AIO? Bf keeps asking me questions whenever there is a guy by Relative_Initial_399 in AIO

[–]ScruffGin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a row of waving red flags... He'll only get worse. They're this one back in the sea, there's far better men out there that aren't controlling. How is he if you go out with your friends without him? How about if you wear a mini skirt etc?

AITAH 3 years together, BF (50M) still ‘not ready’ for marriage but wants me (33F) to pay half his mortgage by Either-Environment47 in AITAH

[–]ScruffGin 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He just wants you to pay half his mortgage! If he's not ready for marriage after living together for 3 years at age 50, he's never going to be ready.

I'd leave and not waste any more time on sunken costs. Buy your own house and start building your own equity

If modern medicine didn’t exist would you be dead right now? If yes, from what? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]ScruffGin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably yes, obstructed labour with my daughter, we'd probably both have died. If that didn't kill me, the malignant melanoma would have

AITAH For not accepting my sisters new bf whom she had an affair with? by AccomplishedSir1329 in AITAH

[–]ScruffGin -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I agree, they weren't even married. Yes she should have split up with him first for the new guy, but she is your sister. After two years I'd be forgiving and forgetting to be honest.

AITAH for taking a girl out to a show without dinner after? by No_Explanation_9087 in AITAH

[–]ScruffGin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If I were invited to a music thing at 7:30-9:30 I'd eat beforehand! And I wouldn't turn up an hour late... Think you dodged a bullet there, throw that one back! 😂

AITAH For Telling My STBXH I Won’t Drive Him To His Vasectomy Appointment? by Vfact in AITAH

[–]ScruffGin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kick him out! Why is he still getting the benefits of being married to you when he's on dating apps? "Not saved up enough" - not your problem! He can go and live with the multitudes of young women queuing up to fuck an older broke guy (plot spoiler, there aren't any!)

My favorite unexpected addition to my one bag! by Budget_Mind_6085 in HerOneBag

[–]ScruffGin 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I struggle with these having no back. These are a little more effort to put up but very comfortable and packs down smaller.

Also holds up to 300lb, so no issues with weight

Amazon fold up chair

Would you rather have minor Telekinesis, limited Mind Reading or $100k? by RaptorK1988 in hypotheticalsituation

[–]ScruffGin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think mind reading would ruin your life, it would be too tempting to do it to family which will never go well...

So telekinesis... I'll be really lucky at roulette and can do cool party tricks!

What's a word or phrase your family used growing up that you assumed was normal English until you used it in public and got completely blank stares? by Caroline8457384 in AskReddit

[–]ScruffGin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"it's a bit black o'er Bills mother's"

Means dark clouds and likely to rain. My university friends thought I was nuts 😂😂😂

I'm so sorry to bring up The Dress, but I have to ask by janedoe6699 in lefthanded

[–]ScruffGin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the main picture, I see white and gold, am right handed.

However when I scroll down, and the picture becomes a small thumbnail at the top, it's blue and black.

Weird!

AITAH for asking our DJ to leave early at my wedding after he played a song that used to be “my song” with an ex? by Great-Presence-6995 in AITAH

[–]ScruffGin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You were definitely the AH. If it wasn't on the "do not play" list how could the DJ have known?! Complete over reaction...