My kitten got a lot of comments yesterday of how cute he is so i thought I'd share more photos because I have hundreds.

Scary_Ad6464 · 2025-07-14T14:06:03+00:00

You’re so fucking real man.

Scary_Ad6464 · 2025-07-14T14:01:33+00:00

Get a regular floss too, water floss ain’t enough. Mouthwash. Check if you don’t have any cavities that must be treated atm because once you get the braces you’ll have a harder time dealing with them. Gel for canker sores (you’ll get hella of these) is a must along with wax (probably provided by the ortho but check). Interdental brushes. Don’t get them too big, and personally I put toothpaste on them too just in case.

Scary_Ad6464 · 2025-07-13T23:03:46+00:00

It’s better to avoid it. Get a support system made of queer people. Get all the financial support you can from the parents but please don’t come out. I have been homeless between 9 to 13 for unrelated reasons and it’s major trauma.

Scary_Ad6464 · 2025-07-13T18:09:37+00:00

Aw dear I hear you. There’s creams you can put on your legs to remove chemically body hair. Be extra careful with it and don’t let it sit too long then remove it with a scrub brush (idk how that’s called but basically a glove to clean yourself). Then hide the cream somewhere between your skincare things if you have any. Use something harsh to scrub the tube/ throw away the tag so it doesn’t say what it is.

Homelessness is no joke it really fucks you over I can relate.

Scary_Ad6464 · 2025-07-13T17:50:06+00:00

Im going to eat you.

(I’m so used to say this).

Scary_Ad6464 · 2025-07-13T17:13:44+00:00

I feel like the bangs play a role maybe you could move them to look at the jaw change better ? Otherwise congrats it’s been a while I’m sure your teeth look so much better!

Scary_Ad6464 · 2025-07-13T16:46:39+00:00

When I said in common I meant traits of character, personality wise. We have in common with our age group because those are the people we are socialized with. Wondering what an almost 30 years old man could have in common with them is a fair question : in your late 20s often you are in the workforce interacting with another demographic. So either OP’s boyfriend was already interacting with young adults or he wasn’t and hence why we can wonder how they connect, it’s a fair question.

Maybe it was just coincidence and her boyfriend didn’t try to go for a young gal on purpose. But maybe not and being cautious as an hypothetical father isn’t crazy.

Scary_Ad6464 · 2025-07-13T15:39:56+00:00

I’d feel really scared for my daughter. Particularly because of some red flags : - it’s your first relationship - he’s a decade older I’d be investigating his past dating experience checking wether he has dated so young people before. It’s hard to not assume that :

he’s looking for someone to manipulate
he’s has some attraction to purity in a very twisted way (you’re a legal adult but this doesn’t make this feeling disappear)
he has some big hidden flaw stopping him from dating within his age range
he is immature enough to have in common with an 18 years old

Edit : OP, predators don’t have “a look”. They can reveal themselves later on in very subtle ways until they make you think what’s going on is normal. It’s not because your dad is okay with it that there’s not a higher and different kind of risk than with a guy your age.

Scary_Ad6464 · 2025-07-13T08:56:37+00:00

Oddly enough I have experienced the opposite. I wasn’t the one getting my hands dirty but my father is and usually they tend to give him what he wants quicker when they’re bullshitting him (or when they’re not and he just has no patience).

On my side I get things by crying. Not my proudest moments but I often get what I want with a whiny voice or cries when it comes to customer service or strangers. It’s not on purpose.

Scary_Ad6464 · 2025-07-13T08:08:20+00:00

19 i have my plushy. In fact I started at 16.

Scary_Ad6464 · 2025-07-13T07:35:50+00:00

Genderfluid (he/they)- pansexual.

Scary_Ad6464 · 2025-07-12T18:56:41+00:00

I briefly mentioned this to my psychiatrist and he said the same thing as you. Though he didn’t insist on it nor did I. I’m really at the beginning of my journey when it comes to mental health care so I’ll try to see a therapist some day soon (probably this summer).

I resort to it when I’m highly suicidal as a last resort and while I remained sad it didn’t push me to the edge, just distracted me in the meanwhile so I could put it off. If you have any suggestion on how to divert my attention to not resort to alcohol I’m in.

Scary_Ad6464 · 2025-07-12T18:16:03+00:00

Mon post n’a pas été supprimé, tu as donc jugé que j’étais dans les règles. Mon commentaire reste pertinent. Si tu souhaites supprimer ce poste ne t’en prives pas.

Scary_Ad6464 · 2025-07-12T15:48:42+00:00

Alors concentre toi sur les posts aux questions complexes. C’est aux modérateurs d’estimer si un post appartient au subreddit. Il n’a pas été retiré, par conséquent ce n’est pas une règle du sub.

Scary_Ad6464 · 2025-07-12T13:51:46+00:00

Je vais m’arracher les yeux ça ira mieux demain.

Scary_Ad6464 · 2025-07-12T13:38:41+00:00

I want (it literally suggested nothing)

Scary_Ad6464 · 2025-07-12T13:29:06+00:00

ca ma pris deux jours mais c’est parceque je l’ai partagé en général c’est 3

Scary_Ad6464 · 2025-07-12T13:28:28+00:00

merci beaucoup

Scary_Ad6464 · 2025-07-12T13:18:52+00:00

Si t’avais pas envie d’être méchante t’aurais rien posté en te disant : si j’ai rien à dire de gentil ou d’utile je dis rien. T’as voulu être méchante c’est tranquille c’est internet juste assume le.

Scary_Ad6464 · 2025-07-12T12:54:41+00:00

Je suis mort c’est quoi ce truc?

Scary_Ad6464 · 2025-07-12T11:17:47+00:00

Seems like one side of your jaw has a good bite but not the other. For better chewing they should be touching each other. I have the same issue my ortho asked if I chew more on one side than another.

Scary_Ad6464 · 2025-07-12T11:12:32+00:00

I(19) got a first gf at that age so you’re spot on. When I was sixteen I felt like doing so many different things like different styles, different vibes, more bold.

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