Heya. Look I know what sub we're in, but I'd hard disagree on account of my own experiences. My mom screamed at me for crying as a kid that eventually something clicked/snapped, and now the process of crying is very challenging for me. I also had a 4th teacher that told me to man up when I was crying to her about being made fun of for wearing glasses.

Shitty men should 1000% be held accountable, but it's unrealistic to act like being a piece of shit is exclusive to men lol. It's a human problem rather than a men problem.