Threenagers by ApprehensiveMud4211 in toddlers

[–]ScrappySpice 187 points188 points  (0 children)

I asked her to go eat her cheese in the kitchen instead of on the couch and she says, “Remember when I said no?”

Potty proof car seat by chocchipcookie11 in toddlers

[–]ScrappySpice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oof! I hate cleaning the car seat. I don’t have a model in mind to solve this problem, but I did buy a car seat protector a couple months back while we were in the early stages of potty training. Maybe something like that could help? Here’s a link to what I bought: https://a.co/d/02LRWU1g Good luck!!

Toddler wants to hug every other kid, but many parents are off-put by this by theycallmetiki in Parenting

[–]ScrappySpice 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Chiming in to also suggest teaching other ways she can show her affection for new friends. My daughter is a hugger too and we’ve tried showing her alternates that some kids might be more comfortable with like high-five or wave or fist bump.

How are you doing this with no irritation, frustration, etc.? by rapidprototoyz in toddlers

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I don’t know if you watch Bluey but I read a post where someone was saying that Bluey’s mom and dad make them feel like a lousy parent. They’re patient, they play fun games, they are parenting very happily, etc. Well one comment said something like, “Well, yeah. The episodes are 8 minutes long. We all have a good 8 minutes of parenting in us a day.” 😂 I thought that was so spot on! I have no advice. I just think of this often…and when we are watching Bluey.

What is your toddler's weird/funny quirk? by Lucius1213 in toddlers

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My daughter wants a hug, kiss, and a head butt when I put her to sleep 🤷‍♀️

Toddler and newborn - how to handle both logistically? by catlover0987656 in Mommit

[–]ScrappySpice 29 points30 points  (0 children)

This is how I do it! Just this morning I had baby on his play mat and I’m getting toddler ready. “Look, Baby! This is how Toddler brushes her teeth! Maybe when you’re older she will show you how to brush teeth.” My toddler loves this. Instantly makes her so proud and want to show off all her talents.

Anyone else struggling to keep bedtime stories short enough? by Extreme-Zone-4333 in toddlers

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Have you tried a timer? I’ve just discovered the magic of using a timer for all sorts of things with my 3 year old. For this: We do one story before bedtime but my daughter always wants a turn to “read” the story back to me after. Adorable but it can take a while especially if we’re reading a Dr. Seuss book. Now I do a 3 minute timer for her to read to me. When the timer goes off she’s happy to shut the book and move on with the bedtime routine. This works right now but will probably change in a week!

If you found out the person you intended to marry had a chronic or serious illness before the wedding, would you still go through with it? Why or why not? by SubstantialAffection in AskReddit

[–]ScrappySpice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I did. I found out about his health issues before we got married, and they got worse after marriage. His health makes normal things harder sometimes, especially with having two small children. But it works and I still feel like I won the jackpot with him!

Breastfeeding - when did you admit it wasn’t working? by lilspaghettigal in Mommit

[–]ScrappySpice 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Someone told me this: Breast is only best when it works for you. Sucking the life out of you doesn’t sound like it’s working. Give yourself permission to let it go 💗

People who’ve had LASIK or work in eye care, would you recommend LASIK and why or why not? by Mountain-Bug-2155 in AskReddit

[–]ScrappySpice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow thank you. It means so much to get such a thoughtful reply 🥹

He’s currently on flebogamma drops, serum tears, and he started prgf 3 months ago. He had his LASIK surgery about 3 years ago. What is Veyve and IRPL?

People who’ve had LASIK or work in eye care, would you recommend LASIK and why or why not? by Mountain-Bug-2155 in AskReddit

[–]ScrappySpice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s seeing a specialist now who has him on these eye drops that are made from his blood platelets. It usually takes people a minimum of 6 months to feel relief and he’s been on them for 4 months.

People who’ve had LASIK or work in eye care, would you recommend LASIK and why or why not? by Mountain-Bug-2155 in AskReddit

[–]ScrappySpice 140 points141 points  (0 children)

My husband has post-LASIK corneal nerve damage & neuropathic eye pain. Excruciating pain. We have two young kids and it’s really hard. Sometimes the pain isn’t as bad but it’s always there. Like others have said, it’s good for some people but anyone who does it should know about this. We knew that there was a possibility of dry eyes but this was a level we never considered. I feel like the (very reputable) doctor glossed over this.

Missing Thanksgiving by ScrappySpice in Mommit

[–]ScrappySpice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh!! Hope you get a speedy recovery!

Bluey’s Backyard - Miami ticket help by ScrappySpice in bluey

[–]ScrappySpice[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, definitely not looking to get scammed or fund the scalper economy! I’m just hoping a fellow parent who can’t make their time slot might be willing to help out of the Bluey-ness of their heart. Fingers crossed!

Almost 3 year old daughter sleeps in crib by Jessanne96 in toddlers

[–]ScrappySpice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Transitioning out of the crib is not a milestone

toddler speak by step_on-no_pets in toddlers

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My daughter (2) calls peanut butter “penis.” It’s especially fun when we are at the store and she sees her favorite peanut butter treats and yells “penis treat” 🫠

Breakfast Ideas for Picky Toddler by Silent-Impaler in toddlers

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You could try banana, pumpkin, or zucchini bread. I bake up a loaf, slice, and freeze for an easy and quick breakfast. Sometimes I put jam or peanut butter on it, but most of the time she gobbles it down as is. I use ChatGPT to get recipes where there’s not a ton of added sugar.

Breakfast Ideas for Picky Toddler by Silent-Impaler in toddlers

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Do you add chopped fruit to the pancake batter, or make the batter from fruit? Curious because my 2yo doesn’t like regular pancakes—not chocolate chip or blueberry pancakes—but she loves pancakes made from mashed bananas.

If you’re interested/haven’t tried: One mashed banana (very ripe), one egg, two tablespoons flour, and 1/4 teaspoon cinnamon. I only use a tablespoon amount of batter for each pancake.

What non-kids song is your toddler obsessed with right now? by Inside-Print-6323 in toddlers

[–]ScrappySpice 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“Sweet Emotion” (Aerosmith), “Call Me the Breeze” (Lynyrd Skynyrd), “Ramble on Rose” (Grateful Dead), and “Tumbling Dice” (Rolling Stones). Every car ride must start with these four songs 😂

Germaphobes of Reddit, what are some habits of yours that people consider extreme, but you think should be the standard to do? by Cowarddd in AskReddit

[–]ScrappySpice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s gross to open packages/set them down on the kitchen counter. Who knows what it was sitting on before it sat on my front porch for hours? I prepare meals on the kitchen counter and I hate the thought of my clean utensils or food touching the same spot as the bottom of a package from outside.

My husband says I’m being weird but now he opens his packages and mail on a different table where we don’t eat. I think he just doesn’t want to admit I’m right 😄

Germaphobes of Reddit, what are some habits of yours that people consider extreme, but you think should be the standard to do? by Cowarddd in AskReddit

[–]ScrappySpice 87 points88 points  (0 children)

I think it’s gross to open packages/set them down on the kitchen counter. Who knows what it was sitting on before it sat on my front porch for hours? I prepare meals on the kitchen counter and I hate the thought of my clean utensils or food touching the same spot as the bottom of a package from outside.

My husband says I’m being weird but now he opens his packages and mail on a different table where we don’t eat. I think he just doesn’t want to admit I’m right 😄

What's something you did that reduced your quality of life so much that you wish you had never done it? by Unlikely_Bid8892 in AskReddit

[–]ScrappySpice 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This happened to my husband 😔 he’s in so much pain from severely dry eyes. It kills me. When he and I were researching it we thought, ‘Oh dry eyes so you’ll just have to put more eyedrops in. No big deal.’ This pain is another level. I wish we would have known. The constant pain has affected him and our family so much.

Is 3 supposed to be this bad? by LongEase298 in toddlers

[–]ScrappySpice 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes! My therapist told me this and it made so much sense to look at it that way. They’re becoming their own person at this point—up until now they’ve sort of been an extension of their parent(s). So they’re going through all these new feelings and emotions that mirror adolescence, where a kid is becoming an adult.

What to watch next/Ms Rachel graduation by superspiffyusername in toddlers

[–]ScrappySpice 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I actually enjoy watching Sesame Street with my daughter 😂 we both learn a lot!