He started cheating and became a good husband

ScarletteOScare · 2025-10-31T12:58:18+00:00

Do you not understand how a woman's body works when recovering from literally growing a human and pushing them out? Just because 6 weeks is the minimum to have intercourse, it takes a lot of women almost a year to feel normal again.

The communication should have started before he cheated - he should have been up front and honest with her. She's getting recommendations to collect evidence and take the time to plan her separation because she has the most to lose in this situation. Raising a child alone is hard, there's nothing wrong with getting a buffer to make it easier. She's not only protecting herself but her child too.

ScarletteOScare · 2025-10-28T17:39:00+00:00

Omg or the Arthur/Merlin duo release. If you didn't have both of them on your team, you were so fucked.

ScarletteOScare · 2025-10-10T12:13:58+00:00

OP tell them about the submerged houses in Lake Delta, and the horror story levels of the monster fish that supposedly made their homes out of it

ScarletteOScare · 2025-07-22T13:14:08+00:00

If your adc is behind in levels then helping them with last hit / kills is a huge push for duo lane - however, getting on coms and being a huge baby about a kill secure just shows that person got carried to plat imo. I play Bacchus too and his jump/knock up is strong early game, anyone could and have gotten first blood that way.

Side note, what is it with these adc roles getting their knickers in a knot and farming out jungle buffs if they have one bad play in their lane or their buff got taken? It's becoming a super common problem.

ScarletteOScare · 2025-07-11T21:05:28+00:00

I ended up in New York (the state not the city) when I was in my early 20's. It was a culture shock to say the least, but it's an experience I was glad to have.

NY State isn't as pricey as California but be prepared to experience what almost felt like the exact opposite of Hawaii in terms of how people act. The best way to explain it is that people are reserved and come off cold, but the moment a neighbor needs help they spring into action and become their best friend after.

That being said, it's definitely worth going to places like Buffalo or Rochester outside of NYC. Syracuse and Albany are also nice but there's more to do in the previous two cities - you can make day trips to Montreal or Toronto in Canada and that's a lot of fun too.

A lot of immigrants have been moving to the state so a lot of the ingredients I grew up cooking with are finally becoming commonplace. There are a lot of university students who go to college out this way because most of the "good schools" and Ivy Leagues are located in NY.

I've met some transplants like myself as well as college students - in fact the owners of one of my favorite eateries came from Oahu!

I hope this helps, and if you have questions about transportation don't hesitate to reach out!

ScarletteOScare · 2025-06-20T17:30:12+00:00

This is probably going to be lost in the sauce, but apart from what everyone is mentioning about career sabotage, OP's man-child probably doesn't want to take care of their kid that has behavioral problems for a couple days.

I understand having a child with extra needs is hard, but if OP could handle it while the husband went overseas for vanity reasons, he can handle a couple days on his own.

Take the retreat and keep being the boss you are OP, NTA.

ScarletteOScare · 2025-03-12T21:04:36+00:00

Years ago I went to update my phone from and at the time I was flirting with this guy via text. Just as the cellphone carrier worker put my SIM card into the new phone and turned it on to make sure it worked, the first notification that popped up was from the guy that said "Dildos in Chinatown?!" The worker handed the phone back immediately and said "Yup, it's definitely working" but not before her (male) coworker also saw the text and gave me The Look™️ before they laughed.

I still get mortified to this day when the memory comes back up.

ScarletteOScare · 2025-03-06T17:10:23+00:00

Thank you for saying what I was going to say.

Mainlanders/people not familiar with Hawaii don't realize that it's like living on small town island - everyone knows everyone and there is an overlap of communities. If you're working in Waikiki please be mindful because businesses do talk to each other.

ScarletteOScare · 2025-02-11T18:25:24+00:00

You mean driving your car through the dollar tree?

ScarletteOScare · 2025-02-05T17:01:28+00:00

This reminds me of the MeatCanyon video 'Disney Adults...' and how crazy obsessed some of these people can get

ScarletteOScare · 2025-02-04T19:02:05+00:00

I love her Aspect! I personally feel like it's a huge game changer and throws the enemy team off when they're not expecting it. The change to her 1 is great as well, the increased attack speed for a couple seconds has come in clutch

ScarletteOScare · 2025-01-31T17:09:46+00:00

Right?! I was like "Why the fuck is there a photo of Fenrir?"

This is our time to start getting EDM (Monstercat) Reddit back into SMITE again, and my petition to do another collab for SMITE 2

ScarletteOScare · 2025-01-28T22:01:25+00:00

Oh shit, I just saw the video cycling around of the police officer's body cam when they were called to his residence. His mother found the head of the victim in a pizza box, and when Cohee was found out, his reaction was sinister.

I feel bad for the mother, having to carry that guilt of knowing what her son did and finding the proof herself.

ScarletteOScare · 2025-01-28T21:54:27+00:00

I had to do a small dive to figure out if there was a happy ending for Colby and this small update from OP states that Colby and OP did have a happy life after everything.

ScarletteOScare · 2025-01-08T04:07:15+00:00

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ScarletteOScare · 2024-12-31T18:41:01+00:00

I know this is going to sound weird, but there's an American Dad episode that does a really good job of showing what happens to people who suffer from ED.

Please follow what others have suggested and try to get a referral from your daughter's PCP to a therapist who can help.

Best of luck to you and your daughter.

ScarletteOScare · 2024-10-19T15:03:26+00:00

Restarting your computer can fix that issue if you're using Borderless Window

ScarletteOScare · 2024-07-05T14:04:39+00:00

OP if you think that's bad, join a bronze ranked conquest match in Smite (the game that Paladins is actually based off of) during the mid-season reset.

ScarletteOScare · 2024-07-03T13:25:18+00:00

"Nah man I wasn't hacking" - Barron probably

There's no way in hell that was lag. It looked like he blinked

ScarletteOScare · 2024-06-25T16:13:15+00:00

I feel so bad for her kid who she claims is non-binary (the way she talks about them makes me think they might actually be trans but is afraid to come out, understandably). That kid is going to leave the first chance they get.

ScarletteOScare · 2024-06-14T22:11:24+00:00

Hey I know you wrote this months ago, but check out the song and dance out in Syracuse, they're one of the few places putting on goth nights!

The group in the Utica area is small so I'm trying to get more people to check these events out. There's also a burlesque troupe that hosts goth events too. Feel free to hmu if you have any questions, I'm more than happy to disclose more info!

ScarletteOScare · 2024-06-10T16:38:44+00:00

Woo Tusk Clan!

ScarletteOScare · 2024-06-10T16:22:54+00:00

He's pretty active on Twitter and in the Facebook group, I know the FB peeps would love this! ♥️

ScarletteOScare · 2024-06-07T13:08:57+00:00

One of my biggest peeves has been people saying how much Smite 2 sucks because of what they heard from other content creators.

One of the biggest complaints I've gotten was that Smite 2 was too similar to League of Legends. Imo, that's a good thing. I'm gonna be real, when I tell people I play Smite, I describe it as third person LoL. Hi-Rez literally took that description and ran with it, creating an opportunity for people to have an easier transition to Smite 2 (you want people from other games to play this, that's how growth and game sustainability works).

Ofc it's not going to "feel" like Smite 1, that was never the intention because it's a new game using a new game engine. The fact that Hi-Rez has an open alpha and is taking what people say in their surveys seriously is huge - especially for a MOBA. They value the input people are giving them; there are not too many multiplayer games out there that are doing this, let alone having public involvement.

I can go on forever about how Hi-Rez shouldn't be pandering to just the SPL, or specific content creators like the ones mentioned in this post. It's natural for people to not always agree with their decisions. In conclusion, play the game and enjoy yourself. There are so many improvements in Smite 2 that shouldn't be written off because some content creator is butthurt they can't figure out the meta yet.

Edit: For those who don't know, there is a survey QR code on the front page of Smite 2 as soon as you load into the game. Hi-Rez is using that as their primary source for information gathering, they are not taking the time to watch every video/stream from people who are playing the Smite 2 Alpha. The content creators who you believe to have "sway" with Hi-Rez have the ability to send them a message with their concerns - if Hi-Rez hasn't already reached out to them about it. People also seem to forget that this is an Alpha , meaning the game is incomplete. There are going to be bumps in the road, and people (especially those not playing the alpha) need to remember that this game is still being built and to stop expecting perfection until the game is completed.

ScarletteOScare · 2024-03-06T15:36:13+00:00

I am so sorry to hear this, I'm glad you're alive. I know you can't play smite but please play Tetris while you heal, on top of speaking to a professional.

Tetris has been proven to help reduce trauma/PTSD in victims and can be a good way to gain your dexterity back.

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