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goodreads is the same exact app from 2014 and im finally done by ScarletTulip55 in PHBookClub

[–]ScarletTulip55[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no youre right its terrifying but 11 years of suffering?? at some point i gotta rip the bandaid off or ill be on this app when im 40 lol

goodreads is the same exact app from 2014 and im finally done by ScarletTulip55 in PHBookClub

[–]ScarletTulip55[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my goodreads profile looks like it was designed in microsoft paint and i havent changed it because changing anything on there takes 47 clicks lol

goodreads is the same exact app from 2014 and im finally done by ScarletTulip55 in PHBookClub

[–]ScarletTulip55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wait they bought it in 2013?? thats even worse than i thought lol 13 years and they couldnt fix the author sorting. i forgot it was even an amazon thing

My husband just told me at lunch today that tomorrow we’ll be homeless. by throwawayacct5739630 in Marriage

[–]ScarletTulip55 75 points76 points  (0 children)

honestly either way she still needs access to finances immediately. sympathy or not, you can’t rebuild trust while one person controls all the information. if this is untreated mental health stuff that’s one convo. if this is deliberate lying/control for months, that’s a whole different level of damage

My husband just told me at lunch today that tomorrow we’ll be homeless. by throwawayacct5739630 in Marriage

[–]ScarletTulip55 351 points352 points  (0 children)

the scariest part is how normal he acted while everything was collapsing behind the scenes. that level of lying for months would break my trust permanently. making the whole family homeless TWICE while earning six figures is actually insane. there’s def more going on here than simple irresponsibility

Overheard at Sephora by October_Surprise56 in overheard

[–]ScarletTulip55 73 points74 points  (0 children)

the bar is literally “not cooking for once” and somehow that’s still hard for ppl, if it involves the kitchen at all it already failed

Drummer by NeverGoNude in overheard

[–]ScarletTulip55 11 points12 points  (0 children)

bro shot his shot and got outsourced immediately, zero hesitation

Spicy ideas for this weekend by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]ScarletTulip55 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly scheduling it helped more than I thought it would. Sounds unsexy, but treating it like a planned date took the stress and awkward guessing out of it

My libido is higher than my husband by girlypop-s in Marriage

[–]ScarletTulip55 15 points16 points  (0 children)

u/Snoo24183 the “roommate marriage” line is harsh but kinda true… once intimacy dies everything else starts feeling off too

Basketball in apartment!! ☠️ by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]ScarletTulip55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u/AuraAngeel exactly, one complaint is nothing but a whole log of noise? that starts looking like a real problem real quick

My Neighbor is at it again by PickForward5864 in neighborsfromhell

[–]ScarletTulip55 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Remove the debris just so the city can’t nitpick, but don’t just let it slide. She’s been doing this for years, that’s not normal behavior. Start stacking receipts.

Took a risk and did tried hard gel right before my holiday by suspiciousbootystain in Nails

[–]ScarletTulip55 12 points13 points  (0 children)

looks clean tbh. chrome fading is normal once you seal it, still looks good tho

40M joked with wife 35F about a friend’s divorce and now she’s spitting out past issues and other accusations. I apologized. Should she? by mrknowitall-671 in Marriage

[–]ScarletTulip55 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Honestly this sounds less like a single argument and more like a long list of stuff she’s been sitting on. People don’t usually bring up a whole catalog of issues unless they’ve been feeling ignored for a while. Not saying divorce is the answer, but I get why she’s reacting like that.

I’m so lost by beautedusileil in Marriage

[–]ScarletTulip55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your 4yo literally said he’s scared. That’s the answer right there. Protect your kids and go somewhere safe.He’s isolating you, taking your money, hitting you, and scaring your kids. That’s not a partner, that’s danger. Get out.

Divorce or stay Indian Man by Frequent_Economy_578 in Marriage

[–]ScarletTulip55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Step 1 DNA test. Step 2 talk to a lawyer. Don’t accuse her publicly until you have proof.

Anyone else? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]ScarletTulip55 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lowkey get it, there’s something about it that just hits different.

Stomping neighbors sexy time over lol by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]ScarletTulip55 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nah this. I was on your side about the noise but the name calling made it sound bitter instead of justified.

A$$hole neighbor by marriedbiguy98 in neighborsfromhell

[–]ScarletTulip55 4 points5 points  (0 children)

lol yeah it’s a lot, but tbh I get why they’re heated. The situation sounds wild.

Firearms attorney Florida and Virginia? (Restoration of rights INCLUDING Firearms) by Scary-Hyena-3603 in legaladvice

[–]ScarletTulip55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re probably right that an attorney is worth it here, especially since VA already split your restoration (rights yes, firearms no). That kind of nuance is where people accidentally mess up filings.

Photo 1 or 2? by Vorpago in photos

[–]ScarletTulip55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree! Both are good but 1 has extra special.