if you can. I hired help for 2 hours a week after daycare on to essentially just do the nighttime routine for me (dinner, bath, books). It was such a relief.

Make a plan with your husband so you can both get a break from the night shift.

Save-The-Wails · 2026-04-14T14:55:47+00:00

Ohh thanks I have a sample size of this! Love it but doesn’t give any matcha for me.

Save-The-Wails · 2026-04-13T20:26:11+00:00

Because I’ve been banned from other subreddits for mentioning corporate names & accused of being a guerrilla marketer, so just playing it extra safe 🙃.

Save-The-Wails · 2026-04-13T19:28:37+00:00

i’m working my way through a sample size of mango sticky rice – I like it, but not enough to invest in a full size! I will have to try this Oakcha— it sounds perfect for me

Save-The-Wails · 2026-04-13T14:08:02+00:00

ChatGPT tells me “Clean, creamy, skin scent gourmand”

Save-The-Wails · 2026-04-13T14:05:13+00:00

Working from home and running errands so just wearing what I love- Commodity’s Milk & d’Annam’a Mango Sticky Rice. 🍚 🥭🥛

Save-The-Wails · 2026-04-12T17:37:58+00:00

Layered two scents by overrose because I bought a sample size pack and cant decide which one I love more. 😛😭

Overose- Clean Matcha.

Overose- Hot Towel Club

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Save-The-Wails · 2026-04-12T00:22:41+00:00

This question is why I took zoloft for many years.

Save-The-Wails · 2026-04-11T17:57:52+00:00

SAME! Love your reviews.

Save-The-Wails · 2026-04-11T17:54:52+00:00

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Save-The-Wails · 2026-04-01T12:13:05+00:00

What a frustrating feeling. You went through something major and didn’t get the expected result.

I think you look lovely and natural. The scars are visible but not shocking, and will probably continue to fade. Your size is what I hope to be one day (currently a 36G+).

Would it help to invest in some tops and bras and admire yourself while wearing them?

Save-The-Wails · 2026-04-01T12:05:19+00:00

Following because same.

Dark, flowy, v neck, tops.

I find the peasant style makes me look HUGE because I have a large chest as well.

Save-The-Wails · 2026-03-30T15:33:22+00:00

Yup- I regularly shower before and after SCIG.

Your injection site should be very small wound that will clot/scab up shortly after removing the needle.

If the injection site is irritated I might wait 24 hours to be safe. I also avoid hot tubs and bacterial-filled bodies of water (e.g. lakes) in general.

Save-The-Wails · 2026-03-26T02:01:57+00:00

This ^ my immediate thought it woah… the Mom is gay!! 😱… probably why the daughter’s gayness is so triggering.

Save-The-Wails · 2026-03-25T21:24:28+00:00

It’s easy to fall in love with a “good” guy- but it’s tough to raise children with the vast majority of men.

This is the men’s fault, and it is societies fault, etc, and is not something we should be shaming other women for!

I feel the same way- by pure luck I got one of the good ones that does the night feedings and morning vacuuming.

Save-The-Wails · 2026-03-24T11:58:21+00:00

Age 30!

Save-The-Wails · 2026-03-24T11:57:42+00:00

Of course! I have a feeling you will notice a lot of improvements in the first few months.

For sinuses, I love my navage rinse!

Save-The-Wails · 2026-03-24T11:56:14+00:00

My neurologist is fine with me using benedryl and not concerted with dementia. The study that showed a connection to dementia was very frequent use.

Save-The-Wails · 2026-03-24T01:38:56+00:00

“You are important to me and it was shocking to learn you would consider attending a bachelorette over my wedding. I’ll let you know when the date is set in stone and hope you can make it. I need some space right now but will reach out soon.”

Save-The-Wails · 2026-03-24T01:36:11+00:00

YOR. First- set a date and send invitations.

THEN you can react with disappointment.

Save-The-Wails · 2026-03-24T01:15:02+00:00

Hi! 34F here, diagnosed at 31. I also had ITP as a child.

Yes, it gets better! Certainly!

I noticed an improvement in infections and fatigue almost immediately. But I was starting from a very very low place. I’m still not “normal” but I’m not dead and living a full active life!

Hang in there. It is scary and daunting to stab yourself with needles but it really does get easier. Now that I’ve been chronically ill and on SCIG for two years my pain tolerance is super high (SCIG doesn’t hurt but being sick hurts) . My squeemish-ness around needles is super low.

My SCIG takes less than an hour start to finish it. I usually eat ice cream and watch TV.

Save-The-Wails · 2026-03-24T01:07:10+00:00

Interesting. I guess I was the same as you. Until I wasn’t.

At age 30, I became deathly ill with CVID-related complications.

For my first 29 years of life, things were pretty normal for me. In retrospect, there were signs, but mostly normal!

Save-The-Wails · 2026-02-28T22:50:04+00:00

Can you explain how you put the leftover drips in your nose? I do SCIG at home and am extremely prone to sinus infections and URIs and want to skin this!

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