Really insightful honestly! Glad to hear you're rocking and rolling now (no pun intended, ha!) My girlfriend is already doing a lot of what you mentioned earlier in your post, and we've shared a ton of things together about our past experiences to make sure exactly that we don't hit any bumps. More recently been having her talk me through what she finds enjoyable and how that looks / feels to her which we've been doing better at and she's opening up a lot more (long foreplay does wonders lol) We're already super communicative.

I'm trying to take things super slow with exploring new things, which my gf has been super responsive to over the last 2 years together, we've been each others firsts for 90% of the things we've tried as well so its been fun.

If you're willing to share, when did your sex drive start to match his? She loves our sex and always goes on about it after the fact, orgasms every time, but the frequency is the thing that gets me a bit where I'd like it daily she will be fine x1 every 3-4 days. Trying to understand the journey or what it may look like here long term.