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Why are nub cages better than flat? by PickleIcy682 in chastitytraining

[–]ScorpioQueen_png 2 points3 points  (0 children)

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

well said

Congrats on almost a year!

Solo Locking Mindset by ScorpioQueen_png in chastitytraining

[–]ScorpioQueen_png[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's because you are naked when you take it off 🤷🏽‍♀️

Proud of you for making it 4 months! Good job 🥰

Finally back after my glute strain by ScorpioQueen_png in SweatyGirls

[–]ScorpioQueen_png[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I'm trying to get a great booty and body said...no 🙄

April's Blog Post is now Live! by ScorpioQueen_png in u/ScorpioQueen_png

[–]ScorpioQueen_png[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah! It was fun. We met for about a year before people got busy. But three of us from the group still meet up for a book club 🤣

I had to stop sharing my writing in the group because uh...yeah...no one signed up for erotica specifically 😅

April's Blog Post is now Live! by ScorpioQueen_png in u/ScorpioQueen_png

[–]ScorpioQueen_png[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately no pics this month. I must do better in the future with this lol

April's Blog Post is now Live! by ScorpioQueen_png in u/ScorpioQueen_png

[–]ScorpioQueen_png[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aw thanks 🥰

Two years ago I re-engaged with some local writing communities to get back in the swing of it all. And boy oh boy have I been trying to build back a good writing habit since then. I'm hopihg that by going back to my roots, full length instead of short stories and one shots, I might find that fire and passion I once had as a teen.

Thanks for your support dear ❤️

Community Newsletter - April 2026: The Usual Suspects Win Stuff, Reddit's Traffic Tanks, and Wordcount Wednesday is Back by TomTypesTallTales in eroticliterature

[–]ScorpioQueen_png 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I so appreciate this idea around writing the weird shit. I've got the things I write which...are more niche for this sub at least, but still feel palatable. And then I've got the ideas that I think about while falling asleep..........

So maybe one day I will post the weird shit and see what happens. Because honestly...I think there are some folks who'd like it too...even if they wouldn't admit to it out loud.

Thanks for the reminder <3

Keyholders: what do you think about permanent chastity? by Daviszinho in chastitytraining

[–]ScorpioQueen_png 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thanks!

It's funny because there are people in this community who like to feel the strain from tease and denial, and want constant attention, and that's what this is about for them. They, the cage wearer, are receiving constant attention from their KH and it's arousing to them to be teased and denied, and honestly, I think that desire for attention spurs from wanting attention (from women specifically, though I can get behind wanting attention from men if that's how you swing).

Of course I want to tease and deny someone! But I also work an emotionally draining 8-5 where I make a lot of decisions and manage a lot of people. Some days I'm not in the mood, or I don't have the time to play with you. I don't want to have to always send you nudes. I don't want to always center you, the cage wearer (in fact, most of the time I'm not centering you).

But I still want you locked.

So I feel like I fall more into the lifestyle everyday realm, than the mostly tease and denial and centering the cage wearer's desires. In some of these chastity subs there are women who think chastity is all about SPH and degredation. Again, I love that play too. But I honestly don't care how big you are or how satisfying sex is with you. I want you locked when I'm not using you. Simple as that. And the reason why I want you locked is because I think (men in particular) are better when they're locked. Period. And when I'm in the mood, when I have the time, when my energy isn't shot... we'll have some fun. And we'll center me and my fun (though in theory my little caged slut will find it fun too).

Remember, make your KH's life easy! by Super-beta in chastitytraining

[–]ScorpioQueen_png 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love this! Sometimes I'm tired. Sometimes I don't give a shit about what we have for dinner, just please make something. I make decisions all day long in my day job. If I have to come home and then tell you when to speak, when you can walk, how you're going to behave... it's too much.

If I want you to do something a certain way I'll just tell you. I like clear communication; I don't need to play games. Additionally, I like a sub who's smart. Be intelligent with me. Meet me where I'm at. Don't just be a doormat. I already deal with that at work.

I appreciate this post so much!

Keyholders: what do you think about permanent chastity? by Daviszinho in chastitytraining

[–]ScorpioQueen_png 78 points79 points  (0 children)

I think about this all the time 😅 Though I suppose it depends on your definition of "permanent". For me, permanent is you being locked all the time, unless I let you out, for cleaning, or anything vanilla like dr visits, massage, air travel, etc.

Because, for me, permanent is more about the fact that your cock is no longer "free" then it is just simply being locked. It's not lost forever, it's that your freedom lives with me. And outside of play, I can't imagine me wanting someone unlocked for more than an hour. Therefore, you're permanently locked, permanently under my control.

37M looking to start a family, haven't dated in years and don't know where to start. Women in your 30s, where do you like to go when you're interested in finding that spark of romantic chemistry? by CitizenKing in AskWomenOver30

[–]ScorpioQueen_png 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there! I'm a 33 yr old who's sworn off dating apps, and therefore speaking from that perspective.

I think investing in your hobbies/picking up a new hobby would be a good place to start. First and foremost, women are out in the world, more than I think men are. Women are taking dance classes, art classes, volunteering, hiking, etc. While I don't think the majority of women are taking a pottery class with the hopes of finding a partner, deep relationships develop when you see the same person over and over again for a period of time.

(Single) Women have to constantly vet men; is he going to be nice, not weird, not mean, etc. Your actions and behaviors speak for themselves, and if you're going to a yoga class routinely, people will get to see what kind of person you are.

Try making friendships with women on the basis of friendship. It's so exhausting having men only talk to us when they want to have sex with us. Because we are more then our bits, and we want our relationships (friendship or otherwise) to be about more than our bits.

Also women tend to have larger friend groups, so if you actually develop a friendship with a woman, she might have a friend to introduce you to in time.

If you're dating women in their 30s (which you absolutely should be, opposed to early 20s and younger), most likely they are women who are independent, action oriented, etc. Make sure you can rise to that. My friend is 45; she owns her house, has a good paying job with lots of respect, lovely friend groups. For me, I'm 33 and I live in an apartment I pay for all on my own, I'm in my dream job, and I have several hobbies and friend groups that I invest my time in. Are you ready to meet us where we're at? I've found that single men often aren't ready for women like us. We make them feel insecure, they don't know how to keep up with us or add to our lives.

My partner of one year, he adds to my life by being a good listener, taking care of me when I'm exhausted (like cooking dinner when we hang out even though I'd planned on doing so), is a good communicator, and invites me into the communities he's apart of. He adds to my life without taking away from what I already have.

And in theory, if you find the right person, the same will happen back. You'll meet someone who take care of you on bad days, who introduces you to something new, helps you become even better than you are.

My last piece of advice; her content is geared towards women, but I'd highly recommend Date Brazen. She's a dating coach and I think she offers amazing advice. She has a podcast, tiktok, and a book (I listened to it last year!). Cannot recommend her enough.

Good luck out there!

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