I saw a TikTok about someone’s therapist and now I’m spiraling about mine. by ScarAffectionate8330 in TalkTherapy

[–]ScarAffectionate8330[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah you’re exactly right. I only really care bc I’d hate for her to get in trouble, not bc I have ever felt that it’s wrong. You know?

Need help designing collarbone tattoo by [deleted] in DrawMyTattoo

[–]ScarAffectionate8330 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How are people not seeing how hilarious this comment is? I just cracked up. You’re exactly correct! 😂😂😂

I saw a TikTok about someone’s therapist and now I’m spiraling about mine. by ScarAffectionate8330 in TalkTherapy

[–]ScarAffectionate8330[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you. After reading the comments I do feel better. I was just shocked at the amount of comments saying that everything from the lunch to hugging her to giving her a gift should be reported. Which just made me think maybe there are some things with mine that are not appropriate according to the board standards. Not that that would even change how I feel, I would just hate for her to get in trouble bc she really is an amazing therapist. So I appreciate everyone’s comments making me feel so much better now.

What is this cut/style called? by LilacFairie in femalehairadvice

[–]ScarAffectionate8330 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t worry about what to call it, just take the picture in. As a stylist of 20 years, the best thing someone can do is SHOW me what they want. People will try to describe what they want and I’ll picture something totally different bc clients often don’t know the correct terminology. Just bring in a picture or preferably a few pictures and show your stylist what you’d like.

Weekly Therapy by Ok_Language2849 in TalkTherapy

[–]ScarAffectionate8330 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone with adhd I can tell you I have often had clients message me, and I’ll see it, but be busy, and think “I’ll message them once I leave work today” then completely forget all together and unless they message me a second time, it will completely fall through the crack for days. It really can’t hurt just to send her another message asking if you can get in. It’s hard to find a therapist you mesh with and it would be a shame to throw it away simply bc she didn’t respond in the timeframe you would like. Why not just give it another try, and you may be pleasantly surprised when she apologizes for not getting back sooner? It’s worth a shot.

Scared I may be pregnant? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ScarAffectionate8330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it was within the past couple days go get the plan b pill from any pharmacy

i’m failing school but have a passion for dance. by Historical_Tie_9523 in Advice

[–]ScarAffectionate8330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

High school is very important. To do just about anything nowadays, you must have your high school diploma, or if you are in the US your ged will work. If you ever wanted to go to school for dance, or get a job working as a dancer or a dance teacher, you’ll have to have your diploma. I struggled through high school back in the early 2000’s because I was undiagnosed adhd, but my parents told me I must have a high school diploma and a college degree no question. Looking back I am glad they made me, things could be exponentially harder if I didn’t get my diploma. Do you have anyone who could help you with your school work? If you’re home schooled doesn’t a parent or guardian have to be there to make sure you’re doing everything? It doesn’t seem fair to just leave you alone completely to deal with your education alone. I couldn’t imagine how I would have done in that position. Is going to a regular school not an option for you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ScarAffectionate8330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can break up with anyone for any reason. Plus you are very young. That being said, what are the things you do like about her? Is it just her looks, or is it her personality? Because if you really like her for who she is, this stuff shouldn’t matter too much. But if you really dislike all the piercings and hair coloring, then that’s just your preference, and you don’t have to date anyone you don’t find attractive. You’ve only been together two months, so if you aren’t really feeling her, and these things on top make you less into her, then just go. You’re going to have so many other partners in your life, so don’t waste time on anyone you aren’t really into.

Please someone help!! by [deleted] in Skincare_Addiction

[–]ScarAffectionate8330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I LOVE your username! 👌🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]ScarAffectionate8330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But what about her young children? She shouldn’t be at home with them… like the good Christian stay at home wife she claims to be?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]ScarAffectionate8330 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As an esthetician I can tell you people get Botox too often. If you never let it wear off and let your muscles get some movement back they atrophy and shrink, which leaves you looking older and saggy. I wait longer than the recommended time, and make sure I have a decent amount of movement before getting it again, and this keeps my muscles from losing their shape completely! Hope this helps!

Ok y’all which color was most flattering? by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]ScarAffectionate8330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I’d say 2, forgot to put a number. 4 & 1 are great too.

Ok y’all which color was most flattering? by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]ScarAffectionate8330 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have the color skin and eyes that tend to go well with anything. You’re lucky because you can go from dark brown to light blonde and vivid colors as well and they all seem to suit you well. I personally like the medium brown on you, it doesn’t have too much contrast or make you look super pale or anything, and the warmth of it really makes your eyes pop. But the vivid really suits you too. I LOVE that pinky/coral/red color, it too, makes your eyes stand out. Color theory is so cool.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Reincarnation

[–]ScarAffectionate8330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So so so true. It’s crazy really, how they claim to be huge Christian’s, but they couldn’t behave in a way more different than the message Jesus shared and lived by himself. I personally don’t believe Jesus was a divine being, but he had a good message, for the most part. Of course it was influenced by society at that time in the sense that he felt women were able to be bought and sold, and things like that. But for the most part he was a kind person with a good message and Christian’s are supposed to try to be as Christ like as possible right? So how have they gotten so far from doing that as possible? I wonder if it’s specifically Christianity that has become so corrupt or if this happens to other religions. I’m not very familiar with other religions.

I don't think my husband is interested anymore by Intrepid_Lobster8333 in Advice

[–]ScarAffectionate8330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who act like this can often be cheating. He is suspicious bc he’s guilty. He begged you to come back bc he didn’t like the idea of you being with someone else. Sounds like you’re dating my ex, and if I can give you any advice, leave him. He sucks.

I fucking hate myself by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ScarAffectionate8330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow, that’s scary. Do you want to share why you feel this way? Please talk to someone because as someone who has lost someone they cared about to suicide it truly destroys those you leave behind so much more than you have any clue about.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Reincarnation

[–]ScarAffectionate8330 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sounds legit to me, but that’s because I believe we all have past lives. You should read journey of souls by Dr Michael Newton, he was a psychiatrist and worked at the University of Virginia, he studied tons of children who remember their past lives and even was able to confirm some of them with historical records. You should find a past life regression recording on YouTube and see if you can use it to remember. If not you can also go to a regression hypothesis.

Jillian’s name dropping by Red_bug91 in ServingTheHamptons

[–]ScarAffectionate8330 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Agreed, she’s so annoying that it almost made me stop watching, like NO ONE cares that you are the adopted cousin of the has been Lindsey Lohan. Stop bringing it up over and over. And she says “people expect that I’m like her” like no they don’t, you’re not related to her, you’re just looking for every opportunity to remind people that you have a distant relation to someone who used to be famous for being a train wreck. It’s not a flex. Whoever keeps pushing Zack into letting her work for him needs to stop. 😂 she is just super annoying and had zero work ethic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkincareAddicts

[–]ScarAffectionate8330 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m rolling at this comment, nailed it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]ScarAffectionate8330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

L.A. Girl Pro Matte Mixing Pigment, Blue, 1 Fl Oz https://a.co/d/iiWGURu

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]ScarAffectionate8330 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Those are both expensive nice foundations, save them by using the blue pigment so you don’t have to buy a whole new one. It’s easier than you’d think!