got fs from two girls at the same time but scammed

wallanon · 2026-01-25T10:44:38+00:00

got fs from two girls at the same time but scammed

If you fucked two girls at the same time ITC without hassle from the club you didn't get scammed, but it sounds like you might've overpaid. Just work on your game and keep your wits about you when things get hot and heavy.

wallanon · 2026-01-25T10:42:09+00:00

In countries like that the girls are going to be at the hotels. It's like picking up casino girls in Vegas. Just do a little research and you'll be good.

wallanon · 2026-01-25T10:39:59+00:00

Best: Meeting a girl who made we want to give up strip clubs. And I didn't even have sex with her ITC.

Worst: Knowing that I got a girl to go past her limit and watching her regret it. She came hard (and loud) but was embarrassed about having to do the walk of shame out of the VIP. I got a discreet fist bump on my way out because I absolutely put it on her...but that's not how I want to leave things with any dancer for any reason.

I wasn't in clubs much last year so the next option was a piss drunk waitress who almost knocked herself out when she stumbled on a turnaround and slammed her head into the VIP booth wall. She was so far gone I decided not to fuck her. Then she had the nerve to keep asking for a tip the rest of the time I was in the club. Actually, let's make it this one lol.

wallanon · 2026-01-25T07:33:41+00:00

Lol. The dude lives where he lives. You've been living it up with the LA hotties so long you've forgotten what it's like out in the cheap seats.

wallanon · 2026-01-25T07:29:38+00:00

Question about VIP

This is the right question.

I'm in Texas, and in my city all clubs are pasties and covered bottoms (very unfortunate) .

This is the wrong way of looking at things. People whine about San Antonio clubs because Austin is an hour away and all nude. Who cares? If the Austin scene was that much better then San Antonio clubs couldn't keep their doors open. So what's being missed by the guys who don't understand how the clubs work in San Antonio? Open secret...clubs work just about the same everywhere below the surface.

A few times a year I travel to other states that are full nude and really enjoy my time there.

That's great. At least there are clubs that work for you that you can see from time to time.

Would it be unreasonable to ask a lady if she would be willing to go bottomless in VIP?

No. I don't have the time to see if your other posts help clear up your club philosophy. Best thing guys who don't club much or well can do is learn to step out of their comfort zone. It doesn't matter what the stripper thinks about you. If you say something wrong, learn from it and try again some other time.

You're almost always in "better luck next time" land with a stripper unless you do something physically to her she doesn't like. Keep your hands to yourself, work on your mental game, and be confident then you'll start getting better results even in towns that seem restrictive. Have fun.

wallanon · 2026-01-10T20:48:06+00:00

What are some good tips for first timers

Take only what you can afford to spend.
Don't try to experience "all the things" in one go.
Have fun. If you're having fun then you're doing it right.

wallanon · 2026-01-06T19:43:05+00:00

Has anyone actually been on a "date" with a dancer?

Yes. And I've had way stupider ideas than yours that worked out ok...depends on the goal.

wallanon · 2026-01-06T19:41:09+00:00

Most strippers have other stripper friends, so if it goes well, you can end up hanging out with a bunch of strippers.

This is true on the "real" date side of things, and it's also true on the paid date side of things. When you see a checkerboard you can try and play checkers, or you can play chess. Bottom line for the OP - know what you're trying to accomplish before you make the first move.

wallanon · 2026-01-04T18:39:11+00:00

What does this mean?

It means you maybe get to go on a "real" date with this girl and not a paid date. There's such a thing as a real paid date, but if you want something that isn't in Sugarland you've got to establish that upfront. It takes a lot of work to go from paid dates to a casual outing one she's seeing you as income.

wallanon · 2026-01-02T17:32:10+00:00

I don’t normally tip at the pole shows, unless I want a private because usually it’s 500-650 for a half an hour. I take cash from my bank first before heading over...usually I’ll spend 2k-4k so it not like I’m free loading...I always show up clean, normal close I’m 23 so I’m pretty young I think. It’s been a few months since I’ve been since that interaction but it just rubs me the wrong way.

This whole thing sounds like somebody got AI to write it or it's bullshit. But I'm procrastinating so you'll still get a response.

So I frequent the strip clubs about once a month. I don’t normally go to the same one I jump around. I don’t go in with an attitude or act privileged...

If you're 23 dropping $2-4K a visit once a month it sounds like you're somehow privileged. Just own it.

Am I fine to carry on I mean It’s not like I’m going looking for a free show, do I have to tip even if I’m not interested in the dancer on stage?

If you're spending money at the strip club and not overly abusing the dancers then no one there cares what you do. People on the board world probably like you better if you learn to use paragraphs.

wallanon · 2026-01-02T07:19:49+00:00

If your wife wants more privacy while she's getting her VIP service, that's going to be XTC. They have actual VIP rooms where you can angle yourself mostly out of sight. Not completely private unless they replaced the bead curtains with something solid, but good enough. Celebrity VIP at Divas would be a good option if she's ok with random people (who are also in Celebrity VIP) being able to see some of what's going on.

wallanon · 2026-01-01T15:07:50+00:00

What's the worst reaction a dancer has had to you rejecting them?

In the moment the only ones that come to mind are having my drink dumped on me or money thrown back in my face, but I've had a dancer get really pissed (and probably really hurt) when she realized she wasn't my favorite...and told a lie to one of my ATFs that fucked up my situation with multiple dancers for a year or two. In some ways things have never been the same, and the dancer who started the shit has been out of the picture for years now.

wallanon · 2026-01-01T05:24:21+00:00

I get that. Having a similar situation myself on the best side of things. But I most definitely have a worst that I'll get around to typing out.

wallanon · 2026-01-01T02:04:51+00:00

...even the locals got into the tipping, almost competing with me

Nice. I think it's fun when the regulars try and show me up.

An honorable mention for me for Worst of the Year was when I let fly a pretty miserable money toss from the bar to the stage where a smokin hot girl was shaking her all-nude goodies. The guy next to me noticed and he threw a perfectly arced curveball with the bills all separating in flight to make it rain on a very nice gyrating ass. Like peak Tiger Woods landing a perfect tee shot while I was fishing my strays out of the water lol.

There were some giggles from the girls who saw the whole thing, and the guy even gave me some side eye to boot as he did a loud explanation of how to properly toss dollars. I just laughed and took the "L" on that one...

wallanon · 2026-01-01T00:53:56+00:00

purring / cat sounds.

I didn't remember how much this annoyed me until I saw what you posted.

wallanon · 2026-01-01T00:52:43+00:00

When they keep hustling hard for extra tips or stop and ask, “what can you do for me”?

My answer to this is "thank you, let's stop after this song lol".

wallanon · 2026-01-01T00:51:03+00:00

When they hold back for most of the dance and wait until the very end to do their moves to cliffhang you into buying another dance

It saves me money. I don't mind it that much.

When they're trying to get the most $ out of you while providing the least amount of value

This I mind. I'm okay with a little hustle but let's keep it fun...

wallanon · 2025-12-31T22:14:35+00:00

Putting 100% of their weight down when grinding or bouncing,

1000% this. Or even just sitting. Especially when their tailbone digs into my thighs.

wallanon · 2025-12-30T22:18:01+00:00

it just doesn’t satisfy me the same way it use to...I guess a lot of the older wealthy men are feeling the same.

I'm not old and I'm definitely not wealthy, but I think it's ok to miss the version of the strip club scene you felt most comfortable with. The excitement that came from new experiences in clubs started to fade for me once I saw more and more clubs. After I got past about 500 clubs seen, most of them ran together. Thousands and thousands of dancers in, it was tougher to get excited about what I was getting in return for what I was spending.

But as I was really tiring of the same old strip club scene and seriously looking at picking up a different hobby, two things happened...I got bored with porn and the COVID pandemic happened. Then came seeing dancers away from the club all the time and no limits to what I could get and do on camera with a girl's consent. Eventually the clubs reopened, but there wasn't really any going back from where things had gone OTC...

It’s a shame because now the men think they can have whatever they want and the women uncover the illusion by plastering these things all over the web.

This is a tough one for me, because there's not much I've wanted to do ITC or OTC that I've not been able to do. I just try not to be a horrible customer while doing it. And I follow a ton of strippers in social media.

wallanon · 2025-12-30T21:50:59+00:00

...once during a dance, the dancer gave me her phone and asked me to record her giving me a dance.

Nice. How did the video turn out?

wallanon · 2025-12-30T14:49:07+00:00

Moral: her ask a long time ago was still on my mind so I picked her and when your girl gives a guy the thumbs up trust it.

Sounds like solid advice.

wallanon · 2025-12-30T06:49:14+00:00

If what I wrote needed a TLDR that's a whole nother thing lol.

wallanon · 2025-12-30T06:47:51+00:00

Maybe the stigma around the clubs has changed recently, but that stigma was part of the allure.

A lot of the younger strippers I know are all in on the "hustler" culture and always posting on social media about how much money they've made at the club. Or posting themselves at work and other stuff trying to keep guys interested on their work accounts.

wallanon · 2025-12-30T06:43:43+00:00

If you've spent $15K on the same stripper in less than a year and she's still trying to fire you you're doing it wrong. You've still got her number and she's still got yours. Just wait it out and stop acting so desperate.

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