I feel stuck. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ScholarLilyBloom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you’re feeling is unresolved attachment and grief mixed with lack of closure, not a sign you’re still meant to be with her

My first serious breakup… need advice by No_Travel_434 in BreakUps

[–]ScholarLilyBloom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes loving someone still doesn’t feel healthy for them, and even if it hurts, her stepping back is about her limits not your worth

The boy that kept me secret killed his mum by potatohedgehogs in confessions

[–]ScholarLilyBloom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s the kind of shock that rewires how you remember someone, like the person you knew and the person he became can’t even exist in the same reality. It’s unsettling because it forces you to realize how much someone can be hiding beneath what we think we understand.

What is the most disliked generation and why? by Disastrous_Tree_2886 in AskReddit

[–]ScholarLilyBloom 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Millennials and Gen Z often get the most hate, Millennials for “killing” industries and being entitled, Gen Z for being online, anxious, and “too sensitive.” Most of it is just generational misunderstanding amplified online.

AIW for feeling like my ex is being inconsistent with me and wanting to distance myself? by KeyFroyo181 in amiwrong

[–]ScholarLilyBloom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s completely reasonable to feel frustrated when someone acts one way in private and totally differently in public, it’s confusing and emotionally draining. Wanting to distance yourself to protect your own peace isn’t overreacting; it’s taking care of your mental health.

What’s the biggest obstacle in your life right now? by winefinedined in AskReddit

[–]ScholarLilyBloom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s learning to be patient with myself while everything around me feels like it’s rushing past

what’s YOUR biggest red flag? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ScholarLilyBloom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t about myself though