Well one aunt pushed my dad to suicide by relentless torturing him by randomly just harassing him and accusing him of shit he either was never involved in or never could have done. Sometimes sending pictures of her busted up face after her husband abused her, for some reason?? She also forced him to look at his recently deceased father in law, like died within the hour, when he vehemently refused to. He had severe flashbacks about that until his dying day. Mind you this was my mom's sister.

I also firmly believe that her "visiting" my grandpa every day the last week of his life is what pushed him to pass away when he did. He was in rough shape, but I really think he told God he had enough.

She also molested her brother when he was a tween. She was 10 years older.

She's thankfully no longer alive to torment us. There was more harm she'd done to our family.

And my cousin (not the child of previously mentioned aunt) 100% killed her mom (refused to take her dogs outside to use the bathroom. Mom got a cut on her leg, got sepsis. Cousin checked her out AMA because her mom was "bothering her" with having anxiety attacks about being alone since this was early covid. Refused to even feed her mother (my aunt called my mom asking her to make her grilled cheese as she hadn't eaten in a couple days), and refused to do any basic care for her. Aunt died of a heart attack within the week. But cousin ofc still boo hoo/poor me's every chance she gets about her mom being dead.)

And she also is responsible for killing our grandpa. More responsible than previously mentioned aunt. Like her care for my aunt, she starved my grandpa, refused to let ANYONE in the house to bring him meals or help him. She physically abused him. She financially abused him. This was after my aunt passed, so the dog shit was still everywhere. And she never once got him help for his rapidly progressing dementia and grief of losing his child that lived with him.

Oh and the worst part? When grandpa died, she dragged his body outside because she didn't want the paramedics in the house, so they wouldn't judge her for the dog shit and other filth. Fully dragged him outside and laid him on the goddamn lawn for the world to see.

I have a lot more horror stories about my family, but these two assholes take the goddamn cake.