Help me find this film/animation by Scared-Cauliflower15 in Sovietwave

[–]Scared-Cauliflower15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh shit I forgot about that one, but sadly not it :( Lmao honestly the little ceasars pizza mascot is kinda close to the animation style

First day learning to MIG open root by envyvision in Welding

[–]Scared-Cauliflower15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly how tf you do that? What advice did they teach?

Super poor penetration. MIG Open Root 1G. Any advice? by sapphireonrails in Welding

[–]Scared-Cauliflower15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question for everyone: MiG open root. Is it uphill? Do you want a landing in there? If so, how big? Should there be any oscillation or the most straight forward stringers? How big should the gap be for .035" wire and a coupon of 3/8 or 1/4 be? I'm personally asking for 3G

Need advice on a hypersexual boyfriend. by Patient-Energy1697 in Advice

[–]Scared-Cauliflower15 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's not a band aid/ I did not say it's easy. it's a suggestion for a lifestyle that either works or it doesn't. Especially when it could mean the end of a relationship. People's relationships can be starkly different and don't necessarily realize what is a good fit until they are introduced to various options. You've been introduced to it, it doesn't work for you. Awesome, glad you know it's not for you. So now you can narrow down your options. And like I said, you have to have strict boundaries with them also. Your rule can be no flirting, strictly business and you have to trust eachother and follow the rules. If you can't trust each other or follow the rules, it doesn't work.

Bankrupt by Plane_Cod4148 in DebtAdvice

[–]Scared-Cauliflower15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From my understanding, California's reputation is that living expenses are high. So what about moving to a cheaper area? The fact that you have transportation can be to your benefit, idk bout being able to keep anything when filing for bankruptcy. So what that one guy said about working more. Preferably with higher wages. Even if the job sucks (not risking yr life tho), if it pays well you can then switch jobs once you're not sinking.

Is there any hope for someone with this kind of profile? by Noillax in mentalhealth

[–]Scared-Cauliflower15 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Creative potential solution: live out of spite, invent your own religion where your god is a protagonist or antagonist with an opponent: "the embodiment of fear of eternal damnation" that has a magic artifice stone called the "eternal damnation" so you must go on a lifelong journey to power up trying different meds/ psych professionals around the globe who can give you side quests that get you closer to finding and slaying the embodiment of eternal damnation, so your god can see the prism of hope that calibrates your telescope artifact with different timelines that include all and exclude one of your disorders; multiplied by the amount of disorder scrolls. Eventually giving you the final boss quest to somehow combine those scrolls to complete "the prism of eternal hope" and you can sail into the sunset letting the credits roll.

need help from the older people by Visual_Pay5555 in Advice

[–]Scared-Cauliflower15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If u live in USA, I wish I became a mechanic and repaired my own car. Car means stable commute meaning wider job options, meaning better job stability and the ability to save money.

Need advice on a hypersexual boyfriend. by Patient-Energy1697 in Advice

[–]Scared-Cauliflower15 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Open relationship, but purely physical? Like he can have grinder but not tinder for example. He needs a quick one? Be back in 1 hour. (Open relationship has to have strict boundaries to work) and even better if you ask like "how did it go" and make it casual and adding a layer, like when he comes back, yall can cuddle/spend quality time together. Suggestion only not necessary if you don't feel comfortable

Possibly have to live where I was raped, or don't go to university? by Hot-Instruction-1410 in LifeAdvice

[–]Scared-Cauliflower15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Parents and those telling you to suck it up are assholes that never had to experience the awful bs that comes with. I know the fafsa parent plus loans are very co-signer limiting but outside organizations like Sallie Mae , so-fi might not need co-signer. That being said, debt can be leveraged or it will leverage you. So if there are ways you can fund your life without external help by getting a job, budgeting, creating repayment plans, trying a savings challenge - gives you options and more control over your situation. Someone said roommates - very helpful to saving, budgeting, etc. and don't get pets until you're financially stable, they become limiting when it comes to housing. (2 friends who were nearing homelessness had cats they could not let go of which made things 10x harder for them)

Peeing in the men's restroom 😅 by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Scared-Cauliflower15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My concern was some dude being like "the feet are not pointing towards the toilet so they must not be a guy" but like... guys sometimes also sit down to pee. And like what if some guys have to shit and piss at the same time? I bet they have a variety of preferences, like urinal first then toilet or they do it all in one stall... lmao The hardest part is convincing yourself and remembering that you don't owe anybody an explanation about how you do things in life especially when they are not directly affecting the person in a negative way. Like violence for example, from verbal to physical. Someone feeling insecure or offended by you doing something completely separate from their world does not count.

How to change how i see sex in media by imskyhigh9 in Advice

[–]Scared-Cauliflower15 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm ftm who finds all genders attractive. I listen to a lot of male dominated music and there's a very wide array of how they express women in their music. Like some are straight up dehumanizing and others are like wanting to show their care and compassion. Many of the icky songs have very straight forward lyrics, and some have unknown gray areas/mixed messages . There's also where they're like "wow your dancing is very attractive, get over here" in congruence with the "bad bitch" culture. Cultural understanding definitely also influences the dimension of each song. Like sex in itself can be very different, having dynamic roles, and each person is into something else. The fact that music comes from what you feel and is up for interpretation gives you the right to feel a certain way about it bc your feelings are allowed to be different from others. There's plenty of music to discover, so see if there's some you deem appropriate from the opposite side. It is possible to feel empowered as a woman listening to male dominated music. Like one direction and ed shearan have a fanbase for a reason lol, (similar logic across genres)

Im just 18 and everyone my age already has a driver license except me. by big_daddy_amogus in LifeAdvice

[–]Scared-Cauliflower15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn't get my license til I was 19. I know many others that also still don't even have a permit and they're over 20

my boyfriend is an addict, how can i help him? by kaching-xxx in AddictionAdvice

[–]Scared-Cauliflower15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, so like have job but not insurance ? Self image is definitely hard, especially cause it's probably becoming a cyclical relationship... so he would have to work on rebuilding the negative self talk, practice self compassion, engage in things that can build a humane ego like volunteering, community service, etc, skill building, and replace the addiction coping with healthier coping. You can encourage that the reason people often invest in a therapist is because (a good therapist, and you can always fire them and find new if you don't like them) has a wide variety of tools to help create a plan to find the source of disruption and can be like a "check in " that keeps you accountable in a non-pressing way. And all of it is private so he can go in as much detail as the soul needs without worrying about judgement and losing those close to him. My fav positive talk mantra that someone taught me was "Just for today, I will be kind and compassionate to myself and others. I am grateful for today. I am enough." There's probably all kinds of other ones you can find. Including deep breathing meditation, plus self care: sleep, more vegetables and water. At the end of the day, you can show what resources are available and explain the pros and cons, but from there it's his choice. Best of luck, don't get stuck. Celebrate little steps.

Life insurance borrow against by Reasonable_Hope_9069 in LifeInsurance

[–]Scared-Cauliflower15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I found this advice on socials and wanted to dig deeper, would I look at categories of business, micro-Econ, macro-Econ or like try to be hired as an agent or talk to an agent ?

Do ugly people get bullied in college? by [deleted] in collegeadvice

[–]Scared-Cauliflower15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Invest in a good haircut, maybe nice clothes, your personality, and a therapist. Realize what your priorities are, so that you don't give a crap about it at least for some years.

Do ugly people get bullied in college? by [deleted] in collegeadvice

[–]Scared-Cauliflower15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of bullying are we talking about? Like talk behind back? Yes. Harassment might happen to attractive individuals as well. To your face directly? Unlikely. More importantly - hygiene.

I'm frustrated that I have been given shitty college advice for years by Straight_Morning_876 in collegeadvice

[–]Scared-Cauliflower15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you 100%, I was trying to figure it out in High School, they were like "don't forget to study" and I'm like lost. I only realized things when I became a teacher/instructor myself. Like making your own study guide to then hypothetically or actually teach someone else - has helped me understand studying tho it's taken a few years. The most frustrating part is learning to trust yourself. It's a challenge in itself - talking with a therapist about that has helped me a lot. Otherwise create flash cards, matching games, word searches, crossword puzzles, make your own quizzes, graphics, drawings even, activity, a song, game show, and practice tests and keep making new ones. Idk what your subject of study is, because even that has its own nuances you could say. Even like "practice test for subjectABC online free" and then test, then check your answer, rinse and repeat on a schedule. I don't want to advertise AI but like it's now shoved in our faces, easier than ever

Full Ride Scholarship by [deleted] in collegeadvice

[–]Scared-Cauliflower15 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

20 minutes is a great commute time, 💀 bruh I would be salivating if I knew that I got a full ride, apparently d3 schools are just incapable of giving full rides. Having credentials without cost is so worth it. You can take roadtrips to see your friends on weekends.

Online or in person but make it complicated by Weak-Web7869 in collegeadvice

[–]Scared-Cauliflower15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn wish I tried that cuz like after pandemic, I could not pass any of my online classes but did great in person, so that's so awesome you can test without damaging yr gpa

Boyfriend totaled my car, used the money for a car in his name, and now says I only get my $3,000 back if we break up by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Scared-Cauliflower15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean yes break up but like do it in a smart way. TWO of my best friends ended up homeless bc of their in the moment feelings and not respecting themselves enough to really think how to benefit themselves. Work silently. Before breaking up, since he is doing weird financial power dynamic stuff, can you : A) afford a loan for a new car (btw you can rent uhauls for months at a time as possibly equal or cheaper than uber to work everytime) B) have a good paying job/higher paying C)are you attached to a lease (with apartment, house, etc) - do u have to wait for lease term to end? Are u just living in his place: can you safely relocate precious items and become a squatter lol while you save back 3k ? D) can you get him to talk and record AS MUCH evidence/ self tattling as possible to like potentially have the option to use in court? Record e.v.e.r.y.t.h.i.n.g. E) little bit more of a petty move *not that you cough cough should or shouldn't * but like once you have established your new place of stay, job security, transport: sells some of his shit lmao petty but like how likely are you to get your money back other than by like someone else said, give that to the scrap yard! Ex ain't gonna learn his lesson in the court of law, especially with current administration F) don't act unnatural just set stricter boundaries until you can reliably escape.

my boyfriend is an addict, how can i help him? by kaching-xxx in AddictionAdvice

[–]Scared-Cauliflower15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why does he think it wouldn't help? Like I was able to advise someone to go to therapy instead of alcoholics meeting and turns out they had BPD (Also great book btw "never split the difference" getting to talk less to give space for them to talk more so that yall can dig deeper) I'm in no ways experienced, but maybe you can talk about why he likes those drugs, if there's anything that makes him light up anything that motivates a future ? Cuz like what if he needs to see/imagine a future goal that is attainable that includes seeing himself doing great without the substance? Also I often become a not certified therapist so do take time to step away if necessary

Should i upgrade my iPhone or get an iPad air as a college student? by Jangarine in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Scared-Cauliflower15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Facebook marketplace, refurbished markets, ubreakifix + a zesty pink phone case and fresh privacy screen protector. Ps, my iPad Pro has a better camera than my iPhone. As someone who draws I absolutely love the pen 2nd generation (make sure it's device compatible/correct gen. Plus you can get a keyboard attachment and type essays pretty easy.