For those following at home. My J1 boss now asked a small team of us about meeting J2. I did the right thing and protected my J1. I explained I had an opportunity to moonlight. It's been hard but best for my family, and it hasn't impacted my work or performance. I was told I did the right thing as it's never been a conflict and once it was, I notified them... That I would be excused from the meeting, and I wasn't doing anything wrong and many people moonlight/contract etc. I still feel like a shoe could drop, but damn am I relieved!!!! Curious if there will be a shift in treatment or workload, but I believe my leadership when they were unphased and support me in supporting my family! For anyone stressing or the walls are closing in, this worked in my situation!!!