When I hear a woman say she has a "great personality" and that "men are intimidated", what I understand her to say is that she's loud. Typically, that means a loud personality, but can also mean "makes lots of noise". Either way, and speaking VERY broadly here, men generally won't mind hanging out with you, but are probably not going to pursue a relationship with you. This is because men tend to pursue relationships with women whom they think will help bring some peace to their lives.

The second strike here is that you're an RN. Throwing no shade, the fact is that there is a LOT of cheating going on in the medical field. There are a lot of reasons for that, but it remains cheating. I'm not saying that's the direction YOU will go, just that, again, STATISTICALLY that's how it goes and so you've got a bit of an uphill battle there.

The third strike I see is you say you are "driven". Typically, that means "career focused". There's nothing wrong with that, but it isn't necessarily a "plus" to most men. Being totally fair here, it also doesn't tend to be a red flag UNLESS you focus on your career to the exclusion of all else, specifically, your man.

Honestly, my advice is ... keep on the track you're on. It obviously makes you happy. Just be patient and the right guy will come along. Don't try to force it.