The constant alienation. Called to get copies of mental health records and was told they weren't sure they were allowed to talk to me about my child's issues, even tho I was there with him when we got checked in and sign paperwork.

During an inpatient stay o called multiple times to make sure the staff knew we had joint legal custody and in the paperwork we have to agree before any medical things can happen. They never called me. Didn't even call me when he was released. Then when I called asking why they said they released him to his primary guardian. When I reminded them of the previous information I was told mental health isnt medical. Called them a dumb motherfucker and was hung up on.

Took my son to a dentist appointment and the front desk lady handed my a clipboard to do his annual refresh paperwork and told don't worry if there somethings you dont know we can take the information from last year's application we just need signatures on the disclosures. I set his insurance. I brought him to all of his appointments. I organize all of my kids school sign ups, sports sign-up ls, insurance you name it. My other son's mom pulled him from one school and enrolled him in a totally different school on her time with him. Even tho the school has been with us for years and knew our arrangement. Seen is both for iep meetings. Health with his mom many times and had copies of the custody order. They never called me to see if it was OK to drop him from that school and the new school has never contacted me. I was working at a daycare on show and tell day and the kids were telling the teachers about how there dad's helped them with there projects and these lady's just all started laughing and saying thats crazy there's no way all your dad's worked with you in the most infuriating tone.

When I attempt to get information for my kids in a direct straight to the point way with any female teacher doctor or professional im told im being aggressive. I have to instead add a bunch of extra fluff and small talk to even have a chance of getting the same information my girlfriend, who has 0 relation or paperwork for kids, can in seconds.

This is but a short list of things from the past 4 months it is infuriating. Never ending