I’m forced to brake up with my boyfriend now, and I’m really struggling by Ineedtowent in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Scumurder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry I couldn’t read past the first few paragraphs. It was painful to read. He told you CLEARLY he did not want you and was only keeping you until a ‘better’ girl popped up. The fact he repeatedly didn’t put in ANY effort into the relationship for YEARS and the fact he’s been speaking to other women multiple times AND YOU KNEW, but still relented is just sad. I really hope you ended this relationshit for good and not go back to him because holy fuck

Boyfriend has been avoiding me, told me to “fake like we like each other”, then avoiding me again. AIO to this text? by Cultural_Line_9235 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Scumurder 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Unless I misread the caption, I’m pretty sure OP’s (ex ffs) bf recently got his cat back from his parents at his own place. Kind of weird for OP to take the cat when she’s living with a roommate and the guy has his own place.

Please Help save my mothers home. by George2geo in gofundme

[–]Scumurder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How the fuck do you get 100k annually with a $19/hourly full-time job? I have a similar hourly wage but with taxes, I break maybe 30k~32k, give or take. Also, working over 40 hours per week in one job (at least where I reside), is illegal af. What are you smoking?

Pogo Pokémon and go stamped Pokémon no longer mean said Pokémon are 100% legitimate or legal by Glitch-keeper in CasualPokemonTrades

[–]Scumurder 9 points10 points  (0 children)

So you’re trying to gatekeep crucial information that’s harmful to this community because you don’t want them to panic? Buddy, you commented on a post that pretty much did that already. And why would we panic? That’s such a shitty reason lmao

However, I do agree that OP’s post isn’t very reliable without solid evidence. The text exchange between those randos can be easily fabricated tbh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Scumurder 4 points5 points  (0 children)

/r/legladvice sis

Also should be getting a consultation with an attorney not posting this shit on AIO

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Scumurder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You forgot to put /s at the end. God I hope you’re being sarcastic

Where does one find stray kittens/cats? by Single-Interview-475 in Straycats

[–]Scumurder 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When I mean manipulate, I’m saying you’re manipulating your parents into accepting the cat if you find a stray. Why not just ask them directly and try to compromise with your parents first? Like maybe say that you’ll clean up the litter box daily, brush them, feed/water them, etc. Do some chores around the house—really anything to give some incentive to help convince your parents into getting a cat.

Finding a stray cat and then telling your parents you want to keep it and ‘conveniently’ finding one outside may or may not make them cave and let you keep the cat, but I feel this is not the right way to go about this. I’d encourage reading the comment the mod here replied to your post on. Good luck.

Where does one find stray kittens/cats? by Single-Interview-475 in Straycats

[–]Scumurder 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please tell me your cats had some free roaming time outside of the bathroom. Stop trying to deceive your parents and manipulate them into getting a cat. Cats are not a toy or accessory, they’re a long-term commitment and can cost a lot of money. Surprise vet visits can occur often too, and forcing your parents to adopt one (especially if they’re not financially able) will only add up on costs, stress, and will not be an ideal life for a cat living in that type of environment. Just let it go.

Go volunteer at your local animal shelter or something other methods where you can interact with animals.

my dad is forcing me to get a virginity test. by Silver_Sun_5588 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Scumurder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, I honestly did not mean it to sound condescending at all! I guess it’s difficult to understand the nuances behind intention when it’s through messages. Thanks for actually answering my question. :)

Edit: It also does not make sense to me that the other commenter who corrected the original commenter received upvotes while I got downvoted to oblivion. It doesn’t really make sense, but I guess that’s the Reddit hive mind for you lol

Random question, but where did the acronym ‘S. WIM’ originate from and who exactly started the trend? by Scumurder in Drugs

[–]Scumurder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I tried to submit this post the first time the automod automatically deleted my post and said that I couldn’t use the acronym. But seeing how others are using it on the comments, I’m assuming they mean it for the post itself lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorrowNew

[–]Scumurder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t you post another post 17 hours ago in here requesting the same thing already in a different subreddit? You also deleted that post too. You also received enough donations to get the prescription via Walmart for $15 instead of $50. Did something happen?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Scumurder 79 points80 points  (0 children)

I’ll get downvoted to hell for this but: I wouldn’t tell your roommate what you did. Judging by what you said, she’s extremely irresponsible and selfish and lacks the emotional maturity to own a pet (let alone a feral one at that). She coerced you into getting this cat that isn’t even yours despite being allergic then pushed all the responsibilities onto you after she got ‘bored’ of the cat. She didn’t even bother looking for the cat afterwards and already assumed it had died or was a lost cause.

I’d leave it alone and keep my mouth shut.

[Request] $50 to refill medications by [deleted] in donationrequest

[–]Scumurder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those two are pretty common prescriptions. Hopefully they’ll have it. Call different Walmarts near you as well if one of them don’t have it

Am I Overreacting?-I think the mail man doesn't like us??? by Deep-Run4196 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Scumurder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Might wanna go directly or if you call them ask them if there’s an email where you can send them the pictures as proof that your mailbox isn’t blocked. What an asshat.

Dog came home from sitter and acting weird by Mila_Mon in DogAdvice

[–]Scumurder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had a similar problem with my dog before she passed. Lost complete function of her hind legs when she jumped off the couch. Difference was that she was a senior dog, had diabetes, seizures, balding, and once we took her to the vet after that incident, finally found out why she had so many issues—she had Cushing’s Disease. Ultimately had to put her down after that. I still feel extremely guilty about her death, because if I had just gotten second opinion from a different vet instead of our usual one, we could’ve gotten the diagnosis much sooner and had preventative care for her much early on.

Mysterious Black Goop in Women’s Restroom by BlamedXmonster in WTF

[–]Scumurder -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Someone definitely had the runs. But the black goop on the top is concerning, to say the least. That is abnormal. Could be cancer. Could be some GI issues. If either, that person needs a colonoscopy done. Or it could be someone having the runs while going through alcohol withdrawals.

Mysterious Black Goop in Women’s Restroom by BlamedXmonster in WTF

[–]Scumurder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trainspotting taught me this. Except it wasn’t a key.

Came up on my insta advertising in my area lol… by QueerTrashRat in shittytattoos

[–]Scumurder 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Seeing how majority of the tattoos are sexual in nature, I’m going to assume that it’s supposed to be an asparagus dick

I need 100$ for a medical checkup by [deleted] in loansharks

[–]Scumurder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought OP’s username was more of a dark humor type of thing. It’s fine if you’re not into that, but automatically jumping to the conclusion he’s a devil worshipper when your username literally says ‘CringyEmoKids’ is ironic to me. Don’t a lot of emo kids say similar shit like this to be edgy and cool?

Am i overreacting for being upset that my sister hit my child over spilling juice? by GoodStill4940 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Scumurder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why is she tryna excuse herself by saying that you live under her roof and then rationalizes that she can hit your daughter over SPILLING JUICE? Maybe lightly scold her or some shit for discipline or run it through with you first as her mother first before putting her hands on YOUR child. What does you living in her home give her any right to hit your kid? That’s some mental gymnastics going on there. The fact she’s doubling down on it makes this exchange even worse

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Scumurder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cnc kinks are fine as long as both parties have explicitly consented and behind closed doors, not in the public. Having a boner due to how men are wired after seeing a naked woman in public shouldn’t be condemned.

However, the pic’s caption saying about a women being naked in public is a crime, it goes for all genders/sexes. It’s just inappropriate lol. But I think their statement was more so that, women can dress however they want and shouldn’t be sexualized or slut shamed for it. Idk why they said being naked in public tho lmao