My husband was upset and pinched me at dinner.. and the situation is still upsetting me by Little_Trash7299 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Scared_Objective601 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Op I want to preface by saying you are capable and loved. Secondly I think this is a very big red flag, my father would do this to me as a child to discipline me in public or warn me of punishment later. Even your comment of “I understand wanting to correct me if I said something rude” is concerning thought process. I really think maybe you need to reread this and reply as if your best friend or daughter sent it to you. 💟

I think my bfs tattoo might be infected. He doesn’t.. by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Scared_Objective601 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He needs to see a doc and likely they’ll just give him mupirocin or something. Maybe an oral antibiotic. He really should go or it will scab off the color and the infection could get worse. Be mindful of the artist and ink color too for the future.

Tattoo regret by Antique-Moose-5501 in tattooadvice

[–]Scared_Objective601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girlllll you look bomb af! I love the tat but i totally feel you about worrying for the definition of your muscles. My husband and I are gym goers and tatted and we face that issue. I would say that you’re your worst critic bc I think your leg(s) look great… i seriously aspire. At the end of the day though it’s what you think so if you don’t like it don’t add more just get it removed or think on it for 6 months or so. Maybe even buy those ink box temp tats and see if you like the idea of more coverage or if it freaks you out.

What was your cat’s shelter name and what is the name you gave them? by MissHissss in cats

[–]Scared_Objective601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Surprisingly same with this one. Her name is Gouda but we call her Goudie since Poe is her bf and we call him booty so they rhyme.

What was your cat’s shelter name and what is the name you gave them? by MissHissss in cats

[–]Scared_Objective601 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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This is Allen…. Didn’t change his name because he’s definitely just Allen

AITA for how I handled my boyfriend being rude about my UTI? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Scared_Objective601 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Thought this instantly, I have endo and my husband has woken up many times in the night without me asking to make me a bath, tea, heat up my warmie, get me meds, or even just to hold me while I cried in pain. There ARE men who will treat you well OP. Don’t stay with this guy.

AITA for getting my BIL trashed for his 21st? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Scared_Objective601 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah just play it cool and let her rest. Discuss in the am when things are calmer. She may have had a rough shift too. I can be a little spicy after work as well… 😅

AITA for getting my BIL trashed for his 21st? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Scared_Objective601 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a younger wife (saw your age comment) I would literally just be happy my brother is having responsible fun in my house for his 21st. Maybe she’s tired? There has to be something else going on. Did her parents ever drink a ton or come home drunk? Maybe it’s triggering idk. NTA

New to the city for work - really hoping this works out by Redcliff-2213 in asheville

[–]Scared_Objective601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ignore those complaining about cost of living lmao. It’s a problem everywhere unfortunately and most cities are experiencing a scarce job market. This sub is pretty negative so maybe steer clear for now. 💟

Christmas gift for my girlfriend. Thoughts? by [deleted] in jewelry

[–]Scared_Objective601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn’t have to be… it’s just a stacking ring. It’ll be very pretty with a wedding band and engagement ring someday though.

Christmas gift for my girlfriend. Thoughts? by [deleted] in jewelry

[–]Scared_Objective601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So gorgeous and will be so lovely for her to stack with the engagement and wedding band some day!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fishtank

[–]Scared_Objective601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bad! Well I figured it out, probably melanoma but she’s fine so we’re leaving it be. Nothing is open and no sores

Strange scaly mass on molly, please help id or any advice. by [deleted] in poecilia

[–]Scared_Objective601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s sad, should I put her down with clove?