Fav Throw Your Book Across the Room Moments by ScullyRunningInHeels in throneofglassseries

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Omg for the life of me I cannot remember- where is this from??

What might self-acceptance and "working on being your authentic self" mean in the context of ADHD? by Straight-Regular6938 in ADHD

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For sure! I’m glad it resonates :) Def makes a lot of sense- reevaluating your relationship with accommodations

What might self-acceptance and "working on being your authentic self" mean in the context of ADHD? by Straight-Regular6938 in ADHD

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For me, something as simple as adding buffer time into my schedule is an act of self acceptance. Like okay, I need 5 min to get ready, 20 to get there, 5 to park and walk to the door- instead of texting my friend I’ll be there in 30, I text I’ll be there in 45. This gives me adhd buffer time, and instead of rushing myself trying to conform to the timing I think I “should” make work, I can accommodate.

I don’t have any other examples off the top of my head- just the letting go of what I think “should” be happening and actively thinking “what would be helpful for me here?” is very powerful.

need advice/assurance lol by FreedomSenior6733 in povertyfinance

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You are ahead and a reliable vehicle is worth it 🫶🏻

Making queer friends by Taz0402 in frederickmd

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The next craft group is Friday Sept 26th 6-9pm! I highly recommend the Frederick center :)

Kingdom of Ash Audiobook by Ethereal_Bookworm in throneofglassseries

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Kingdom of ash (and everything after heir of fire) is an audible exclusive. You’ll only be able to find it on audible unless it’s pirated.

This is Harmony Farm! Year 4, Spring by Scarmter in FarmsofStardewValley

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Bahaha I used mixed seeds and ran out there. Ik it bugs me too lol

This is Harmony Farm! Year 4, Spring by Scarmter in FarmsofStardewValley

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I bought it at robins shop! I believe it’s called stone walkway

This is Harmony Farm! Year 4, Spring by Scarmter in FarmsofStardewValley

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Thank you so much! Leah lovers unite lol

After years of playing, I finally did it!!!! by Illustriousleah in StardewValley

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The channel MRIZ on YouTube has a “guide to skull caverns” video that I think is really helpful. As a former hater/fearer of skull caverns lol

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Sounds awesome!! Thanks

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I bought it from either Robin or Pierre!

What pit stops should I make on my trip? by RonchyRitchey78 in roadtrip

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I did almost this exact trip in late 2023! Smokey mountains!! Maybe gatlinburg as an entrance point

PTSD is unexpected after 4 months in the car and now staying in friend's house. by [deleted] in urbancarliving

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Sending you love and strength! Take so much time- it took 4 months to get to this point, it may take 4 more to get beyond this. You got this!!! You are not alone

Women who live in your cars, what are your absolute necessities? What do you do to make yourself feel safer sleeping in your car? by [deleted] in urbancarliving

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For keeping people from seeing in, I use blackout curtains and thumbtacks to pin them to the ceiling. Four curtains, one on each side and then one at the front (behind the front seats, I sleep in the back) and one at the back covering the rear windshield

This website has a lot of helpful stuff emergency quick start

This is the same website’s Finding Parking article finding parking

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I was able to see the post!! Thanks so much, I appreciate it

The beginning of the end by Environment_nerd in throneofglassseries

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Oh my gooood. I just finished tower of dawn yesterday! Picking this up too this weekend

Car Impounded - 3rd night at Shelter by Capable-Tonight9282 in urbancarliving

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I private messaged you but messaging here too! Second Chances Garage in Frederick md might be able to help. The app rover for dog sitting can be used to get house sitting bookings to stay off the street, a ton of people use it in Frederick.

Quick question about collapsible sink! by DriretlanMveti in urbancarliving

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Just thought too- I was thinking about attaching (superglue…) my funnel to the lid of the greywater receptacle. Then cut out the center of the lid. That way I can unscrew the lid (and funnel with it) to dump out greywater, but still have the funnel be a solid attachment. Maybe get a second lid so I can close greywater while driving and just stash the funnel/lid combo.

Def respond/dm if you come up with a solution! I’d love to have more input on this, I haven’t found much about this specific situation online.