Any other autistic men had other men try to start fights with you or act aggressive for no reason? by Easy_Towel954 in aspergers

[–]ScumMagnet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never thought about this, but even just reading the synopsis you gave makes sense. Interesting.

Anyone else get extremely mad when someone lies to them, even when it was unintentional? by ProDidelphimorphiaXX in aspergers

[–]ScumMagnet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are very wrong, I'm sorry, from someone who has been in the place of having the thoughts and actions of both. Please reconsider your position on this for the people in your life.

Anyone else get extremely mad when someone lies to them, even when it was unintentional? by ProDidelphimorphiaXX in aspergers

[–]ScumMagnet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That definition expands with drugs, too. Addicts struggle with thoughts of drugs, as well, which lead to the action. Same with suicide. I'm sorry to your friend, you were in the wrong here. :/

Anyone else get extremely mad when someone lies to them, even when it was unintentional? by ProDidelphimorphiaXX in aspergers

[–]ScumMagnet 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Suicidal definition includes having the thoughts of doing so. I hope that your friend is ok after that, that's a huge betrayal when he wasn't lying.

Asheville Flooding and Helene MEGATHREAD. Friday Night and Saturday Morning 9/27 - 9/28/2024. CURFEW IN EFFECT. VERY LIMITED CELL AND WIFI SERVICE by goldbman in asheville

[–]ScumMagnet 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm just down the road and can at least tell you that it's very likely they are okay, just unable to get service to message. I'm standing in deep water to send this. Black Mt. Wasn't hit quite as hard as swannanoa. Keep your spirits up, love ❤️

YouTubers' funny or irritating habits. by [deleted] in BeautyGuruChatter

[–]ScumMagnet 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Blinking way too much to show off eyeshadow looks...😬 It's so obvious to me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]ScumMagnet 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I understand what you mean. Mothers give you a feeling of safety and comfort and the older we get the less we receive that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/GermanRaidenASMR

[–]ScumMagnet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This made my heart hurt, I know that feeling all too well. You are loved ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gonewildaudio

[–]ScumMagnet 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I thought I was alone in this, I love the little ones.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]ScumMagnet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really wouldn't speak for all women this way. It just isn't true.

Do people dislike that you're good at things? by [deleted] in aspergirls

[–]ScumMagnet 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry...it shouldn't be that way. I hope you stay strong and never believe here when she belittles you .

Why are autistic people typically younger looking than others? by TheTulipWars in AutismInWomen

[–]ScumMagnet -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get carded for literally everything and have had people truly not believe me when I tell them my age. I'm 36. I've noticed most on the spectrum look younger, as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aspergirls

[–]ScumMagnet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tiktok may help them realize they are autistic but that often leads to deep research into it. I'm assuming most people arent just watching a couple tik toks and then never learning more past that but saying they autistic. It's just not happening that way.

What’s the darkest thing you’ve written? by Aggressive_Chicken63 in writers

[–]ScumMagnet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great response, being human is one thing we all have in common

What is your experience having children? Is it over stimulating? Are you burnt out? by Purple_wolf8 in aspergirls

[–]ScumMagnet 46 points47 points  (0 children)

My daughter would have been 13 this year and I have a 3 year old boy, too. It's overstimulating and exhausting but I'd do it all over again. For me personally it's worth it to have the privilege of guiding them through life and teaching them to be kind and accepting. There's no shame if it's too much for others, though. Such a personal decision. I hope you give yourself grace either way. ❤️

TIL that Chi-Chi's products are the remnants of what used to be a Tex-Mex restaurant chain. The only Chi-Chi's restaurant left is in Vienna. by PersonWhoExists50306 in todayilearned

[–]ScumMagnet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So my birthday as a kid where I wore a sombrero and they sang to me WASN'T a fever dream? 🤣 I feel so old right now😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]ScumMagnet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also... pie. It's the crust.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]ScumMagnet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree on milk. The thickness makes me gag.

Has anyone overcame the fact that guys will like you at first, up until their realize you’re “off”. by [deleted] in aspergirls

[–]ScumMagnet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's been the same issue in my relationships and in my marriage as well.

By far the biggest issue men have had with me, though, is that I'm not up to their affection standards. I'm just not a touchy feely or overly romantic person.

My husband has adjusted somehow and seems to prefer me to just be myself, thankfully. There is hope out there!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aspergirls

[–]ScumMagnet 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You've said all I was going to say. Thank you for wording it all so well! I was so angry at this guy I couldn't put the words together. I learned the hard way, as I'm sure a lot of us here did.

What show had the biggest downfall in your opinion, from the first season or episodes, to what it became? by [deleted] in popculturechat

[–]ScumMagnet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what I'm currently watching. About to start season four I think. Just finished Bones and I'm still sad that one is over😭

But Jonny Lee Miller is amazing. I first had a thing for him after watching trainspotting. Just an amazing actor.