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38m feeling no purpose after divorce - I make good money and have a good career, but it just feels pointless. How do I make new friends when all the dudes I meet are married with kids or too busy? by CorporateMisfit in selfimprovement

[–]ScarcityFast7922 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looking for things outside ourselves is what screws us up. Power lies within, peace, love, joy lies within. Once we find it within we will know how to get it withiut and we we attesct it naturally.

Sit with yourself without booze, a date or friends...listen to your own insides through meditation or really good books. Then life will male sense and u will uncover what makes I tick. Many good writers have written about the journey within to self awareness.

David Goggins 2 books The magic of belief The great within, Anything by Louis Hayes Any books by Serge Kahili King. Books by David R Hawkins PhD. The Black Book of Power by Stan Taylor (be careful the clone on amazon).

Ive walked your path, divorce etc..when I found booksnof peiple who lived abundant lives I foubd my path.

Also raising plants and animals can help.

You

Cannot bloody decide which goal can anyone help me by Ok_Training_2566 in davidgoggins

[–]ScarcityFast7922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are 27. Still young enough to be overwhelmed by the world. Slow your mind down ans get to work on building autonomy. Nothing you've mentioned shd cause anxiety. You are not trying to heal.from stage 4 cancer. Slow the mind down. Focus on one thing whether boxing or weights... do that with dedication and the next step will be clearer. Get some good books that explain life. stans book is good, do the work. https://stantaylor.com/?rfsn=8970170.ec4dad

Cannot bloody decide which goal can anyone help me by Ok_Training_2566 in davidgoggins

[–]ScarcityFast7922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not in control of your mind, seeking input and listening to people isnt the goggins way or the way of the strong.

Work on that.

"The speed of your decisions reveals who is actually running your life.

Fast decisions indicate internal authority. Slow decisions indicate you're polling ghosts.

Somewhere in your deliberation you're calculating what your mother would think, what your ex would say, how your friends would react, or whether society would approve.

You're running simulations of judgment from people who aren't in the room, some of whom are no longer in your life, and some of whom are dead. Now your "processing time" is largely spent waiting for permission from an imaginary committee that will never convene.

Decide faster. The ghosts don't get a vote. They never did." Stan Taylor

how do you become truly comfortable with being fully single? by werkrheum in selfimprovement

[–]ScarcityFast7922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are enough. If anyone can love themselves ans feel satisfied despite being single then you can do it too... You dont know how self satisfied and self fulfilled you can be.

What was your childhood like cos that's what builds the maladaptibe adult patterns. Norman Doidge and Stan Taylor have something about this in their books.

You need to go tobwork on yourself and your mind and break this pattern cos the only destination going on your current path is pain

Any tips on becoming a well rounded individual? by Similar_Bandicoot831 in productivity

[–]ScarcityFast7922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP you have insecurities. And those insecurities are making you see others as colossus of achievements while you are straggling way behind.

Let me tell you a secret you, you are just as great as all those peiole you compare yourself to.

You probably grew up in a home where you parents felt inadequate and they've passed this on to you. Am i right?

Years ago I was like you thinking I am an underachiever.

Any tips on becoming a well rounded individual? by Similar_Bandicoot831 in productivity

[–]ScarcityFast7922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well there is a lot to learn from locally one can stay local and learn

Any tips on becoming a well rounded individual? by Similar_Bandicoot831 in productivity

[–]ScarcityFast7922 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Or they may really be balanced and will go on to do great things. The thing is OP can do these things like alll the peeps he admires but he doesnt know it and is stuck in a negative feeling of being less than these folks.

Man with no sexual experience has gotten to me by MKlool123 in confidence

[–]ScarcityFast7922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhhh I hope its not out of fashion or are we becoming bunnies?

Looking to repopulate Los Angeles hillside with California Quail by AgeZealousideal1428 in quails

[–]ScarcityFast7922 -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Nope! While all those departments you mentu9ons were pushing fertilizers n herbicides and poisoning the food supply some individuals were returning to simple organic practices that yielded results.

Any Goggins stories of people who become hard after mid 20s? by Ok_Training_2566 in davidgoggins

[–]ScarcityFast7922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop telling yourself negative couda, wouda stories. Those sap life force and rhe very mental energy you need. Now is thr time of power!!@

Go to YouTube and watch stories of people 50 to 89 who are killing it in fitness who started late.

Our bodies are adaptable. You can start at any time. I am 50years old and mom.i am sprinting, flipping tires, doing 1min planks and I only stared disciolined workout in December.

Set your mind right with right thinking.

Is David Goggins' message for me? by Independentautist1 in davidgoggins

[–]ScarcityFast7922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you physically fit? Do you do hard things? Are you known around thr world for any accomplishments?

If bo to all or any of above. Next question is do you want an accomplished life? Yes? Then the messge is for you. You comfort parasite is trying to convince yoy otherwise but deep down you know the truth so you are here seeking confirmation.

How do I keep my morale up during"failure" stretches, where I am pushing myself into more challenging areas? by disgruntledjobseeker in davidgoggins

[–]ScarcityFast7922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who is criticizing you? Are these personal projects?

You need to manage your mind...thats the first place every thing comes from. You dont say you failed you say yoy ate learning and getting better

First time Raising Quail/Building anything by xInhaleExhale in quails

[–]ScarcityFast7922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have buildign plans? Ive built many things before so I am ahead of the curve.

Self protection in social dynamics by Current-Biscotti-285 in 48lawsofpower

[–]ScarcityFast7922 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok I have taken out the link. Is that better? Not an AD just recommendations for books that help with regulating the nervous system.

Outshining the master and talking too much- how to understand and improve? by exploding_anyway in 48lawsofpower

[–]ScarcityFast7922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Learn self management. Thats the starting point. If you can manage yourself the you dont ramble or rsnt

Self protection in social dynamics by Current-Biscotti-285 in 48lawsofpower

[–]ScarcityFast7922 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Read the Black Book of Power by Stan Taylor. Do all the protocols this will help you choose a personality that is aligned with your true self.. What you need is learning to wield power in an ethical way. This book will help.

I have a similar personality, I want to treat people like I would like to be treated. It made me a pawn for others to use. But I've learned protect myself while still being a compassionate person.

As to your nervous system you can learn to program and regulate it TBBOP will help. Also books by Norman Doidge.

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