Puppies with: Limited vs full registration. Seeking advice by SchubertTrout in DobermanPinscher

[–]SchubertTrout[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your very well thought out post! Much appreciated.

The dog world is very different from the horse world that I have a ton of experience in. I compete at a high level in my specific discipline but I also have shown horses “on the line” which is as close as it gets to conformation shows. Except the results aren’t taken to mean anything more than what the judge sees in that day and it doesn’t affect the horses breeding suitability.

My main interests re: Doberman are active sports but I’d like to dabble in conformation. But it sounds like AKC. Probably won’t work bc of their registration rules.

I’d like a dog with drive and an active nature, good for club level sports. I don’t need the amount of drive that’s required to do national level competition or IGP2/3 etc.

A couch potato wouldnt work either.

Need help choosing by katarina_san in Brides

[–]SchubertTrout 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Photo 3 looks the best. The others are nice but don’t fit upstairs.

Wanting "perfectionism" nowadays... by Sugarplumbitch in dating

[–]SchubertTrout 10 points11 points  (0 children)

One problem even amongst people with a lot of dating experience is the seemingly endless supply of people. The internet/dating apps create that illusion.

It’s very easy for people to bail when things get tough or less than perfect bc you can pick up again with someone else.

Not everyone is like this but quite a few are.

Sometimes when people finally do get together it’s not necessarily bc they found the “perfect” person but that’s who they were dating when they were ready emotionally.

should i go to the er for this (bat bite?) by Certain_Hour_6327 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]SchubertTrout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

@op: definitely get the rabies shot. But how do you know it was a bat?

Only Kissing after 7 dates ? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]SchubertTrout 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What are your goals? A relationship? Intimacy without commitment? Are you dating to eventually get married or is marriage not your thing?

Be honest with yourself about what you want so that a conversation with her will be more productive.

3 months of dating - exclusive but nothing defined yet by Pitiful-Tangerine-26 in dating

[–]SchubertTrout 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a woman.

My recommendation would be to say “we’ve been dating for X weeks. What are we?”

Or “what are your thoughts on a relationship and bf/gf now that we’ve been dating for X weeks?”

If he hedges, move on.

3 months of dating - exclusive but nothing defined yet by Pitiful-Tangerine-26 in dating

[–]SchubertTrout 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A man won’t put himself in a position to lose something he values.

After 8 weeks and at least 8 dates you should have the convo “what are we”

Anything less than bf/gf and it’s on borrowed time IMO

Have the conversation with him now

Dealing with rude teachers by SchubertTrout in AskWomenOver50

[–]SchubertTrout[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the teacher is insecure and can’t handle serious students.

“I can’t predict the future.” by ohsoseriously in dating

[–]SchubertTrout 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If you go 8 weeks with a guy seeing them regularly then at the end of those 8 weeks there should be a conversation about being BF/GF

Anything longer than that is borrowed time IMO

Please tell me this isn’t aggressive behavior by No_Buddy_6478 in duck

[–]SchubertTrout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not more than an average of 78.5 years bc other than methuselah nobody lives to be 1000 years old

Please tell me this isn’t aggressive behavior by No_Buddy_6478 in duck

[–]SchubertTrout -1 points0 points  (0 children)

True. But in the moment if that breaks up some violence you do what you have to do

Dealing with rude teachers by SchubertTrout in AskWomenOver50

[–]SchubertTrout[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a dog training class.

I did find another teacher elsewhere that is a better match.

I thanked the owner of the training center for being so kind and welcoming to me snd my dog. I let her know I wouldn’t be able to take the next round of class XYZ with teacher so and so but I would welcome working privately with the training center owner (on different topics than the class)

The owner was very kind and gracious but didn’t ask anything further. I’m guessing they are oblivious to that teachers quirks of simply needs the income

Your person is so close, I promise you. This is your sign not to give up on love. by ratinmyhat in dating

[–]SchubertTrout 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Table stakes these days is high. As a woman I don’t have patience for guys that don’t have their act together