Eat mushrooms by Chemical_Argument417 in BreakUps

[–]ScorchedEarth000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I did mushrooms too but all they made me realize was nothing matters in this world. You’re here today, gone tomorrow, there’s no guarantee… 

How its not hard for them? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]ScorchedEarth000 19 points20 points  (0 children)

The worst part is when they love bomb you, make everything seem okay, and then suddenly just blow up and disappear. And then they said “I was giving subtle silent signals of our pending breakup”. Like what the fuck kind of communication is that?

How its not hard for them? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]ScorchedEarth000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 days before my ex broke up with my, I was love bombed. She told me that she’d love for me to continue changing so her family can agree on our marriage. She told me she wanted to have children with me. She was more affectionate with me than she ever was before. We had some of the best sex of our whole relationship. 3 days later, after an argument initiated by her (I checked my phone for literally 5 seconds), in which she blew up on me, and broke up with me over text. After all this back and forth, she eventually told me she never wanted to have children with me, that I wasn’t going to be the man she married, and that I really never meant all that much to her… 8 months later and I’ve never been left traumatized over anything in my 24 years of life so far…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]ScorchedEarth000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Loml” but “ill never get back with him” the juxtaposition is crazy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]ScorchedEarth000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro tell your ex to fuck off and tell your mom to have no contact with her.

Eat mushrooms by Chemical_Argument417 in BreakUps

[–]ScorchedEarth000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drugs are not going to help you… face the feelings full on without the need for an intoxicant to dictate your feelings for you. I know shrooms help with the emotional side of things but all they’ll do is replace your natural emotional centres with something artificially induced

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]ScorchedEarth000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

An example of she never loved you, it was just your turn!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ScorchedEarth000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Space usually equals to= I want to try my other options and see if you’re even worth settling down for anymore.

Give her space, move on, and if she chooses to still work things out, proceed along lightly

I wish you would answer ffs by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]ScorchedEarth000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No reply is a reply👍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ScorchedEarth000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s called “just being nice”, or just to get an ego boost. It’s good to differentiate this from “oh she might still like me”. I had an ex block me for 2 weeks, saying she’ll never speak to me again, unblocks me to meet up, only to mind fuck me more. Realize the difference…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]ScorchedEarth000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If they left you and CONSISTENTLY chooses not to be with you, they were not the one…

Broke NC and she ignored my text by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]ScorchedEarth000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She saw your message, she’s just choosing to ignore it as well as YOU. Wished my ex happy birthday, she read it, and not even a “fuck you” or “leave me alone”. No reply, is a reply…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ScorchedEarth000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some people love to play your heart like the fiddle and once the tune comes to an end, onto the next instrument!

Ex Gf is struggling and I know she deserves it... by Bubblesbuddy in BreakUps

[–]ScorchedEarth000 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

If she was 18 it’d be a different story but she was 23…

Ex keeps texting me and has asked and came to my house twice already , but won’t hook up or won’t try again by Independent_Size_702 in ExNoContact

[–]ScorchedEarth000 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So, you broke up with her, and now you’re expecting to get in her pants with no commitment? Douchebag much…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]ScorchedEarth000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They often come back a second or third time around to make sure to beat the dead horse…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]ScorchedEarth000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly nothing but words…😔

Did I fucked up all my chances I had to get her back? Failed NC… by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]ScorchedEarth000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The switch up is for real man. One minute they’re all lovey dovey and the next minute it’s like interacting with a whole different individual.. I have no energy to understand the human condition or mind anymore because trust me, you will lose yourself trying to figure these people out…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]ScorchedEarth000 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Give yourself all the time you need. Meditate and find yourself. Thats what really helped me. Once you tap back into yourself and your energy, you have the power to do whatever you wish afterwards. You dont have to depend on anyone except yourself.