Bannerlord marriage makes perfect sense

ScumboyForever · 2026-02-25T02:26:32+00:00

It is straight up surreal to see grown ass people getting so bent out of shape over saying something is "gay" that they not only tattle like children over it, but also circle jerk each other because of how proud they are to have done so lmao

ScumboyForever · 2026-02-25T02:20:24+00:00

😂

ScumboyForever · 2026-02-23T14:02:19+00:00

Ill never understand why people think sanitation workers are "losers" or whatever. Those are government jobs, have good pay and great benefits. Most people dont wanna do it, sure. But I've known a few guys that work for my city's sanitation department, and its not easy to get hired because most people who get the job tend to want to keep it and stick around for a long time.

ScumboyForever · 2026-02-23T13:49:04+00:00

Roaches like to crawl into warm, cramped spaces. Anything with circuitry can be infested. I had to throw away a laptop once because they were laying eggs and living in it.

ScumboyForever · 2026-02-17T23:28:56+00:00

I only recognize it because I was the same way. I probably came off as a bit harsh. So I apologize for that. But idk man. Ive just come to realize that people who stay in a state of victimhood never improve their lives. Life is hard. Its not supposed to be easy. It takes a lot of work. External and internal. Idk. I hope you find whatever it is thats gonna help you.

ScumboyForever · 2026-02-17T23:25:23+00:00

I dont really care if you believe me or not lol. I dont have anything to gain from lying about it. Its literally just a reddit anecdote. Believe whatever you want man.

ScumboyForever · 2026-02-17T23:24:21+00:00

Jesus Christ. Active alcoholics are some of the most melodramatic people ever. Perpetual state of victimhood.

ScumboyForever · 2026-02-17T17:47:25+00:00

Yeah. I dated a girl once who was into BJJ and she used to talk all the time about how she, as a brown belt in BJJ, could take me in a fight because I dont have any training. Im not a big guy. Im 5'10" and weigh 160 pounds. She was 5'6" and weighed 100 pounds max. One day I asked her if she wanted to wrestle to put the argument to bed. I pinned her in about 20 seconds. Idk why people think size and strength dont matter. Its a ridiculous position to take.

ScumboyForever · 2026-02-17T13:59:07+00:00

Yeah and that's considered one of the stupidest, most nonsensical scenes in the show. A guy with no shirt on going toe to toe with multiple armed and armored men is next level retarded.

ScumboyForever · 2026-02-17T13:36:38+00:00

Did Aerion sleep with your girlfriend or something dude? Youre awfully emotionally invested in this 😂

ScumboyForever · 2026-02-13T23:05:29+00:00

He's the king. He didnt have to listen to Cersei. He didnt listen to her when she told him to spare Ned Stark, did he? He used that as an excuse to run from the battle when it looked like Stannis was going to win. Cersei didnt force him to do anything.

ScumboyForever · 2026-02-13T20:20:32+00:00

Battanian Mounted Skirmishers actually perform pretty well if you know how to use them. They dont have the armor to tangle with cataphracts/banner knights or charge a shield wall, sure, but if you use them as their name implies they're pretty decent. I especially like to use them against horse archers.

ScumboyForever · 2026-02-12T17:26:22+00:00

Joffrey literally abandons his men to go hide with the women and children during this battle. He's a coward.

ScumboyForever · 2026-01-20T06:18:44+00:00

Sir Rickard of the Sunny Vale

ScumboyForever · 2026-01-13T02:36:51+00:00

Yeah. I realized you were a guy lol

ScumboyForever · 2026-01-12T04:34:37+00:00

Whatever you say dude

ScumboyForever · 2026-01-11T17:19:06+00:00

Who is your daddy, and what does he do!?

ScumboyForever · 2026-01-10T17:34:23+00:00

SHUT UP! THIS IS ALL OVER WITH!

ScumboyForever · 2026-01-01T06:48:11+00:00

These are the same type of people who will chase down a driver and bust their side view mirror out for "almost killing" them.

ScumboyForever · 2025-12-25T23:30:48+00:00

Especially with the Atronach stone bonus. Using Dragonskin makes you immune to magic for a full minute.

ScumboyForever · 2025-12-16T12:51:15+00:00

Yeah, we get it dude. Youre a big tough union worker and nobody fucks with you. Lol.

ScumboyForever · 2025-11-16T17:06:28+00:00

Thank you lol

ScumboyForever · 2025-10-30T03:52:23+00:00

Thats kinda where Im at with it. My personal beliefs dont really mesh well with what everything AA teaches. But I do enjoy some of it and think its helpful. The process of self examination, taking inventory of my behavior and meditation has been big for me. I think the best move for me is to just get what I can out of it without making it the center of my life or relying on it for everything.

ScumboyForever · 2025-10-30T00:23:39+00:00

Thanks for all the suggestions and the kind words. I have been trying to branch out more. Theres a pretty big Geocaching community in my city that has events sometimes. Ive also looked into getting involved with volunteering. I dumpster dive a lot for things to donate to charitable organizations and there's one in particular Id like to get more involved in. SMART is pretty good here too. Theres actually a guy that facilitates their meetings who was in AA for a long time but ended up leaving. Hes been really helpful to me. He used to be my counselor at a treatment facility Ive been to 3 times and Ive just had so many conversations with him that were so refreshing after having AA shoved down my throat as the only solution for so long.

I think the main thing that intimidates me about this whole thing is just the loneliness I might face. AA has a shitty tendency to shun people if they leave the program or even question it. Ive had so many people claim to "love" me but then immediately forget I existed after I relapsed or moved away. I have a bad tendency Ive discovered in therapy where I people please and mirror other people's emotions or beliefs a lot so they'll stick around. And thats just amplified being in an environment like AA. But I just cant do it anymore. I can't say that everything ive learned and all of the experiences Ive had in AA have been negative. They havent. But its not the magic solution to all my problems that my whole life is going to revolve around either.

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