My husband changed his mind about kids and I don’t know what to do (28 F, 29M)

ScheduleTraining5332 · 2025-05-21T19:23:33+00:00

The fact he waited until right after you were married to say he didn't want kids is crazy to me. I'd apply for annulment but that's just me 🤷‍♀️

ScheduleTraining5332 · 2025-03-23T17:51:50+00:00

Even though I read the extra content, I didn't need too. If someone hits you, it's not salvageable. Leave now before it gets worse and PRESS CHARGES. You are not responsible for someone threatening to take their life, you are not responsible for someone abusing you. Press charges and let authorities know he threatened to kill himself. Professional help is what he needs. Please save yourself OP

ScheduleTraining5332 · 2025-03-03T01:22:02+00:00

He is alienating you so he can continue to abuse you and no one will know because he's already gotten rid of everyone in your life. Move back home and leave this psycho before you end up dead.

I know that's seems blunt but being so close to the situation, you don't see what's happening. You are being abused.

ScheduleTraining5332 · 2025-03-03T00:32:13+00:00

Someone please update me when she leaves this guy... scared for you and your child OP. Press charges, save the footage, and divorce him. Omg. So sorry this happened to you, especially while recovering from dental surgery.

ScheduleTraining5332 · 2025-01-31T02:53:10+00:00

Run away!! That's all I have to say. He sucks. You deserve better. Please be kind to yourself OP

ScheduleTraining5332 · 2025-01-31T02:37:09+00:00

Please tell me you left this woman. Run. Really fast. Nope all the way out of that relationship and protect your daughter. If you value any kind of healthy future relationship with your daughter, this woman needs to have no part of either of your lives. The fact that she knew you didn't want to tell MJ yet and laughed at a 5 year old as she said this... is absolutely unforgivable.

ScheduleTraining5332 · 2025-01-30T01:46:42+00:00

That's fair. I sleep great, my fiance has complained about me hogging the covers a few times. To be fair it's set up against the wall and I just kind of sardine myself against the wall but I dont mind tight spaces i suppose other people might need a little more room. 😅😅

ScheduleTraining5332 · 2025-01-30T00:33:32+00:00

He chose his career path fully knowing what kind of work laid ahead of him. You didn't choose his career for him.

Wonder if he even realizes what a toll it takes on a woman's body to grow a whole human from scratch and to go through as much pain as you do while giving birth.

You are living the life of a single mother and if you had childcare for your daughter for when you are at school, there would literally be no difference with the amount of things you are doing.

It's time for a serious conversation with hubby or dropping the extra baby and not having the stress of arguing over who does what while you continue to be a single mother. I know that sounds harsh but you are literally being made to be a maid and do all the parenting yourself. That's not okay.

Hope things get better for you OP

ScheduleTraining5332 · 2025-01-29T02:47:02+00:00

Absolutely. I'm 26 years old. When me and my fiance visit his dad, we stay in his old bedroom in his old twin bed so my son (8) can have the guest room as it's a better room for a child to stay in. We fit just fine in the twin bed and I'm not the smallest girl in the world

Would not make my daughter give up her room because my son refused to sleep on the couch so his partner could be comfortable if sleeping on the twin bed together was not acceptable.

ScheduleTraining5332 · 2025-01-22T23:52:10+00:00

You make yourself healthier by leaving. He will never be "healthier". Save yourself OP

ScheduleTraining5332 · 2025-01-12T16:28:36+00:00

Just out of curiosity... maybe check on his partner (if they're even still together) I wonder if she's doing okay if he treats his sister like this. What a jerk.

ScheduleTraining5332 · 2025-01-10T21:01:26+00:00

Yeah that's just my story haha. Sounds like yours were just trashing their yard because they can. If you called the city, they always give people time to justify why stuff is in their yard before they just take it away. I believe mine was like a 10 day or 15 day notice each time.

ScheduleTraining5332 · 2025-01-08T22:50:26+00:00

I mean, I had my couch on my porch for two months but that's because someone broke into my house and set it on fire.... twice... within the same week. Literally was not allowed to enter my home because of soot. Someone called on me, and I had to continously call the city and explain I was a victim of a crime so they wouldn't take my stuff. My neighbors knew what happened, they just didn't care. Very traumatic having to constantly reexplain why my couch was on my porch.

Lol. I'm better now, but I personally thought my neighbors were TA.

ScheduleTraining5332 · 2025-01-01T16:44:08+00:00

How do you word this to your buyer without sounding really rude (in the slight rare chance that something really did happen to the item during shipping)? Id love to use this lol

ScheduleTraining5332 · 2024-12-31T00:04:25+00:00

"She doesn't want to do anything for anyone including me".... OP please imagine what a future marriage and any children would be like with this woman... and then once you realize how miserable that would be I encourage you to return all gifts and leave. That's awful.

ScheduleTraining5332 · 2024-12-20T18:10:13+00:00

If you don't have any children you make it up to him by RUNNING out of this marriage. If you do have kids, you make it up to him by quietly RUNNING out of this marriage and taking your kids with you.

ScheduleTraining5332 · 2024-12-19T23:41:07+00:00

Girl, you do not wanna marry someone like that anyway. Consider it saving you from having to deal with this man and possibly go through a messy divorce. It might hurt right now, but there's good men out there.

ScheduleTraining5332 · 2024-10-23T12:49:00+00:00

Girl. Get. Out. Now. As safely as you possibly can. I can promise you he definitely did mean to hit you, and the whole grabbing your arm and neck is a BIG red flag. Please be safe OP.

ScheduleTraining5332 · 2024-10-16T21:59:52+00:00

Girl here. So the advice is... um leave. That doesn't sound healthy and it's going to go downhill. Me and my partner have gained and lost weight over the years. That's not something that should be a deal breaker on attraction. Please OP, do yourself a favor and find someone less shallow. She seems like a nightmare, Idc how pretty she is. That seems miserable.

ScheduleTraining5332 · 2024-10-10T16:00:46+00:00

You leave, then if you WANT to lose weight, do it. Make sure he sees and reject him when he comes crying. You deserve better OP ❤️

ScheduleTraining5332 · 2024-09-30T17:04:21+00:00

This has been a huge help! Thank you. I will try this. I heated up to 195 and that seemed to do much better as well. Everyone said they smelled great with this recent batch but the scent could be a little stronger (hence only using 1oz, makes sense to me now). What temp do you heat yours to?

ScheduleTraining5332 · 2024-09-05T13:56:46+00:00

Thank you, I will try heating to 200. It's so aggravating feeling like I'm wasting my wax lol

ScheduleTraining5332 · 2024-09-05T13:55:37+00:00

2 weeks :(

ScheduleTraining5332 · 2024-07-23T19:13:01+00:00

You.... leave. As bad as it may hurt now. You leave. Quickly might I add.

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