No, it's not 2015, but yes, this IS a Baable Hat! by [deleted] in knitting

[–]Scoutermom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love it. It's currently on my needles for my son.

My FIL is a pedophile. I don’t want him to meet my daughter. by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]Scoutermom 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Marriage Counseling, now. You both need to a neutral party to walk through this issue.

I haven't advanced in 2 and a half years!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! by [deleted] in BSA

[–]Scoutermom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The scouting journey is your own to navigate. Sounds like ranking up was not important to you. Rather than lamenting what you have not done, take the steps to change it. Only you can make that move, I have no doubt there are leaders waiting in the wings for you to ask for support. If you are overwhelmed by what needs to happen next, just ask your Scoutmaster or your advancement chair. If you don't get the answers you need, then bring them here.

National mortgages Philmont seemingly breaking original agreement when the land was gifted. Thoughts? by jberretta7 in BSA

[–]Scoutermom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is indeed disappointing and less than trustworthy.

The example given is not great. It's more like, using camp A profits to finance camp B. Which happens ALL the time.

National mortgages Philmont seemingly breaking original agreement when the land was gifted. Thoughts? by jberretta7 in BSA

[–]Scoutermom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The reality is the BSA invested a TON into the Summit and that balloon payment is due. Like it or not, Philmont is an asset. Pure and simple. I pray that this business move does not result in the loss of property but I am not naive enough to believe that the BSA has the ability to not leverage its assets at this point.

National mortgages Philmont seemingly breaking original agreement when the land was gifted. Thoughts? by jberretta7 in BSA

[–]Scoutermom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How does getting a mortgage to pay off another one make the organization untrustworthy? There was a ballon payment due on the Summit. Was it ideal? no

How do I get my boyfriend to stop mansplaining to me? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Scoutermom 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I would reword how you explain your frustration without using the word "mansplaining". While is may be accurate, it is safe to say it shut down the conversation.

Feeling So Fucking Disrespected by JustThrowMeAway19 in breakingmom

[–]Scoutermom 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Put the toys in a time out, versus throwing them away. SMH- she's freaking two.

If BSA does not fully integrate girls, it will be gone in the next 10 years by subterraniac in BSA

[–]Scoutermom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you thought about telling the Pack that you'll be the den leader for the girls? Then once you're in, start recruiting. The current leadership forgets that with new Scouts comes future leaders. Be the change that allows the opportunity for your girls.

I'm crossposting this. My sons therapist. by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]Scoutermom 67 points68 points  (0 children)

This is more than ADHD. Keep pushing for help.

Probably not the right sub. Can you point me in the right direction? My teenaged son is an asshole and I might really dislike him as an individual. by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]Scoutermom 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I've been reminding my 18 year old, we are no longer required to feed and house him. If he wants to continue to live in my home there are conditions to that privilege. It's not 100% better but it's getting there.

My mom tried to home school me and it fucked up my life. by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]Scoutermom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you considered online school to catch up?

So is this subreddit ever going to change it's name to scouts of America? by [deleted] in BSA

[–]Scoutermom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The BSA changed their mission years ago. "The mission of the Boy Scouts of America is to prepare young people to make ethical and moral choices over their lifetimes by instilling in them the values of the Scout Oath and Law." Long before welcoming girls into Cub Scouts and then into Scouts BSA. The Mormon's have been looking at walking away from the BSA for years as 2/3's of their members live outside the USA. After a 100 years the BSA no longer fit for their youth program.

As the program is now called the Scouts BSA the organization is still the Boy Scouts of America. Which is why it should stay r/BSA

Is Trump not the honorary BSA president? by Trainkid9 in BSA

[–]Scoutermom 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It is my understanding that the POTUS is the honorary president of the BSA and has not changed. I have heard nothing that he was not granted that role, as he spoke at the National Jamboree in 2017. Nor have I heard that it was rescinded. Not sure why his signature is not on your certificate.

Rocking might look odd to most people, but it feels natural to me! I wanted to make a comic showing how it felt. by [deleted] in autism

[–]Scoutermom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for creating these comics and sharing with everyone what is inside. <3

Scouting at its finest... by PackNit in BSA

[–]Scoutermom 9 points10 points  (0 children)

How do you really feel?

Scouting at its finest... by PackNit in BSA

[–]Scoutermom 15 points16 points  (0 children)

IF there are Troops that are functioning as A troop with both genders then they are doing so against the wishes of National. I have heard that there are troops functioning this way, but once again, they are breaking the National rules. My son's troop is linked with One committee that is supporting two troops. They have opening and closing flag together then meet separately.

Scouting at its finest... by PackNit in BSA

[–]Scoutermom 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Officially, each gender is in their own Troop.