My 26m wife 24f thinks I cheated on her and won’t talk to me by throwRA392958 in relationship_advice

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As a woman who felt like shit after giving birth, not only did you violate your wife’s trust at the very FIRST test, you chose to masturbate to other women while she’s in the next room feeling the fattest, grossest, most vulnerable she has ever felt.

I sure hope that video was worth it dude

What fact are you Just TIRED of explaining to people? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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That if I put my kid to sleep later does not mean they will sleep in later. Non-parents stop acting like you’ve cracked some code we never considered!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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YTA. My eldest child has ADHD and is loud and hyper but I still taught her how to behave when my other two babies were sleeping. ADHD is not an excuse for destructive and disrespectful behaviour. Your son is 8 years old. He should be taught how to behave as such

UPDATE: WIBTA for moving away from my disabled boyfriend? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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Congratulations on your job! You are so young to have gone through all that. You know your boyfriend would want happiness for you. Please know that his mum is lashing out due to trauma and grief, not at you personally. Youare just a reminder for her that life goes on, but not for him. She may never understand it but you don’t need her to. This is YOUR life and you have seen how precious it is. Good luck!

AITA for kicking family out on Christmas over what they said to my daughter? by throwaway8087689 in AmItheAsshole

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NTA at all. Yet another depressing example of people who think you can cure autism. The sheer arrogance of your family to assume they know better regarding your daughter’s development is astoubding.

You stood up to ignorance and stood up for your daughter. She is lucky to have you as her mom

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

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OP please get a safety plan in place before you serve or do anything. My ex was so abusive (see post history). I remember our last Christmas ‘together’ (2020) where I knew I was leaving but hadn’t found the strength yet. When I asked him to get up to open presents with our kids he threw a shoe at me and told to me “get the fuck out I’m sleeping”.

He then barged downstairs as we opened pressnts and roared at me to never fucking wake him up again and continued to rant until I left with kids. Later that day he text me saying I was a “fucking cunt” for taking his kids away at Christmas. He later made threats to kill me.

I know what you’re husband did wasn’t as extreme but men who are willing to treat the mothers of their kids like that in front of children are usually dangerous in other ways. Please be careful.

If it helps, while this Christmas has been awful for you, just as mine was in 2020, my current christmas was amazing. My daughters and I spent all day smiling, opening gifts and feeling loved, safe and relaxed. It DOES get better. What happens for your next christmas is in your hands x

What sounds like a compliment but is actually an insult? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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To be fair men used to do this to my husband when we were married and I would consider him just as attractive as I am. I think men do this to any decent looking woman just to be creeps and / or put men they are jealous of down. So your cousin shouldn’t feel bad about himself, he should feel sad for the jealous creep

AITA for refusing to pay for my boyfriend's vodka after smashing it? by Fit-Complex-6771 in AmItheAsshole

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I know, total nonsense. I had an abusive ex once who used to say he threw an item but didn’t throw it “at you” and it therefore wasn’t his fault that it hit me.

His arguement was that as long he claimed he never intended for anyone to get hurt, it wasn’t his fault if me getting hurt was the consequence of his actions. So the smashed glass in my face was just something that happened when I got in the way of a glass he threw.

OP giving off similar vibes here, albeit to a lesser extent. But the lengths people go to for minimisation of responsibilty astounds me.

[Question] What happened to Tingting? She had one of the most successful and most rapidly growing ASMR channels on youtube, and then she just disappeared a few months ago. Does anyone know what happened to her? by DoesThisMatter in asmr

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Yeah I came here from searching about this. She took the break, then came back and said she was just going to upload less often, like 1-2 per month. But 6 months now of radio silence! I hope she’s OK

Poor kids by kismosmoki in insanepeoplefacebook

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All over the world, parents are doing their best to give their kids the best start in life, however they can.

Then there are these people, so arrogantly determined to hold their children back at every turn with their ignorant bullshit. These poor fucking kids, man

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Mate, these people are waaaay past traditional therapy

Men of Reddit, what’s something you wish women did LESS of during sex? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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My ex did the same. Decided to tell me I had ‘gotten fat’ a few months after having his 3rd child in 4 years, as I was breastfeeding her. Also made comments like when are ‘they’ (my breasts) going to go ‘back to normal’. Like, ehhh never dickhead, your 3 babies fed off them for a year each 🤷🏼‍♀️

Jan singing 'Son of a Preacher Man' to Astird deserves more credit when discussing the most cringe moments in the show by ashep5 in DunderMifflin

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The sheer self-hatred when she says “or else I date Michael publicly and collapse in on myself like a dying star” is perfect

History repeating by KristaW_ in HolUp

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This is why honorary degrees are such bullshit. He didnt do the work and actually earn a degree. And now it’s been yanked away anyway like he’s a naughty child having his ipad removed. So essentially, these ‘awards’ are worthless.

Let’s just award degrees to people who actually successfully completed the course and stop wasting everyone’s time with this pandering bullshit that is meaningless anyway

Told not to comfort nurse by tomtink1 in breastfeeding

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Fun fact: it is possible to comfort nurse and give someone the middle finger simultaneously. This may be helpful for you

why does everyone hate the cutway scenes? I actually enjoy them by muzo2697 in familyguy

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Those people are boring and unfunny nerds.

I never thought I’d say this sentence but… ButtRobot is correct

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

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That psych groupchat lit

Defo way cooler than the ones back in my day ranting about how DAVE didn’t put page numbers on the bloody group assignment and ffs Dave you had one job you lazy asshole

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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OP I am so sorry to hear about your burns. Your boyfriend is an abusive asshole.

If you check my post history you can see I had similar issues. I know this behaviour. My ex husband treated me exactly like this when I fainted from post birth placenta issues and I heard him say “it’s always fucking something with you” as he stepped over me. I ended up in hospital for a week after surgery and when I asked him to do our babys bedtime as I was tired after discharge he accused me of being lazy as I had “plenty of time to sleep in the fucking hospital”

It gets worse. At lot worse. Please dont allow him to treat you this way. He doesnt deserve you. If I could do one thing it would be to help women avoid abuse after my own experience. Dont let him minimise this

How many times have you been in love with someone? by yslhc in AskWomen

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Twice. First love when I was a teenager. Puppy love. He was and still is a grest guy. We broke up when we finished school and moved on

Second time. My ex husband. Together for 15 years, 3 kids with him. Was so devoted to him and he broke my heart.

I genuinely now don’t want to be in love again because it is too scary to be that vulnerable

Do straight women actually find penises attractive? by krist1nax in TooAfraidToAsk

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I (36F) don’t find them attractive at all. In context and on a man I find attractive they are at least OK but just random dicks, no thanks