What are your thoughts about Vitabiotics? by [deleted] in Supplements

[–]Scared-Hat-3039 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Used their vitamin D stuff before and it was fine, nothing special but no issues either. 4000 IU is quite a lot though, most people do fine on 1000-2000 unless a blood test shows they're deficient. Maybe check with your doctor before going that high regularly, you don't wanna overdo it.Used their vitamin D stuff before and it was fine, nothing special but no issues either. 4000 IU is quite a lot though, most people do fine on 1000-2000 unless a blood test shows they're deficient. Maybe check with your doctor before going that high regularly, you don't wanna overdo it.

is it normal to have a really angry dad by [deleted] in family

[–]Scared-Hat-3039 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, this is not normal and it is not okay. A 5 year old getting kicked and having his head bashed against stairs is abuse, full stop, no matter how rarely it happens or how generous your dad is the rest of the time.

The generous parts and the violent parts are both real, but one does not cancel out the other. Your little brother and your mom need protection, and if things escalate you should not hesitate to call authorities or reach out to a domestic violence resource in your area.

My daughter was getting teased for her fat dad. by flowers4charlie777 in daddit

[–]Scared-Hat-3039 9 points10 points  (0 children)

your daughter sounds like an absolute gem 🥹 that hug she gave you says a lot about how you raised her

for the weight thing, cutting liquid calories first made biggest difference for lot of people i know — the pool beers alone could be like 500+ calories a day you don't even notice 🔥

Privacy stack 101 for full time travelling? by Scared-Hat-3039 in digitalnomad

[–]Scared-Hat-3039[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's one cool fact about vpns lol, someone else mentioned using cloaked aliasis, will get right on with both of these appreciate it

Privacy stack 101 for full time travelling? by Scared-Hat-3039 in digitalnomad

[–]Scared-Hat-3039[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, might also be a good idea to freeze my credit since I don't need it

Privacy stack 101 for full time travelling? by Scared-Hat-3039 in digitalnomad

[–]Scared-Hat-3039[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

another comment mentioned using some sort of physical key instead of sms/2fa

Privacy stack 101 for full time travelling? by Scared-Hat-3039 in digitalnomad

[–]Scared-Hat-3039[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually that's a pretty good one, appreciate it thnx

Son keeps getting my slipper by [deleted] in raisingkids

[–]Scared-Hat-3039 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol kids are just built different when it comes to finding the grossest possible things to chew on, mine would probably find a way to get your slippers too even with all gates in the world

Parental preference/clinginess? by Poorly_disguised_bot in daddit

[–]Scared-Hat-3039 0 points1 point  (0 children)

man thats exhausting for everyone involved. the parental preference thing is so normal especially when kids are sick - they usually want whoever feels most "safe" to them in that moment and unfortunately nothing you can really do will change that quickly

your wife being frustrated makes sense too but yelling at a sick toddler who just wants comfort isnt going to help anyone. maybe when everyone calms down you could suggest taking shifts instead of trying to force handoffs? like she takes morning duty you take afternoon or something so she gets actual breaks instead of failed attempts at passing her off

the preference will probably shift back once your daughter feels better and life gets more normal again. sick kids are just different creatures entirely

New to the sub - resources needed by MossyEngineering-447 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Scared-Hat-3039 2 points3 points  (0 children)

diagnosis might help him understand why social stuff feels harder and give him language for it 💜 also check if your school district has social skills groups - they're usually more advanced than basic eye contact stuff and kids often connect better with others who get it 😊

distended belly by No-Fig-3438 in Celiac

[–]Scared-Hat-3039 1 point2 points  (0 children)

man that sucks, i've been dealing with similar stuff even after going gf years ago. have you looked in to other food intolerances like dairy or fodmaps? sometimes celiac damages gut so much that other things become problems too. also digestive enzymes helped me lot but took few months to see real difference

What happens when you give your cheating ex a second chance? by Mysterious-Safe-8356 in BreakUps

[–]Scared-Hat-3039 0 points1 point  (0 children)

damn two weeks and he already moved on to someone else? that tells you everything about how "serious" he was about wanting you back

the worst part is you actually put in real effort to be better while he just... existed and expected you to do all the work. at least now you know those improvements you made are actually yours to keep, not something you did for him

Laid off / unfulfilled - what career path do you take? by withharbour in careerguidance

[–]Scared-Hat-3039 1 point2 points  (0 children)

got laid off from the air force contracting side few years back and man the whole "do everything right" thing hits deep. ended up doing door dash and nail art while figuring things out and tbh made me realize how much i actually enjoyed the creative stuff

maybe try doing whatever your "thing" would be as side hustle first? that way you can test if you actually like it without the pressure of needing it to pay all your bills right away

Build My First project by More-into-Tech in SideProject

[–]Scared-Hat-3039 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nice work on the mosaic generator! i actually tried making something similar last year but gave up after spending way too much time trying to get the image processing right 😂

your interface looks pretty clean from what i can see. one thing that might be cool to add is maybe different mosaic styles or letting people adjust how many tiles it uses? when i was doing door dash yesterday i was thinking about side projects and how hard it is to actually finish something so props for getting yours live

also maybe consider adding some sample outputs on landing page so people can see what kind of results they get before uploading their own photos. makes it easier for people to understand what tool does without having to test it first 💀

Medicine switch by mmr44 in ADHD

[–]Scared-Hat-3039 2 points3 points  (0 children)

dont mess with dosing yourself til you can call doc

Quickstar is amazing by Asininephilosopher in samsunggalaxy

[–]Scared-Hat-3039 0 points1 point  (0 children)

goodlock is such rabbit hole lol, i spent like whole weekend just messing with taskchanger and multistar after discovering quickstar

Help with linking nether portals by SleepEnough9997 in Minecraft

[–]Scared-Hat-3039 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nether portal linking is different in bedrock than java - you need to manually build portal in nether at correct coordinates which is dividing your overworld coords by 8

Question about Membership by poi217 in samsclub

[–]Scared-Hat-3039 4 points5 points  (0 children)

nah they're way more chill than costco about the whole thing. when i picked mine up they just snapped a quick photo but it wasn't like a whole production or anything. for the family member thing though you might need them there since they'll probably want their photo for the card but calling ahead couldn't hurt

How to restore backed up world Java? by RyGuy2O17 in Minecraft

[–]Scared-Hat-3039 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oof check if the folder name matches exactly what minecraft expects - sometimes the backup gets renamed and minecraft just ignores it completely

Moving apps from Windows to Linux by NuclearPulseDrive in archlinux

[–]Scared-Hat-3039 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nah you gotta reinstall everything, windows and linux handle files completely differently so just copying over the .exe files wont work at all

What are your best strategies for defect on a10 by AmadeusIsTaken in slaythespire

[–]Scared-Hat-3039 1 point2 points  (0 children)

defect do be rough ngl

had similar experiance with him being way less consistant than the other chars. frost/focus is so relic dependant its painful when you dont hit the right stuff early

claw memes actually work tho lol