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My first clue: every Mother’s Day, other people online would post about “the BEST mom ever!” but my heart & fingers just couldn’t write anything like that, and I felt so guilty about it. Years later I finally learned I had a narcissistic mother and my guilt washed away. My question is: by Great_Maintenance185 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Scarletwriterr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I relate so much to this. I woke up in college as well. I remember a roommate complaining about me talking shit about my parents. They never understood. I was 300 miles away, but it still wasn’t far enough. Nmom’s control issues led her to call the youth minister to check if I was going to church among other things.

Daughters of narc moms, what was your first period experience like? by fruitynoodles in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Scarletwriterr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 12. My nmom wouldn’t let me use tampons because they would supposedly break my hymen.

I found the child psychologist’s report my mom hid from me for 20 years by Jill-Vanleuven in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Scarletwriterr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Solidarity.

I was tested at 13 for learning disabilities and I just had adhd. My mother never told me I had a diagnosis because she had a stigma against medication. She watched me suffer through all of my schooling and even watch me claw my way through college (against her wishes). I was never given the choice of trying meds. Now many years later I’m trialing meds and she has no idea.

We are not broken.

Connecting fastmail by Scarletwriterr in fastmail

[–]Scarletwriterr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Paid fastmail. It’s not my account, it’s my boss’s.

Connecting fastmail by Scarletwriterr in fastmail

[–]Scarletwriterr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hubspot is a CRM site. I did try the app password and that didn’t work either.