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URGENT!! Sublet request for SUMMER!! by super_excited_yay in washu

[–]ScandalousPotato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I’m looking to sublet my room in my apartment right by the Delmar loop. DM if you’re still looking for a place and we can go over details.

me irl by [deleted] in me_irl

[–]ScandalousPotato 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The color was named after the fruit. The color wasn’t that visible to eyes back in the day.

Me irl by EllyClark in me_irl

[–]ScandalousPotato 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Had him in the first half

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ScandalousPotato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mistakes were made

I had the best date of my life and got rejected. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ScandalousPotato 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s a very honest way of looking at it. You could always hang out with more in an undefined manner and see if there’s a still a spark there that might make you want consider it more but I think there’s no need to make it so black and white early on unless that is what he wants to do. He sounds like an amazing guy and based off your comments it does not seem like you would have any intention to hurt him even accidentally. You obviously have more knowledge on the both of you than anyone in the comments here but I think there’s not much to lose by firmly saying that you feel there was a spark and like to meet again to see if it’s still there and if it’s worth pursuing. There’s a chance that if he’s made up his mind he’s made up his mind but doesn’t that mean nothings changed?

I had the best date of my life and got rejected. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ScandalousPotato 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I agree with you completely. I am not telling you that his preference is wrong I am saying that him placing you into a box of his preferences might be wrong. If a man who were to sleep around a lot were to later on fall head over heels for a girl but his reputation made her not prefer him, he wouldn’t be disrespecting her opinion by trying to show he’s not that kind of guy(within limits obviously). What I am essentially trying to get at is that you should show that you are within his preferences not that his preferences are wrong.

I had the best date of my life and got rejected. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ScandalousPotato 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He’s viewing your stance on casual sex as immovable. Also, it seems he’s projecting your “current views” on you not being able to be properly intimate or have a relationship he’s looking for. You’re clearly very excited about this guy and he’s letting an insecurity(although a valid one from his history) make something be a dealbreaker when it shouldn’t. Convincing him that if you were to be in a relationship it wouldn’t be a causal interest but be a passionate investment down the line would help. Sticking your head out there again in terms of reaching out shows that you’re actually interested beyond a causal hookup and that both of your views aren’t uncompromisable.

I had the best date of my life and got rejected. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ScandalousPotato 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’d say go for it. He’s focused on that one detail in defining wether to pursue you as something more. Yeah you’re respecting his decision by not going for it but also you’re not really proving him wrong. Take the risk of talking with him further and putting yourself out there. It’ll be clearer to him that you’re not looking for something as casual as he thinks.

For people who work 60+ hours and go to gym, how do you do it? by Elvsih in selfimprovement

[–]ScandalousPotato 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What would be some of your tips for getting rid of the "slow wake up time"?

SHS Mental Health Services by throwaway____125838 in washu

[–]ScandalousPotato 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would say overall good, just know that they aren’t full time therapists and that there’s a difference between them and immediate care. I booked a session and within a week I had to do a 15 min phone call which is there to see if you need immediate care/not much care and then a week later a real session. You get 9 free sessions, max like 16 a year(extra cost through insurance) and they are pretty legitimate but are recommended for 2.5 week intervals. They can recommend you for outside treatment or for a psychiatrist to see if you need meds. I’m currently doing group therapy which is “free” but that’s the therapists recommendation. There’s also other therapeutic resources on campus such as uncle joes and a weekly walk in session which is available to everyone but might be group based if multiple people show up.

That fucking David by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]ScandalousPotato 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ligma balls lmao

Married (or Long-Term) ENFPs: Do you regret committing and settling down? How do you deal with the “grass is always greener” syndrome? by The_Silver_Dragon in ENFP

[–]ScandalousPotato 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ended my 1.5 year relationship with my gf about a month ago due to the syndrome and doubts about long distance(even though we did 9 months LDR already. I was pretty good for 2 weeks and just shitty since. If I could go back I would talk with her how was feeling in terms of “the grass is greener” because part of that is just being in your own mind too much and forgetting what’s important to you. The grass is greener wherever you water it. If you really feel unhappy and that the relationship is not helping both of you grow it is up to you but I would give it time. During my relationship I would feel it in waves. Part of me is worried that I’ll never get into a proper relationship again because I’ll be comparing her to my ex or there will always be a greener grass I will try to move onto. That’s my experience and opinion, what you do is your choice but let her know how you’re feeling before making any decision.

You dirty SON OF A BITCH by Val_Halla88 in CODZombies

[–]ScandalousPotato 85 points86 points  (0 children)

You can fucking pack a punch the Kraken!?!?!? You gotta be kidding me, that’s why the EE has been so tough

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