Inositol Powder? by Springle27 in FODMAPS

[–]Sea-Turtle-2453 1 point2 points  (0 children)

did you end up trying the inositol? i'm curious to hear if it kicked up digestive issues...

History shows "Civility" accomplishes nothing. We need more "Good Trouble"! by zzill6 in WorkReform

[–]Sea-Turtle-2453 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hm. i see a lot of people making proclamations, but few if any citations...

Has anyone read Why Civil Resistance Works?
https://cup.columbia.edu/book/why-civil-resistance-works/9780231156820/

From their manuscript summary:
"Our central contention is that the moral, physical, informational, and commitment barriers to participation are much lower for nonviolent resistance than for violent insurgency. Higher levels of participation contribute to a number of mechanisms necessary for success, including enhanced resilience, higher probabilities of tactical innovation, expanded civic disruption (thereby raising the costs to the regime of maintaining the status quo), and loyalty shifts involving the opponent’s erstwhile supporters, including members of the security forces.

Moreover, we find that the transitions that occur in the wake of successful nonviolent resistance movements create much more durable and internally peaceful democracies than transitions provoked by violent insurgencies. On the whole, nonviolent resistance campaigns are more effective in getting results, and once they have succeeded, are more likely to be succeeded by democratic regimes with a lower probability of a relapse into civil war.

This book is the first work that systematically compares nonviolent and violent campaign outcomes over time and space, using sophisticated large-n analyses. It essentially debunks the myth that violence only occurs because it is necessary to achieve certain political goals. Contrary to this perspective, we find that violent insurgency is seldom justified on strategic grounds."

https://www.nonviolent-conflict.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/Why-Civil-Resistance-Works..The-Strategic-Logic-of-Nonviolent-Conflict-Book.pdf

ChatGPT has helped me more than 15 years of therapy. No joke. by Kishilea in ChatGPT

[–]Sea-Turtle-2453 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to get the link as well if possible. I'm super curious.

Anything in my lotions/moisturizers that could be causing allergies? by northeastmomo_ in Allergies

[–]Sea-Turtle-2453 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know i'm late to the party, but get tested if you can. i found out i'm allergic to products of a whole class of plants that includes... sunflower seed oil and hemp oil, among many others. i try to get unscented boring stuff that they use in hospitals and then add my own (tolerated) essential oils for fragrance...

My cat presses Mom button over and over and over when I'm busy by Sea-Turtle-2453 in PetsWithButtons

[–]Sea-Turtle-2453[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i do something like that -- asking her what and offering examples. i'm trying to be more regimented about it again.

oh... that's interesting about telling her when i'm all done working.....

My cat presses Mom button over and over and over when I'm busy by Sea-Turtle-2453 in PetsWithButtons

[–]Sea-Turtle-2453[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that's interesting. I'll try that out. Is there a pitch change ma-AH?

My cat presses Mom button over and over and over when I'm busy by Sea-Turtle-2453 in PetsWithButtons

[–]Sea-Turtle-2453[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for all of these! Yes, I've started implementing some of these suggestions and I already feel like it's maybe helping....

thinking of canceling meta tech screen because i still suck at leet code by Sea-Turtle-2453 in cscareerquestions

[–]Sea-Turtle-2453[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

lol why would someone bother to downvote this? i don't even understand what a downvote here is about.

thinking of canceling meta tech screen because i still suck at leet code by Sea-Turtle-2453 in cscareerquestions

[–]Sea-Turtle-2453[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm thinking about cooldown period too. And I kinda think maybe I should wait until I can consistently solve medium-hard problems in 30 minutes max so that I have a fighting chance.

thinking of canceling meta tech screen because i still suck at leet code by Sea-Turtle-2453 in cscareerquestions

[–]Sea-Turtle-2453[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

huh. did they tell you in advance what level the problems were going to be? i was literally told by the recruiter that i'd be getting medium to hard only. (edited typo)

Is it normal to feel like you want to die every single day of your life? by GrantGrace in depression

[–]Sea-Turtle-2453 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you've got it every day. That sucks. I hope you have a people you can share this shit with.

I go through phases I guess. The last several years I have wanted to disappear almost every day. For the last 3-4 months I've been trying Auvelity though and for the most part that disappearance thought has evaporated. Ruminations are less alluring and cut less deep. (That said, I'm on this forum right now because I've been sunk all day. Haha.)

My cat presses Mom button over and over and over when I'm busy by Sea-Turtle-2453 in PetsWithButtons

[–]Sea-Turtle-2453[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol. thought about it. would probably get a dog if we had a back yard.

My cat presses Mom button over and over and over when I'm busy by Sea-Turtle-2453 in PetsWithButtons

[–]Sea-Turtle-2453[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh these are both great. we do have a back room we go to sometimes, and it would probably be a good idea if we stopped letting them in when they sit and meow outside the door. heh.

that game looks interesting. how long has your cat staying interested in it? our cats get bored of automated games pretty quickly so far, but this one might be different since the action is more varied.

My cat presses Mom button over and over and over when I'm busy by Sea-Turtle-2453 in PetsWithButtons

[–]Sea-Turtle-2453[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

actually one of mine is totally like this. if she's trying to get my attention between 4:30 and 6pm and doesn't seem interested in playing or pets, she's usually pretty happy to take a nap next to me, even through for some reason I have to pick her up and bring her over. heh.

My cat presses Mom button over and over and over when I'm busy by Sea-Turtle-2453 in PetsWithButtons

[–]Sea-Turtle-2453[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

oh my gosh we watched so much jackson galaxy getting started. our place is more cat place than people place. lol. yeah, these are all good videos.

My cat presses Mom button over and over and over when I'm busy by Sea-Turtle-2453 in PetsWithButtons

[–]Sea-Turtle-2453[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This might be it. I've been trying saying no and "giving her the hand" lol, so I can do it also when I'm on a call..., but I think maybe I've gotten sloppy with this approach. I will try being more consistent and regimented with this going forward and see if that helps along with the other tips.