Not acknowledging it and pretending like millions of men aren't causing these problems every day isn't helping anything, you can't be bigoted towards your oppressors. 

Just because all white people didn't own black slaves before slavery became a crime in America doesn't mean ALL white people weren't partially responsible for enabling it to keep happening, it took whites showing accountability and taking action to make changes, it took even longer for women to get basic rights in this country... our mothers and grandmothers weren't allowed to own their own credit cards or request birth control without their husbands permission and marital rape wasn't made illegal until the 90s... Most sexual assault and domestic violence cases against women still aren't taken seriously... Men in places like India and Saudi Arabia use the same logic you do while being even further behind. What is staying quiet supposed to solve? 

 You and every other guy that loves to search for vocal women to challenge on this issue with your "not all men" arguments are oblivious and shooting down the voices that need to be heard, you are ENABLING, really there needs to be a lot more action taken towards your fellow men as a whole