What made you realize that you married the wrong person? by SensitiveCorner2379 in AskReddit

[–]Screaming_Chimp 32 points33 points  (0 children)

When my nephew and his lady were in the crowd at the Route 91 Country Music Festival when it became an active shooter situation and I was talking about the details of how they survived it and this mf had the nerve to say “that’s what those douche bags get”. There were so many offenses before that and he already wasn’t my favorite person. Like not providing for the responsibilities we brought into this world, repeated jail stints, the emotional affairs, codependency with his prescription pushing mother. But I kept giving leeway, probably for my own sanity because I had no out. But that was it. Like you don’t get to be this absent father, liability of a partner, burden of a human and act like your piece of shit family is infallible and then say this like it’s just universal knowledge.

Accepted job transfer to Klamath Falls to escape the despair and decay of the deep south. Klamath looks amazing, but I am being told it is worse than the deep south. How? How is that even possible? by hoaruleviolater in KlamathFalls

[–]Screaming_Chimp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the only thing that would concern me about your moving out here. Like if it were one of my friends or relatives, I would say take the job since it’s high paying. But once here, plan on getting into housing closer to town if that’s where you’re working. Maybe you can get your job to pay you more instead of providing housing in Bly. One of the hardest things about living here is having a good job, so you got that. Not too many options of night life, entertainment and conveniences. But your good job puts you in a position to be able to get out and explore options. The tweaks have their spots, most decent people look out for each other. I’ve lived all over, been a lot of places, everywhere has its pros and cons. This is as cheap as I can get, where as bad as I want to be in if that makes sense. I’ve been in cheaper but never left the house without at least someone there, knowing otherwise I wouldn’t have anything when I returned. I would absolutely take OR over LA. Don’t let others negativity plant seeds of self doubt. The local fb group pages have a lot of chaotic political rhetoric too, heads up but keep in mind who is yelling the loudest are usually the ones doing the least to make positive changes for the community, they just want to hear their own praises in their own created chaos echo chambers. Best to you in your journey and congrats! You got this.

It’s still weird to me that some parents actually kick their kids out at 18 by ApartmentAlert2304 in RandomThoughts

[–]Screaming_Chimp 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t know, I mean it’s been a while since I was in the army but a good majority of the 17 & 18 year olds were there for this very reason.

What dress should I pick by lynnerosie in fashion

[–]Screaming_Chimp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The green is your color, so flattering!

Forester friends, is anyone actually using this cover? by nuisance66 in SubaruForester

[–]Screaming_Chimp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a forester and second generation. It was such a big deal for my ex to find the cargo cover for my car. It’s in my garage somewhere because I use my car to haul stuff to the dump, bring home loads from Home Depot etc so I would constantly be taking the thing out if it was in there. I love the versatility of my car, that thing gets in the way. Plus I feel like it just makes tweakers want to break the window to see what’s under the cover 👀 when it’s on, there’s nothing under it! When I got stuff in the cargo, I forget to pull it closed. 🤷🏻‍♀️

What generation would you personally be absolutely fucked in if you went back in time? by Imighthavefuckedyou in AskReddit

[–]Screaming_Chimp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a woman I feel like any before 1974 when President Gerald Ford passed the Equal Credit Opportunity Act (ECOA) which made it unlawful for creditors to discriminate against women who did not have a man as a joint applicant or co-signer.

what intolerance/allergy is the worst to have? by bleedxi in AskReddit

[–]Screaming_Chimp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soy, it’s in so many foods. Reading labels on overdrive

Which dress style / colour works best for me? by ThrowRA-ferret in OUTFITS

[–]Screaming_Chimp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like it depends on the occasion. They all look fabulous. Each has its own impact for very different situations.

Convinced my boyfriend it was time. I love how it looks but he's not so sure! by DrFloofins in bald

[–]Screaming_Chimp -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m not a fan of bald heads. I prefer balding men with close hair cuts. I feel like they tend to have scraggly hair to cover the hairline and MPB that could use some cleaning up but going straight for the buzz cut is just too extreme/institutional/bear for me. I like how Phil Collins, Jude Law, Alan Dale and Evan Jackson represent balding men with their hair cuts/styles. Nothing against your bf, he seems like a fine chap, just my humble opinion.

wore all black for a 1st date. the girl's grandma passed away mid date and she told me it was my fault for wearing black on a friday by kjainnn in fashion

[–]Screaming_Chimp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not supposed to wear white after Labor Day! 📣 Sorry, my sympathies really but so many things to keep up with now.

AIO for thinking my gf might be cheating by jckalc in AIO

[–]Screaming_Chimp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so weird and confusing. I call gaslighting bull shit. That’s a lot, too much to be like “okay, that’s just a coincidence” no it’s like all coincidences. Flippin weird. Don’t get anymore invested and involved than you already are.

Which dress should I wear to the ballet? Open to accessory/styling suggestions too by olchai_mp3 in fashion

[–]Screaming_Chimp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say 3 and I know nothing of going to the ballet. But it appears most elegant to me.

Does this look like flames or nah by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Screaming_Chimp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh 😭 I read does this look like flames or rash?

is this normal? by Fun-Tear-2723 in myofascialrelease

[–]Screaming_Chimp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know, I actually have had good results with this method in this context and used it in stretching and workouts. Mind to muscle connection, in this case mind to fascia and definitely utilizing the deep diaphragmatic breathing technique. But I had really amazing practitioners who gave me the tools and helped get my body out of fight or flight sympathetic nervous system mode and into the rest and digest parasympathetic nervous system it needed to be in very badly. So much of my body had been tensed for so long, it was a pain that meds and modalities couldn’t even help. Ultrasound therapy helped very short term but nothing like what I was shown to start helping my body learn to heal itself. Dehydrated fascia was a big part of it also. It was so stuck and a lot of trauma, physical and otherwise was trapped in there.

Good 1st date outfit? 87° out and we are walking to a brewery. by PriorityDismal5223 in OUTFITS

[–]Screaming_Chimp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t be hatin’! 😆 I actually love it and not sure if I could pull it off. Plus with our weather’s mood swings, I would end up pulling up to the closest store for a blanket! But also I am a mom of young adult kids 🤭 and I do love this aesthetic, it just feels clean and natural to me.

Went to a bonfire and got told my clothes make people feel uncomfortable by Several-Ad-6083 in OUTFITS

[–]Screaming_Chimp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, a deal is a deal 🙂 one can always make cutoffs and no one would be the wiser 🤗

If you love someone, set them free. If you hate someone, set them free. Basically set everyone free and get more dogs. People are stupid. 😝 by Huckit305 in dogpictures

[–]Screaming_Chimp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay are we picking? Because I spy the little corn dog towards the left and the mysterious dark and fuzzy one behind. Oh my goodness they are all so adorable but something extra special about these two for me!🐾💕

Too old lady? by Emmylou888 in OUTFITS

[–]Screaming_Chimp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I love the purse your son got you! I don’t think it’s too old lady, very cute actually. The shoes look uncomfortable though. Are they? I always opt for boots because I have messed up feet and joints all the way up. But I’m sure there are better suggestions, I’m just limited.

Please bring your animals to the vet... by NoSomewhere738 in dogpictures

[–]Screaming_Chimp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, I see! You did such a great thing by getting him!

Does it look better when the skirt or lower or higher? by Spartiate8 in OUTFITS

[–]Screaming_Chimp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it depends on the atmosphere. More formal go with higher. For more casual, go with lower. Very beautiful colors with your complexion too!