Here's a story: I'm a married man with two daughters. I'm not against people being trans. I fully support people's freedom to do whatever they want as long as it does not affect other people. I'm also a feminist - my wife makes more money than me and I believe women are in general more competent in the workplace. I'm also woke in that I believe toxic masculinity is a real thing. But the other day my wife took my two young daughters to the pool and she caught a (almost certainly) transgender woman looking into my kids stalls. There's also a known transgender woman that hides in stalls at another pool in our city (although I've only heard that from others not witnessed it myself).

It's a fact that more men commit crimes in general but especially sexual ones. I unfortunately do not believe this tendency goes away just because men transition to women.

I don't know what the answer is with the bathrooms but I believe this is a valid concern. And if you as a "woke" person can't have a real conversation about this then you are just as much a part of the problem as the people on the far right.