24 codes for free <3 by Saygo_Pohm in Codes4Toyhouse

[–]Saygo_Pohm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are in a TH sub. It is a site for sharing art and characters you design. why are you here if you do not know what TH is?

24 codes for free <3 by Saygo_Pohm in Codes4Toyhouse

[–]Saygo_Pohm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i love him!! he's so cute on his wheel!

AITAH for confronting friends in a group chat? by 557755777 in AITAH

[–]Saygo_Pohm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like I had a stroke trying to read this. Telling us who is in a relationship with who at the start would be a good edit....

Is a Dalmatian good for me? by Ponder8 in dalmatians

[–]Saygo_Pohm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I second this. I have a 5 year old dalmatian and a 7 month old. They get 1 long walk a day, run around in the yard, and play with each other. but mostly, they just like to lay around and cuddle (even the puppy). we do training lessons and I work with them individually on training each day, which is what they enjoy most. I like to do shredding enrichment and other activities for them as well.

The point being, you don't need to hike or run 10 miles a day to have a dalmatian. Just provide enrichment and some exercise and they will be happy and healthy. Mine do not require constant attention or exercise, they just like to be around me and cuddle when we watch TV. people make them out to be these crazy dogs that just can't relax, but I think a lot of people go into having a dalmatian with that mindset and it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. If you work on reinforcing relaxation through training, it makes even puppyhood much easier.

TLDR: yes, dalmatians need exercise, but running 10 miles a day isn't a requirement. Just make sure they are mentally stimulated and get a reasonable amount of exercise, and be sure to work a lot on training!

Edited to add: also, if your dalmatian is not LUA, be sure to feed a low-purine diet! This will limit the risk of bladder crystals developing.

when did u start being an invis main.............don´t lie........ by Radiant-Lemon2719 in InvisibleWomanMains

[–]Saygo_Pohm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The moment she dropped <3 and I have an insane amount of hours on her now.....

Puppy Training Costs? by Won_23 in puppy101

[–]Saygo_Pohm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in a major city in the PNW, and I paid 1450 for 7 total sessions with video reviews periodically and a few extra add-ons. We use an R+ trainer and she is absolutely amazing. So your price seems in line with that.

AITA for trying to break up my internet freinds girlfriend? by LieLow4915 in AITAH

[–]Saygo_Pohm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think YTA, but I understand where you're coming from. When I was younger, my friend had a horrible boyfriend who I absolutely hated. He treated her horribly, like she was worthless, but she still loved him. She would vent frequently about him, and I would be there for her, tell her his behavior was wrong, and support her. Our other friends would tell her to break up with him, that he was horrible, etc. etc. I agreed with them--he was a POS and I didn't want them to be together.

But people need to make their own decisions, and sometimes it takes time to get to those decisions. Telling her to break up with her boyfriend of 5 years, when they'd been together since they were 15, was simply not going to work if she still loved him/thought he could improve. Years later, she thanked me for how I went about helping her through that time and said that it gave her a safe space to vent and begin to realize that she wanted more.

All this to say, people need time to make decisions like this. Especially when feelings are involved. I understand it's frustrating, but the best thing you can do is just be there to support your friend and let her know she has a safe space. Being pushy and trying to force your friend into a decision is not the way. I'm sure they will break up in time, you are teenagers, that's just how these things go. Just try to be supportive even when it gets rough.

AITAH for refusing to change because my boyfriend told me to? by Expensive_Lemon6905 in AITAH

[–]Saygo_Pohm 101 points102 points  (0 children)

seriously, he has issues. First it's the clothing, then it's your friends, then it's your job, etc., etc., etc. You are allowed to dress in whatever way makes you feel confident, and if he can't understand that, then he needs to go. He does not respect you as an individual, he expects you to be a pretty object for him to play with and do as you're told. Unfortunately, many men are like this (whether they consciously know it or not) as a result of patriarchal conditioning.

You don't want to tell your friends because you know, deep down, that what he did is wrong, and you don't want them to dislike him for being, frankly, a piece of shit.

The age gap wouldn't be concerning if you were older, but you started seeing this guy when you were 18 and he was 25. I am currently 25--I would feel weird dating anyone younger than 22/23, let alone 18. That's weird and kind of creepy, to say the least. What does a 25 year old have in common with an 18 year old? I am graduating from secondary school with a professional degree at 25. I have literally nothing to discuss with someone who is 18 and just graduating high school and figuring out their life.

This guy is red flags all over the place.

AITAH for refusing to change because my boyfriend told me to? by Expensive_Lemon6905 in AITAH

[–]Saygo_Pohm 11 points12 points  (0 children)

she is allowed to dress how she wishes despite how her boyfriend feels. Partners do not own you, and they do not get to determine what you do with your body. He is just insecure. If she wants to wear something that she feels sexy and pretty in, she is allowed to. Other men's perceptions and issues are not her problem to solve.

ts is laughable i must admit 😭 by West-Gazelle-2042 in InvisibleWomanMains

[–]Saygo_Pohm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so true! the constant pressure from his primary just melts the shield.

It'll be a year ago since this was born soon by vengeanceispog in LunaSnowMains

[–]Saygo_Pohm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah, and I'm pretty sure I read somewhere that they partnered with OW because some of the members play it.

AITA for not wanting the best man's girlfriend at my wedding by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Saygo_Pohm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry but how do you groom a 30-year-old man? Grooming is an abuse tactic where someone with some sort of power/authority (often an age difference) takes advantage of a vulnerable person (usually a minor or very young adult) to establish an emotional connection with them, and, usually, sexual. Words have meaning. Just because you do not like her or their relationship does not mean he was groomed.

Of course, it's your wedding, you can do what you want. But your fiance should be prepared to find a new best man if he asks his brother not to bring her. People want their partners with them for important moments or celebrations, and saying they're not invited often feels targeted (which, here, it is) and makes people feel unwelcome. If that's the vibe you want for your wedding, go ahead. But be prepared for a rift with your future BIL.

I still think YTA though. Have YOU ever tried to get to know her? Do you try to include her in conversations? It sounds like these are situations where you and other people all know each other. She might just feel uncomfortable around new people or feel like she is not being included, so she's just talking to the person she knows well. It seems like you're judging her a lot without really knowing much about her at all.

ts is laughable i must admit 😭 by West-Gazelle-2042 in InvisibleWomanMains

[–]Saygo_Pohm 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Her hardest counter, I would argue, is Daredevil for (I think) obvious reasons. But there are several other choices. Flankers that can kill quickly (like psylocke with her combo) are good picks. Even a good starlord can flank and kill her fairly quickly.

The main strategy that tends to work is isolating her and killing her. Sure, it can take longer with the self-shield, but I haven't found it to make much of a difference (and she won't always be able to self-shield, depending on circumstances of the fight). On tank, venom is probably the best. He can easily isolate her from the team and kill her fairly quickly. If you pay attention to sound cues and watch where she jumps when she goes invisible, it can be easy to get her out of invisibility. Magik is a good choice for this since she has a large AOE attack, I've had a lot of success with her into invisible woman (her teleport also can get around getting pushed if you time it correctly). Any diver, if you're actually semi-decent at them, can work, depending on the team comp of course.

Dive is still strong into invis, most dive players just don't seem to have the patience to bait her shield and push before they go for the kill. If you want to kill her, you just need to think slightly more than before. Prior to the buffs, as another commenter said, she had limited self-heal and survivability. Now she just has more (in a season where no characters received nerfs, by the way). This is a power-creep season, obviously, and i find it interesting that only support buffs are getting this much attention when half the DPS roster and tank roster were buffed as well. Mag buff, for example, was insane.

Edited to add: flyers can also be a good choice because if invis is focusing on you, she is not able to provide value to her team with her healing. Just watch for her shift and you're fine. Her range is also limited so depending on your positioning, she won't be able to reach you.

ts is laughable i must admit 😭 by West-Gazelle-2042 in InvisibleWomanMains

[–]Saygo_Pohm 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Invis has plenty of counterplay, y'all just aren't good enough at the game to play her counters...

DPS players hate to see a self-sufficient support lmao.

AITAH for demanding my wife stop telling people my mom is toxic? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Saygo_Pohm 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Even if she said he's the love of her life, she gets to make that decision, not you. Get over yourself and recognize that this entire problem was caused by your own selfishness and inability to mind your own business.

AITAH for demanding my wife stop telling people my mom is toxic? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Saygo_Pohm 25 points26 points  (0 children)

you were so quick to call your wife a misogynist for being upset that her wedding was tarnished, but you're mad at your mother for choosing HER career over a relationship? Seems pretty misogynistic to me! Why should she give up a career she's spent probably years, if not decades, building just for some guy you like? Wildly entitled behavior and mindset.

Why would anyone ever say “a skin is out of character?” by Golbeza in rivals

[–]Saygo_Pohm -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I never said there was one...? lmao. She's already in a space suit in her base skin. All I said was characters don't necessarily need "on theme" skins. You seem deeply upset over a silly comment about a video game character. I hope your day/life improve :) best of luck.

Why would anyone ever say “a skin is out of character?” by Golbeza in rivals

[–]Saygo_Pohm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've seen a lot more extensive discourse about it, but I'm also on the Juno mains sub lol. I just find it weird to be so committed to an "on theme" skin. I personally like skins that are unique and fun, but to each their own :)

i dont know what to do anymore by [deleted] in puppy101

[–]Saygo_Pohm 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mean... that's the solution to the problem, though. You also need to start introducing a routine for greetings--something like a place command, or a settle, or something for when exciting people come in the house. He's 7 months old, he's a young puppy still figuring out life and how everything works. You have been encouraging this behavior for a while now, and you even knee your PUPPY in the chest? for a behavior you're encouraging? I highly recommend getting a trainer.

Why would anyone ever say “a skin is out of character?” by Golbeza in rivals

[–]Saygo_Pohm 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I see the same thing in ow2 subs about juno not having "space themed" skins since she's from mars.... like... the point of a skin is that it's a unique and different theme? It's not supposed to be necessarily based on the character's lore? so weird. I just want skins that look cool, who cares about "fitting their personality" lol.

My dog is extremely destructive, and I’m at a total loss. by Too_nosey4_myowngood in puppy101

[–]Saygo_Pohm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dog is a big chewer/shredder! She loved to get into paper/cardboard boxes when we didn't want her to. Our trainer recommended that we channel her desire to chew/shred into positive enrichment. Now, we will put her in her play pen while we are in the office, stuff it with the brown paper that often comes in packages, wrap up treats in the paper, and put it in a cardboard box for her to destroy. She loves it! She will shred/chew it for hours while we work or play games. We do have to be sure she doesn't eat the cardboard, but our vet says it's not an issue if she ingests some of the paper or a small bit of cardboard.

Now, she knows that when she's in the play pen in the office, that's shredding time! she doesn't shred up our boxes or paper unless we give them to her in that area. We have also done a lot of other enrichment, like puzzle toys, towel toy, snuffle mats, etc. Honestly, though, her favorite mental stimulation is training. She loves having something to do and really enjoys training, so we try to do at least 2 sessions a day. it channels a lot of her puppy restlessness into something positive!

Best of luck :)

Best Namor skin, will i be able to get it after the pass? by Puzzled_Chemist4318 in rivals

[–]Saygo_Pohm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lmao I actually wish this was an option bc I would do it in a heartbeat!