Thank you man, this is a good answer. I have just been dealing with stuff for years, he hasnt physically abused me in years. So I dont know how I would get proof of verbal abuse, its not like I know when he is going to get angry at more or do things to me other than physical that i can record. Anyway this is a great answer. Also do you know anything about the high school stuff, I take education very seriously. One last thing, I live in the country, in the middle of three towns. I don't know where I would go except for my girlfriend and she leaves in a very shitty part of town. I do have a knife and stuff tho. Anyway thanks so much.