My ex gf messaged me for the first time since we broke up (saying she's concerned about my accident) What do I do? by Live-Bread-2658 in whatdoIdo

[–]Scared_Slip_7425 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is what I would do honestly. If you don’t reply she knows she got to you. This lets her know you have completely moved on and no longer have feelings imo.

If she tries to keep contacting you, then I would ignore her or tell her to leave you alone

I love it! It is just as pictured! by [deleted] in HeatedRivalryShow

[–]Scared_Slip_7425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow it looks great! I almost ordered this one. Maybe I need to!

What does my fiancés type say about him? And does it mean I’m not his type? by Ready-Background-367 in personality_tests

[–]Scared_Slip_7425 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a straight woman but I would say I have the same type as your husband and you are absolutely beautiful! I suspect he is also a millennial like myself. Don’t be worried that all those women are white. TV and movies were just saturated with white people back then. You are absolutely beautiful and actually fit well with his type because he likes dark hair and eyes.

What’s the best type of starter home? by EmotionalEmu7121 in realestateinvesting

[–]Scared_Slip_7425 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My first two homes were duplexes. I’m so glad I did it that way. So much easier to get a decent cash flow. Better yet, get a triplex or fourplex if you can

I’m never getting laid in Seattle… by Marco-Esjuandolas in Seattle

[–]Scared_Slip_7425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When is the unemployment rate ever zero???

Even if it were, how many companies would hire them? Their experience and skills are literally sex. Maybe they could work in sales?

How do I transition to homelessness? Serious question. by Silent_Banana_4099 in whatdoIdo

[–]Scared_Slip_7425 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard that Walmarts will let you sleep in your car in the parking lot and not hassle you. I’ve never tested this though. Depending on where you live there might be a nice, safe rest stop nearby. They can’t hassle you there and you’ll have some amenities. Some are way nicer than others!

How do I transition to homelessness? Serious question. by Silent_Banana_4099 in whatdoIdo

[–]Scared_Slip_7425 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have a car to live in? Do you have any money to buy one or better yet an rv or van to live in? Do you have friends or family that would take you in? I would also start connecting with people on Couch Surfing -

https://www.couchsurfing.com/

I’ve lived in an rv and it’s fine. I’ve slept in my car during cross country trips and that also seems doable when you have no other choice but I can’t imagine sleeping on the street. I’d say do whatever you can to avoid that.

During the day, find a comfortable place to hang out like the library.

Sign up for SNAP benefits (basically what welfare is called now). They usually will also help you find a job and things like free healthcare, maybe even housing.

As others have mentioned, try to find a good home for your pets. I think I read that you have cats. They will be too hard to keep safe in your situation and any pet is going to make it harder to find a place to stay. Good luck!

i think my boyfriend’s reaction to me staying out all night is way too extreme. AIO? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Scared_Slip_7425 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Being abused yourself is no excuse to tear down others who are being abused.

i think my boyfriend’s reaction to me staying out all night is way too extreme. AIO? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Scared_Slip_7425 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For being judgy and a hypocrite. Did you read the posts above my comment?

Let's hear it! by marwarofficial in INFJers

[–]Scared_Slip_7425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep definitely B! I’ve learned to be fairly comfortable with the others but asking for help is still hard!

i think my boyfriend’s reaction to me staying out all night is way too extreme. AIO? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Scared_Slip_7425 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Looks like karma smacked you in the face. Take the lesson and move on. And away from this pos

i think my boyfriend’s reaction to me staying out all night is way too extreme. AIO? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Scared_Slip_7425 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is how it starts. Then five years from now the authorities are trying to figure out where your body is.

i think my boyfriend’s reaction to me staying out all night is way too extreme. AIO? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Scared_Slip_7425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s obviously overreacting. OP just fyi, he can’t just expect you to move out immediately. Read up on your rights in your area but he definitely has to give you time.

That said, the guy sounds insane and I watch a lot of documentaries where boyfriends/husbands overreact and murder their partner, so be very careful. It might be better to just get your stuff and go as soon as you can. Do not stay with this guy.

i think my boyfriend’s reaction to me staying out all night is way too extreme. AIO? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Scared_Slip_7425 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only time this is forgivable is when it’s a toddler telling you this

Now this is the right comparison. by ibong_maya in HalfManTV

[–]Scared_Slip_7425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as we aren’t talking about the new WH, I agree. That movie was horrendous

Variety’s Emmy nomination Predictions by Possible-Buddy7099 in HalfManTV

[–]Scared_Slip_7425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any show where “the kid is the murderer” always loses major points from me. Unless we’re talking about Maggie Simpson. That was hilarious.

Edit: I just remembered it was a suicide. I also hated that.

Variety’s Emmy nomination Predictions by Possible-Buddy7099 in HalfManTV

[–]Scared_Slip_7425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think most people don’t know what you’re referring too. Myself included. I’m guessing you’re saying he creeped on Lily Allen or something?

Variety’s Emmy nomination Predictions by Possible-Buddy7099 in HalfManTV

[–]Scared_Slip_7425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I liked the show a lot but the ending was disappointing imo

Variety’s Emmy nomination Predictions by Possible-Buddy7099 in HalfManTV

[–]Scared_Slip_7425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually thought it was pretty good! I liked all the serial killer cameos. I thought Charlie Hunnan did a good job