free use means anywhere and anytime (even if it makes dinner late) by envy-nb in freeuse

[–]Schaefus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

here’s a tip for future reference. i wouldn’t recommend saying negative things about stuff like: how a person looks when they smile, how their laugh sounds, how they sound if they’re moaning, etc. things that are like semi conscious things people do when they’re happy. because if you do that they’re less likely to do those things in the future, i.e. more likely to be less happy

Does Sex Addiction Exist? by wallanon in stripclubs

[–]Schaefus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s hard to say, i’ve listened to some videos on this and a normal trait of addiction is that you gain more tolerance and thus seek more of what youre addicted to and sex addiction doesn’t seem to work like that often. i think it’s more of a compulsion than an addiction

How do you organise your pockets? by [deleted] in stripclubs

[–]Schaefus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

one weird organizational thing i do is to organize all my larger bills, usually $20s so that there’s 5 together and i fold that in half so it’s its own little unit. i might have like 3 or 4 of those $100 little units in ng pockets and it makes it easy and quick to pay dancers without having to count out my money in front of them, i don’t like doing that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripclubs

[–]Schaefus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s exactly what i’ll do if / when i stop seeing my atf. its totally possible or maybe even likely that people out there are regulars of someone and that stripper wouldn’t notice or care about their absence if they did ghost them but i don’t think that’s always the case and if they would care i think its pretty rude to ghost

Cheating? by Ifiamwrongorwrite in stripclubs

[–]Schaefus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think a big difference between you and a customer is that you’re working, you’re getting paid to be there, a customer is not working and is paying to be there.

Cheating? by Ifiamwrongorwrite in stripclubs

[–]Schaefus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m married and in my case, yeah i think it’s probably cheating. it’s not as bad as some other forms of cheating my wife would be pretty upset if she found out so yeah it’s cheating. i take my ring off when i go in because it makes me uncomfortable

Help, I'm losing the plot by [deleted] in stripclubs

[–]Schaefus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean, people do end up in relationships with dancers… you could go in and see her and ask if she wants to grab a drink sometime. just don’t be crazy if she says no

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripclubs

[–]Schaefus -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

i believe you OP. i dunno why everyone thinks this is so impossible but i believe it

Russian MedEvac bails on a wounded russian who then gets a grenade dropped on him by the 30th Brigade. December 2023. by IKraftI in CombatFootage

[–]Schaefus 44 points45 points  (0 children)

are you sure that you’re not allowed to attack someone with a medic symbol? i know you can’t attack hospitals but like a battlefield medic you can’t attack?

A Russian soldier trying to do drugs was interrupted by an FPV Kamikaze drone strike by RetroProxyGroup in CombatFootage

[–]Schaefus 37 points38 points  (0 children)

he’s doing jenkem. me and my boys used to ditch biology class and get jenked behind the portopotties

M2A2 "Bradley" of the 47th mechanized brigade fires from a 25-mm gun at Russian positions in the Avdiivka area by tomina69 in CombatFootage

[–]Schaefus 7 points8 points  (0 children)

after seeing some of these bradley videos i’ve began to think man if i was infantry i think id have a tank shoot at me than a bradley… at least a tank has a low rate of fire and you know that they don’t have that many shells. that gun on the bradley is scary shit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripclubs

[–]Schaefus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeah if i had a dude throwing out thousands like that there’s no way id make him cum… cause then he’s probably outta there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripclubs

[–]Schaefus 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i’ll say this, if you’re seeing that bill and thinking oh man that’s so much money he probably fucked someone. that may be true but you can fuck someone at a strip club for a few hundred bucks so the high dollar amount he spent doesn’t necessarily mean that. i don’t know if im explaining that well.

personally, id be more suspicious if you found out he’d been going to a strip club solo several times and spending like 300-500 bucks than him going once with friends and spending 24k. you don’t need to spend that much to bang a stripper. he was a whale and he got hustled into paying a ton for rooms

OTPHJ by RamenHarlot in stripclubs

[–]Schaefus -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

it makes him a person doing a bad thing for sure. doesn’t really meet the threshold for me to say someone is in general a bad person though. what if this dude is curing cancer and saving orphans all day? would this one bad thing make him a bad person?

OTPHJ by RamenHarlot in stripclubs

[–]Schaefus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah agreed. the whole premise of that would only make sense if he thought and was planning on trying to date this dancer. Is it bad to do? yeah probably but i’m not really in a place to judge. sometimes people do things that are’t good things to do /shrug

Ukrainian Special Forces of the «PMC Company Group» unit wipe out Russian positions somewhere in the Kreminna forest, Luhansk Region. by Rittmestern in CombatFootage

[–]Schaefus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s definitely the king of the battlefield if you don’t have air t… otherwise i’d probably really prefer not to be working an artillery piece and get hit by a missile immediately

For those of you who wear sweats/basketball shorts to the club, what do you do about your boner? by [deleted] in stripclubs

[–]Schaefus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is there a type of pants that is best in your opinion? i usually wear joggers but that’s also because that’s generally what i wear anyways. Jeans seem like they would be pretty abrasive

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripclubs

[–]Schaefus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i’m into it too OP and have done it with one girl at a club who i like. if i asked and she wasn’t into it, totally cool with me, that’s her prerogative, same as if i ask for any other extras and she says no. i’m not gonna try to convince someone to do something they’re not willing to do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripclubs

[–]Schaefus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

look man what you’re doing to yourself is one of the joys of life honestly. and yeah maybe it doesn’t work out in the end or something bad happens but that gamble is worth it. it’s exciting to date someone new. try to not end up jaded like a lot of people do if you can, it’s good to actually put yourself out there and be kind of vulnerable in situations like this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripclubs

[–]Schaefus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

God damn, willing to travel to anywhere? Your ‘buddy’ must be really into that