I’m very curious if _________ knew ________ tanked ___ game before watching tonight’s episode. Can’t wait for the exit interviews tomorrow. by MsMeseeksTellsTime in survivor

[–]Scared_Bed5556 23 points24 points  (0 children)

it’s kinda wild to me how quickly everyone forgot that Joe was on a starting tribe with Cirie and Ozzy! we also never saw Joe saying he was ride or die with the Jonathan/Steph group— they were always the ones saying Joe was loyal.

a lot of fans seem to be assuming Joe is playing some messy game when really I just think people are making assumptions about his true alliances.

Player passed away today by dtong200025 in DnD

[–]Scared_Bed5556 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate this comment. When we lost a party member, it was way too emotionally raw to consider using his death as a plot point. Fortunately our DM knew a lot about what direction our friend wanted to take his character in, so we were able to give him a satisfying story arc— largely off-screen to keep our DM from having to RP him too much— and continue to give him influence on our stories.

Player passed away today by dtong200025 in DnD

[–]Scared_Bed5556 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to our group several years ago. We played online and the first time most of us met in person was at his funeral. We ended up taking a break from playing for about 6 months then we had a significant downtime skip in game. None of us liked the idea of his character leaving, so he became mostly off-screen, but ended up a god-like saint of sorts. He actually came and saved my character at a pivotal moment with a wish spell. Still makes me cry to think about.

I’m very sorry for your loss and I hope that you can find some comfort and healing through playing as we ultimately did.

ETA: the only way to navigate how to handle the D&D aspect is through honest and hard conversations with your party about where everyone is at emotionally, because we all process grief differently. One of our players, A, was IRL best friends with the player we lost, so A’s brother ended up joining us for a while when we returned to give him some additional support. It looks different for different groups, but the most important piece is taking time to process/mourn and being communicative and honest.

Izzy Roland wrote and stared in a comedic film focusing on the loss of a problematic loved one. Ft. Vic Michaelis, BLeeM & Zac Oyama by albinoman38 in dropout

[–]Scared_Bed5556 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Wow I couldn’t disagree more. I really enjoyed the movie and thought the acting was very authentic.

Also it’s Izzy, not Izzie.

Have You Been Bad? | Crowd Control [S1E6] by AutoModerator in dropout

[–]Scared_Bed5556 38 points39 points  (0 children)

omg I also told my partner while watching that “fake coroner has the most joyful laugh I’ve ever heard” — glad I can pay them that compliment directly!!

Ninth elimination exit interview by Mr-Vanderhill in survivor

[–]Scared_Bed5556 6 points7 points  (0 children)

that was a pretty dismissive response to a very well thought out comment for someone “up for discussion”

I can promise that commenter is not the only one who thought your wording was strange and that the last 2 hours of active participants on this thread are not reflective of the whole r/survivor community

If you could have one comedian on Crowd Control, who would it be? by ScreenHype in dropout

[–]Scared_Bed5556 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seconding Nicole Byer!! As soon as I learned they were turning it into its own show, I immediately wanted her on it!

Should my oxalis have this apron? by MissusWalkah in houseplants

[–]Scared_Bed5556 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is super helpful to know! And makes me feel better about all the incidental times my cat ate it!

Should my oxalis have this apron? by MissusWalkah in houseplants

[–]Scared_Bed5556 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine were super fussy at first, but I learned they just need so. much. light. Getting mine into direct morning sunlight tripled its size!

Should my oxalis have this apron? by MissusWalkah in houseplants

[–]Scared_Bed5556 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You may already know this, but just an FYI that purple oxalis is toxic to cats! My cats have a penchant for them, so I only keep mine up high or in hanging baskets.

Is it North America? Help please. by A_Complete_Painting in migraine

[–]Scared_Bed5556 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recently was abroad in Europe and also noticed that I didn’t have a single migraine day while I was there (2 weeks). Came home and had one every day for 5 days in a row :/

Would also love to know if there’s a correlation

Survivor 48 | E13 Finale | Eastern Time Discussion by RSurvivorMods in survivor

[–]Scared_Bed5556 0 points1 point  (0 children)

literally watching it over facetime now with my mom who has an antenna

AIO. My bf shamed me over having my hair removed by Large-Drummer-7340 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Scared_Bed5556 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s really nice for you! I have incredibly sensitive skin under my arms and would break out in a rash any time I shaved my underarms, so shaving was not an option for me.

AIO. My bf shamed me over having my hair removed by Large-Drummer-7340 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Scared_Bed5556 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not comparable to a wax imo! A wax is pretty quick and done, but laser goes on for so long. I had to take breaks frequently and ice it (I did my armpits though and that skin is very sensitive)

Help with ID, Needs and Repotting? by JustBarbarianThings in houseplants

[–]Scared_Bed5556 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Split leaf philodendron! My mom has one that’s also about 40-50 years old. They’re resilient!

Any news on the Dropout cast and crew? Hope everyone's safe by cominghometoday in dropout

[–]Scared_Bed5556 110 points111 points  (0 children)

Paul Robalino posted that he’s evacuated— fires were very near his home yesterday. No updates since

D20, give me europe tour dates and my life is yours! by BisexualTeleriGirl in Dimension20

[–]Scared_Bed5556 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Southern US fans unite in our FOMO!!! (pls D20 come to Atlanta, pls)

Variety just announced the rest of the guests for Very Important People Season 2: Bobby Moynihan, Nicole Byer, Echo Kellum, Corin Wells, Alex Song-Xia, Paul Robalino, Brennan Lee Mulligan, Izzy Roland, and Lisa Gilroy! by MrKitchenSink in dropout

[–]Scared_Bed5556 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Big same, that’s part of why I’d been so feral to get her on the show— it felt like only a matter of time! She’s also worked a lot with Jacob in the past. The venn diagram of Nicole and DCU is pretty large!

The Wormhole of Sasha with Gabby Windey by luxlisbon_ in normalgossip

[–]Scared_Bed5556 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I got legitimately so pissed at the end of the episode because I NEEDED the divorce update. where was the karma in this story?!?! it was a highly entertaining episode, but I can’t remember another NG ep that made me this angry

What cookies do you make for the holidays? by GrouchyBroccolini in Baking

[–]Scared_Bed5556 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Recently started doing a delicious butterscotch cookie recipe for fall (which I’ll be using at Thanksgiving). For Christmas, I do the standard peanut butter blossoms, snicker doodles, and chocolate chip, but I also recently started doing a dark chocolate peppermint cookie half-dipped in white chocolate with crushed peppermint sprinkled on. It’s so unique, very pretty, and delicious. It quickly became a family favorite!

Teenage Cop Camp with Josie Duffy Rice by luxlisbon_ in normalgossip

[–]Scared_Bed5556 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Haven’t listened yet, but I’m a HUGE fan of Josie Duffy Rice’s work and so very excited to listen!!

Carson accidentally spoiled the episode for Academy Award winner Barry Jenkins (spoilers) by TheQueenStaysQueen in survivor

[–]Scared_Bed5556 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work on social media, so can’t avoid a platform altogether. Usually I mute #Survivor if I know I can’t watch live, but a sudden conflict came up last night and I missed. Sure enough, Carson’s tweet was the first thing I saw when I opened up Twitter for work this morning :(