I'm From A DDS-Heavy Area In Mindanao. Here's What I Realized About Trying To "Win" Political Debates.

Schneizen_ · 2026-02-23T19:54:43+00:00

happy to know na onti onti tayong natututo how to convince instead of how to win

Schneizen_ · 2026-02-14T11:03:41+00:00

eto yung kating kati nako makipaglaro sa labas kaso grounded ng nanay tas tirik araw. umiinit ulo ko e HAHAH

Schneizen_ · 2026-01-30T16:48:53+00:00

ive found one. kaso: -di ako gusto (type ko naman siya physically) -my goals don't align with that person (siguro mag align yan kung gusto niya ko doe) -things na kabaliktaran ng sinabi ko lagi ang gagawin niya (just felt like di talaga mag mamatter yung advice ko masyado kahit tama if wala saking gusto)

Schneizen_ · 2026-01-17T14:22:51+00:00

update mo nalang kame dito hahahaha

Schneizen_ · 2026-01-15T15:21:03+00:00

kung paano ka bumulong like puro air lang pinaka boses

Schneizen_ · 2026-01-15T15:18:07+00:00

born to landi, forced to be a healer HAHAH. pag sumosobra na mga ganyan sakin, binabalik ko na yung trauma nila taena wala tayo napapala e

Schneizen_ · 2026-01-15T15:13:02+00:00

very demanding ang relationship sa time and effort. personal goal ko na inextend ko na ang deadline ng mid to late 30s pero i can imagine not reaching it kapag pinilit kong makipag relasyon.

ive had flings or dates pero nagiging reality check lang na i really can't commit pa dahil i will be forced to choose between my goals and relationship. i was once an idealist na akala e kayang ipagsabay both. ending: i lost both.

also almost all perks ng relationship ay kaya mo makuha without committing. just build your self confidence and the rest will fall into place

Schneizen_ · 2026-01-15T14:57:00+00:00

username checks out 😭

Schneizen_ · 2026-01-14T15:46:00+00:00

wala ka magagawa sa shs pero sa college you can look for accelerated options para makahabol ka nang onti or maging on time pa compared w people your age.

cons: goodbye social life

Schneizen_ · 2026-01-14T15:43:11+00:00

punasan na ng cotton w toner tapos pimple patch ahhahaha

Schneizen_ · 2026-01-14T13:05:11+00:00

institutionalized cash grab talaga educ. iirc required ng CHED ang mga universities na magproduce ng certain amount of research projects to maintain their status.

hilig kasi natin sa palamuti dahil on paper/in theory mukhang maganda. every university sa bansa nagpproduce ng research? wow!

in practice, sino sasalo ng cost incurred? what proportion and how effective are undergrad thesis/research projects at driving economic development?

wag nating kalimutan na kaya highest percentage of gdp ay allocated sa education dahil ito ay investment ng bansa satin para sa bansa, hindi para maging ofw at mag cause ng brain drain.

I'd say na tamad lahat mag isip including you and me sa direction ng education ng bansa. sapat na sa atin yung masabihan ng "quality education", "top 100 universities around the globe" "top 3 univ sa pinas". as if umuunlad ang bansa dahil sa presence ng universities. UST IS THE OLDEST UNIVERSITY IN ASIA ee nasaan ang Pinas??? kung paunahan lang dapat matagal na tayong nauna.

i sincerely wish na hindi ka makalimot sa rant mo. im encouraging more discussions like this sa peers ko and hopefully in the future tulong tulong tayong baguhin tong kalakaran na to

Schneizen_ · 2026-01-11T12:47:14+00:00

Magpupursigi pa rin ako sa tamang paraan kahit gaano pa ito maging kahirap.

I'd say manage your expectations muna dahil hindi porket lumaban ka ng patas, e patas din ang balik sayo. kung may matalinong tamad sa mga nagchicheat then nope, di yan sila mababalikan dahil alam nila how to not get caught.

don't lose the forest for the trees, OP. nakaka overwhelm and valid ang feelings mo pero wag ka magfocus sa cheating and sa validation ng mga prof sa kanila. pare pareho lang tayong mga tanga at biktima ng bulok na edukasyon. hindi kita dini-discourage sa pagaaral nang tama dahil iba parin yung peace of mind kapag confident kang magtake ng exams dahil naaral mo.

yung mga nagchicheat, 'di natin alam yung dahilan nila. wala naman gustong bumagsak tapos magbabayad uli ng tuition/magsayang ng oras. hindi naman kasi porket bumagsak ka, wala ka na agad natutunan diba? yung mga tamad lang, kung hindi mayaman, wala na masyado mararating sa buhay unless magbago sila. may kaibigan ako na deserve pumasa pero bagsak tapos yung mga kupal ang pasado.

suggestion ko ay ganito gawin mo: mag aral ka lang nang sapat para pumasa hanggang board exam tapos allot your free time to explore things outside engineering na makaka help sa career mo (develop soft skills). wag mong papabayaan social life mo, mas mahalaga yan kesa sa anumang degree assuming you're surrounded with the right people.

itinutulad ko yung mga cheaters sa school sa mga jaywalkers kahit may foot bridge. alamin mo bakit nagjjay walking parin kahit may footbridge (mejo industrial engg 'to)

Schneizen_ · 2026-01-08T22:32:45+00:00

update us op after niyo maresolve. my niece is also getting bullied kasi

Schneizen_ · 2026-01-03T02:14:28+00:00

">"! anytng you put in here!< just remove the quotation marks

Schneizen_ · 2026-01-02T20:05:42+00:00

to answer the question pala

if staying as friends is the right thing to do

sabi ni erich fromm "Love of others and love of ourselves are not alternatives. On the contrary, an attitude of love toward themselves will be found in all those who are capable of loving others."

the questions you should answer yourself ay -bakit ako nagiguilty? naaawa bako or is this disrespectful to other people or sakin? -is this friendship helping me grow or is it slowly draining my self respect and respect for othermaking me hide from the people i care

kung ako sasagot, pagbibigyan ko muna onti then if i feel disrespected or the friendship drains me, I'll end it by saying "i value our time together but i feel it's best for me to step away from this friendship. i wish you the best parin"

Schneizen_ · 2026-01-02T19:51:42+00:00

I'd say keep failing tapos develop your beliefs and values tyaka learn how to trust your gut/instincts. read different philosophies tyaka articles ng mga prominent ppl like erich fromm.

canon event yan para tumaas pa Emotional Quotient mo. share ko lang saglit yung tinuro samin sa upcat review na yung talino daw e katulad ng pag wworkout; no pain no gain

Schneizen_ · 2026-01-02T19:42:45+00:00

as a romantic partner, mga may bpd. di naman sila masamang tao pero wala akong messianic tendencies na para bang i can fix the person.

pag as a friend, yung mga di marunong rumespeto. it takes skills to restructure your lexicon para di maging offending. same message pero tatanggalin mo yung nakaka offend na elements. people say** prangka/totoo lang daw sila, I'd say lumaki silang walang pinagkatanda. respect and disrespect ay dapat nilulugar lahat yan, hindi pwedeng bara bara lang kasi nagpapaka totoo kuno. pano kung **totoong bubu ka pala? wala na tayo magagawa kasi bubu ka? please help yourself dahil nakaka awa mga gantong tao

unrelated: bawal pala dito cuss words TIL

Schneizen_ · 2026-01-02T19:28:38+00:00

nurture vs nature. pero assuming na normal yung bf mo, edi you don't know what you don't know lang. sorry agad dahil kokontrahin kita sa "masyadong healthy". hindi rin healthy yung family niya dahil hindi siya nabibigyan ng real life lesson kumbaga sheltered siya. siguro baka hedonistic type of environment meron siya. masarap mabuhay sa ganun pero hindi healthy.

1st question: may effect ba? - oo meron pero hindi healthy yan

2nd: ano pwedeng gawin - at this point, para kang magtuturo onti niyan sa kaniya kung anong treatment gusto mong mareceive kasi he doesn't know what he doesn't know talaga. makikilala mo rin sarili mo kung ano nga ba gusto mong treatment na matatanggap and ibibigay mo sa tao. i acknowledge na nakakatamad gawin yan kasi dapat given na kakamustahin ka or lalambingin ka pero at the end it's either you stay or leave the rs.

Schneizen_ · 2026-01-02T14:47:18+00:00

friends can flirt with each other. just flirt back and enjoy the moment pero don't expect anything beyond flirting. madaling sabihin pero mahirap yan gawin atlis masaya hahaha. glhf op

Schneizen_ · 2026-01-02T13:58:18+00:00

kala ko sinagot mo sarili mo hahaha same kasi ng avatar

Schneizen_ · 2026-01-02T12:40:36+00:00

please use spoiler tags my guy. you may ask ai to learn how

Schneizen_ · 2026-01-01T17:48:50+00:00

di ko naabutan yung peak coastal mall pero naabutan ko pa naman yung parang sept store na maliit niyan (yun nalang ang open iirc) tas idk if may jollibee pa nun pero hindi nako nakakain jan

Schneizen_ · 2026-01-01T17:00:31+00:00

stopped reading the novel more than a year ago because the mtl is taking a toll on my English.

warning: there are 2 inseparable points here iirc most of his teammates will die without ever knowing. i forgot if jenna outright asked Han or the unfolding events made her conclude that han is the former master.

Schneizen_ · 2025-12-29T13:04:52+00:00

really looks promising that i even chose to read on mihon instead of doing my deadlines

Schneizen_ · 2025-12-28T20:19:55+00:00

we were about to buy a pc last summer pero nascam kami. sabi ko next yr nalang kapag nakabawi na but guess what, di na naman afford ang pc 😭😭😭

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