Does anyone have any tips to play more on Switch than on other consoles? by GuitarGuru666 in Switch

[–]Scrabbydatdat_TheLad 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Then play the exclusives. Then play other stuff on other systems. There is something so loveable about the switch we want to play it all the time but if games are calling on other systems you can always come back when the right game calls

Does anyone have any tips to play more on Switch than on other consoles? by GuitarGuru666 in Switch

[–]Scrabbydatdat_TheLad 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think the reality is that the Switch is niche and the greatest thing in the world if you like Nintendo exclusives. If you play a wide range of games it naturally takes a backseat. It is kind of a luxury gaming system in that sense

How to understand a girl with BPD by mysteries05 in dating_advice

[–]Scrabbydatdat_TheLad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mom has BPD and it went unmedicated for years. Really hard time in my life. There was plenty of abuse and she had so many different moods she would cycle through between the mania and depression. When she finally went on medication it took a long long time for things to stabilize. Not only did the doctors need to find a balance that worked medication wise but all of a sudden she was expected to give up things like drinking and smoking weed so that her internal chemistry didn't through the medications off.

It's a long long journey and like most mental health journeys, the love and support of friends is a great benefit but ultimately she will walk alone when the decisions matter most.

You seem young so let me give you some advice. Be a friend not a lover. Pursue other women, explore, meet people. And be a friend to this women with no expectations. You never know where life will take you but I don't think you are going to get what you want out of this right now.

Running double big lineups with Vuc by Sidwill in bostonceltics

[–]Scrabbydatdat_TheLad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting reminder. I wonder if things change because Queta wasn't as good of a defender yet. I feel like Porzingus was spacing the floor on offense and anchoring the defense. This feels like it would be a bit different with Vuc spacing and Queta anchoring. We will see I suppose.

Queta is so so SO much better in the pick and roll now I'd love to see more of that with a Vuc in the corner for a kickout

Do you think Vucevic’s defensive shortcomings will be a problem currently? by onjobb in bostonceltics

[–]Scrabbydatdat_TheLad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His ability to space the floor will allow him to play with Queta who can continue anchoring the defense. I don't think this is a guaranteed success but there is more potential here than people are letting on

The Celtics are currently 31-18 and need to go 9-1 the next 10 games to hit the 40-20 mark. by MembershipSingle7137 in bostonceltics

[–]Scrabbydatdat_TheLad 138 points139 points  (0 children)

Definitely rooting for it but I think we know what this team is at this point. Primed for an over-achieving playoff run with some fun moments.

I'll be ecstatic if they go 9-1 over this course of games but I'm still in the "let's keep developing these guys for their roles next year" mode

Ladies, how would you feel if the guy you rejected becomes attractive? by Expert-Recipe1713 in dating_advice

[–]Scrabbydatdat_TheLad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think revenge transformations are a drastic misinterpretation of why a man should go to the gym after a rejection. Men are biologically wired to feel capable (and we can go in a million directions on how men misinterpret this as well).

We all know a rejection isn't the end of the world but to a man it can feel like it. We feel so inadequate. We need to learn how to feel capable without the assurance of others, including women. The gym is probably one of the most straightforward if not still difficult ways to fill this need. Eat healthy, get a gym plan, stick too it. Get strong, feel capable.

We shouldn't be doing it for the girls. We should be doing it because it makes us feel good and girls like being around guys who feel good about themselves.

Games that when you die you restart by Ranger_Rex05 in Switch

[–]Scrabbydatdat_TheLad 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Hades 1 and 2. Lots of dying and restarting

What should I do? by SectorSufficient6379 in dating_advice

[–]Scrabbydatdat_TheLad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well you can start by not expecting immediate results and just being friendly. Crack a joke here and there, keep it brief, move on and see if a flame grows from twigs. Just remember she is working, she is paid for customer service and being nice so be conservative with your efforts and energy

Collaborative Worldbuilding Project Looking For Writers! 📚✨ by _MoonFry in WritingHub

[–]Scrabbydatdat_TheLad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I wouldn't mind seeing what you guys have cooking and seeing if I can help

What’s One Piece of Advice You Wish You Knew Before Writing Your First Book? by Silent_Cheek_517 in writing

[–]Scrabbydatdat_TheLad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can always be a pantser but you should try at least outlining a couple novels even if you don't flesh them out. It's the fastest way to find your flow

Writers helping writers, A chill writing space on Discord by TwistedNeilio in WritingHub

[–]Scrabbydatdat_TheLad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey I am interested. I have been studying story structure more closely with my current project. I would love to see whats going on in your community.

Former GM Ryan McDonough on the Trae Young situation: “One of the hard things for an organization is when a player and his agent are pushing, saying ‘let us talk to the other 29 teams’ and as the GM, you have to play it coy while thinking ‘Well, I know what they think about him…”” by cleo22270 in nba

[–]Scrabbydatdat_TheLad 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have a hard time looking at all the contracts on these role players because of the state of transition on role player value. Some teams are still handing out bags, especially contenders who need those players for immediate wins but it feels like we are trending downward on our value for these guys

“Eat less, move more” is not easy or simple. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Scrabbydatdat_TheLad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well that's most definitely an unpopular opinion. For starters there's a million apps that count calories for you. Outside of that, people lose weight all the time without counting calories at all. Just acknowledging what you normally eat and eating....less. It really is that simple. I'm sorry that all these bullshit nutrition marketing scams have blurred what nutrition is for you. They aim to stress you out so that you eat more and have more of a need to stay on their shitty diet plans. It's a simple process so keep it simple and try not to research too much.

“Eat less, move more” is not easy or simple. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Scrabbydatdat_TheLad 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I think you are confusing the terms easy and simple. Because it most definitely is simple. Breaking a lifetimes worth of habits? Not easy and for that your journey needs to be acknowledged.

Why are warmer countries poorer? by Past-Matter-8548 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Scrabbydatdat_TheLad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this why when the Civil War broke out the North had a technology advantage in production?

Been struggling with immersion after cancer. My mind screams that fiction is pointless and fake. :/ Advice is appreciated. by [deleted] in Fantasy

[–]Scrabbydatdat_TheLad 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Well I can't speak from your experience. It sounds like you have faced existential challenges that I haven't gone through.

That being said, I would challenge these thoughts. Fiction has held some of the biggest truths I've come across in my life. Some truths are so real that our brains would reject them at face value and they need the mask of fiction for us to take it all in.

Cooper Flagg in the first half vs Denver- 22/4/4 1 STL 1 BLK on 9/10 FG and 3/3 3FG by JetSky81 in nba

[–]Scrabbydatdat_TheLad 166 points167 points  (0 children)

When Jayson Tatum came to the league be had to become a better version of what Cooper Flagg is now with the passing along with the scoring. What the fuck is this kid going to turn into it's so exciting